Too much hardship is a legend for successful people, a past for the public and a joke for losers.

# Do adults like to hide their sufferings in their hearts #

Since a person is sensible, since he can remember, there have been happy things, sad things, hard things that people face alone, things that people remember and sigh. When they are teenagers, they may remember that we will tell outsiders. When they are adults, how many people silently bury the hardships they have experienced in their hearts, because it has nothing to do with others.

But suffering is for different people, just in different ways.

First, the hard past of successful people is their legendary inspirational story, which will become a classic and a myth that inspires others.

Any successful person will have a very inspirational legend, which is the most difficult time in his life. He also looked on coldly and questioned constantly, but they finally succeeded, so their hardships became legendary inspirational stories, classic myths that inspired others, and a colorful story in his biography.

How many professionals will hear the legendary story of the company's boss? These are the necessary materials for corporate publicity and the means to attract candidates and attract talents. How many stories about the hardships of those successful people on bookshelves have become legends for sale, and how many stories about the hardships of successful people have been mentioned and publicized by the media and professionals again and again.

Successful people always bring their own BGM no matter what occasion they appear, because the hard past seems to be possessed by Buddha's light. They can tirelessly tell different people about their bitter days, how to face the hardships at that time, how to overcome the difficulties and finally seal the gods. The listeners all applaud and regard them as the standard.

The hardships of successful people are always just legends.

Second, for the masses, the hard past is just a group of memories in my heart, which has been in blowing in the wind and no one remembers it.

Less than 2% of the successful people, more than 90% are for ordinary people, for ordinary us. Our life can't escape the darkest moment of life, and the hard past on the road.

The sufferings of the masses are not seen by outsiders. Tell outsiders that people say you are melodramatic and no one will help you. Maybe others will stand by and watch you suffer with interest, while some people will throw a few pieces of backwardness in your low situation when you are already in a difficult period.

The hardships of the masses will not appear on the legendary nobles. You have to use all your strength to face, fight and solve, maybe it's a scar, maybe it's worse, but you can only stick to it. All this, you dare not tell outsiders, nor can you tell outsiders.

The hard work of the masses in the past, but life in the past, a person silently remember for a long time. If the smoke goes with the wind, no one remembers.

Third, the hardship of losers is a joke in people's hearts after dinner, so laugh it off.

How many winners there are in life, how many losers there will be, and the hardships of losers' lives are well known, because the public is the crowd of onlookers who see that you are in trouble and don't lend a helping hand.

Be beaten across in the tribulation, lose all opportunities and fighting spirit after the tribulation, choose to lie flat after the tribulation and choose to muddle along. As a result, your past was legendary by onlookers and became the talk of the public after dinner. It has become their experience in teaching future generations and a joke in their mouths. After they laughed, they laughed it off.

The loser may be temporary. If he succeeds, he can fight back and become a legend. Maybe he chose to suffer silently. He solved it alone and went with the wind. If he sinks, he will only become a joke and make people laugh.

It may seem bitter at the time, but it's nothing if it breaks out. It's just that the situation at that time will let you see through the changes of human feelings, the sinister people's hearts and the sinister world. Therefore, no matter how difficult it is, no matter how difficult it is to communicate, adults choose to silently bury themselves in their hearts and be inhuman to outsiders.

The past is hard for the public, just the past, disappearing in time and nobody cares; For the loser, it's just talk after dinner and laugh it off; For successful people, it is a classic handed down by the public and is regarded as a standard to encourage more latecomers.

More adults, who have experienced more hardships in the past, may just cry unwillingly after being drunk or laugh inadvertently or intentionally when they are happy. Usually, it just hides quietly in their hearts, will not be touched, and does not want to be known by others.

All the hardships must be faced and solved by yourself. No one else will care. They just want to see you suffer from all that suffering. Therefore, no matter how hard it is, adults know that they can only bear it silently and move forward silently.

Everyone, like Sisyphus, keeps pushing forward life, constantly facing difficulties and problems and solving them again and again, so this is the real life.