The influence of parents' words and deeds on their children

Sunday ~ weather: cloudy

Parent-child diary ~ 194

Parents' words and deeds have a great influence on their children. Everything that parents show in front of their children will be transformed into their body, soul and spirituality bit by bit. This internal impression determines the future development trend and health status of children.

My cousin came to my house with his 9-year-old cousin this morning. At lunch time, the little guy and his daughter helped to carry plates and chopsticks, which was a good job. During the dinner, I put his favorite "braised pork ribs" in front of him. Before the little cousin began to eat, everyone shared a piece, and he began to eat. He said humorously, "Let's share it together." I asked my cousin how old she was and when she became so sensible. Cousins said with a smile: "A little over 4 years old, habit becomes nature."

Imitation is the basic source of human behavior. Children will accept everything their parents say and do. When a child is young, you shout twice and he listens to you. But when his self-awareness becomes stronger and stronger, and gradually forms his own internal values, he will question your words and deeds. So no matter when and where, please pay attention to what you do, because there are always a pair of innocent eyes watching you silently around you.

There is a joke that a child was called a stupid bird by his mother because of his poor grades.

The child said unconvinced, "There are three kinds of stupid birds in the world. One is to fly first, and the other is too tired to fly."

Mom asked, "What about the third one?"

The child said, "This kind of thing is the most annoying. If you can't fly, you will lay eggs in the nest and ask the next generation to fly hard. "

Children's words are boundless. If children want to be excellent, parents had better strive for perfection, set an example in front of their children and do their best.

The way parents speak, do and think directly affects their children. In a sense, parents are shaping their children all the time. Therefore, only good words and deeds can really help children grow up.

Class 3 of Kuiwen Experimental Junior High School 17 Zhai Jingting's father