Who will find you interesting if you don't know the inside story?

Most people who are not interested have low emotional intelligence.

Last night, my roommate told me a farce at the scene when I attended my cousin's school banquet. I felt the suffocating atmosphere of the scene through the screen.

Because my roommate's cousin didn't do very well in the exam, she only invited a few familiar relatives. Originally a harmonious dinner, because of a relative's words, it became extremely embarrassing.

Cousin didn't take over. Just when everyone thought it was over, the relative called her parents and asked in front of everyone, "How much did your daughter get in the exam?" She won't say how to ask her. "

Her parents had to answer their relatives' questions because of their face.

Adhering to the style of the last question, this relative kept asking questions in various ways for nearly three minutes. Everyone at the same table was in a hurry, and his roommate's cousin didn't say a word throughout the dinner.

Who will find it interesting to be a sharp-edged and merciful person?

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People who are not familiar with stories have no eyes.

When I was working in Beijing last year, several colleagues especially liked the Junior Idol group TFBOYS, and they often called themselves "Auntie fans".

For a while, several of us discussed the planning case in the conference room. Because it is an entertainment circle, it is inevitable to mention TFBOYS, and several colleagues have a hot chat.

At this time, another colleague, A, said half jokingly, "What is there to like about' dung'?"

At one time, the scene was very embarrassing. Several aunts thought of it and immediately defended their idols, but because of their colleagues, they didn't react too aggressively.

Only one of them said to colleague a, "don't say that about them in the future." It's disgusting for you to say that three children have worked hard. "

Unexpectedly, colleague A ignored her meaning and then said, "What efforts did the three of them make? They just looked better and were praised by the team. They are all in this business, and you are not ignorant. "

This time, several aunts couldn't sit still at all, yelling at colleague A. Instead, colleague A looked at her jokes and seemed to stir up a hornet's nest. Finally, he didn't forget to add: "Don't be so stingy, I'm just joking."

It may be just a joke to colleague A, but it hurts others unintentionally. Put yourself in others' shoes. If something you love is ridiculed by others, how will you react?

Who will find it interesting to ridicule others' love and ignore others' feelings?

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People who don't know the inside story don't know how to be measured.

Zhang Ailing once had a best friend, Yan Ying. When studying in Hong Kong and Shanghai, they slept together almost every day. They have supported each other for many years and are sisters.

But in the end, the friendship between the two people was shattered, because Yan Ying never knew how to be measured.

At school, in order to wake up Zhang Ailing, Yan Ying poured a pot of cold water on Zhang Ailing's head.

In Japan, Yan Ying kept bragging about herself in her letters, "doing billions of business with her poor Japanese";

In the United States, Zhang Ailing has been widowed for many years, but Yan Ying still boasts about her married life in her letters from time to time.

In her later years, Zhang Ailing lived a lonely and poor life, while Yan Ying wore gold and silver every day, dressed beautifully and boasted how beautiful and sexy she was in front of Zhang Ailing from time to time.

Similar to Yan Ying, people with tattoos are afraid of heat, people with apples have no pockets, people with watches like patting their legs, and people with gold teeth like grinning.

They show their Excellence all the time in order to get the supreme sense of accomplishment from others.

Such people always base their happiness on others. Perhaps in Yan Ying's view, they are sharing happiness, but for Zhang Ailing, it is not necessarily naked ridicule and contempt.

Who will find it interesting to lose a friend's morality when he needs comfort most?

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Many people have probably met the following kinds of people:

○ Self-righteous, a teacher, keen to evaluate what others have done;

○? Take pains to transform others, always hoping that everyone will act according to their own code of conduct;

○? Pour cold water on others' enthusiasm and destroy others' happiness with cruel "truth";

○? Ask others' private affairs rashly, including feelings and income.

Usually these kinds of people will make us inevitable, and one or two will suddenly pop up around us. They always think they are funny, but they are disgusting unintentionally.

Wilde once said, "There are too many beautiful faces and too few interesting souls in this world." Everyone wants to have an interesting soul, and everyone wants wisdom in his humor, so opening his mouth can make people smile.

But the premise of being an interesting person is not to be an insider first.

When dealing with people, you should learn to respect others' feelings, and don't embarrass others because of your own behavior. Even if you exhort others, you should consider more tactful and appropriate expressions.

People who don't embarrass others or themselves are well-informed.

Interesting is obviously much simpler than interesting. Instead of trying to be an interesting person, try to be an interesting person first.

What's more, people are comfortable, and they can't say where they are comfortable. Such a person is far more worthy of being close than an interesting person.

Fun makes people happy, and fun makes people face. Fun is fun first.