Why do many women not want to get married now?

1. Physical insecurity: The same applies to working overtime until after ten o'clock. Whether girls are traveling on the bus or driving by themselves, the risk of encountering violent assault after dark is much greater than that of men. , it’s even harder to imagine what happens when you encounter trafficking.

2. Insecurity in the workplace: When women encounter ulterior motives in the workplace, they must either resign or use their parents’ relationships to solve it. It is difficult to solve these problems without breaking the bones. . As for legal channels, it is hard to imagine that, at least in China, even very formal companies do not have relevant education on sexual harassment in the workplace after joining the company. Of course, maybe boys also have similar problems.

3. Insecurities in public opinion: dinosaurs, leftover women, strong women, housewives, gold diggers, princess disease, tomboys, neighborhood committee aunts, anyway, there is always something in life that will be detained accidentally The fear of being criticized every day in society for being a bad person.

4. Inadequate social welfare: The amount of alimony after divorce in China is a joke. Therefore, before going home to be a housewife, you must have the confidence not to divorce for a lifetime or to return to society in a minute. go. As for the discrimination against women of childbearing age in the workplace, I don’t even bother to talk about it. In the process of evolution, men provide survival materials, while women are dependent on men and must ensure that they will not be abandoned.

With the serious domestic preference for boys over girls and unhealthy education models, girls are often neglected and even emotionally and physically abused during their teenage years.

Lack of unconditional love and acceptance, no self-awareness, chaotic self-perception, and self-perception based on the evaluation of others. Because of lack, they spend their lives searching for love, relying on the attention of others to identify themselves, and having unresolved trauma wreak havoc on intimate relationships.

Having been hurt, betrayed, and abandoned by someone you loved, you have changed your perspective on intimacy, no longer trusting others, and focusing on not being hurt again.

Surveys show that more than 60% of Chinese people have an insecure attachment type, and society has different requirements for men and women. Various factors lead to women generally lacking a sense of security in intimate relationships.