Why do women ask men to have a house and a car when choosing a spouse?

As a girl, I think it is not too much for women to ask men to have a house and a car when choosing a spouse. If a boy can't think of both, he can find a girlfriend. Where should his girlfriend live? How do they survive?

Are girls unrealistic about boys? If women don't even ask for a mate, it is realistic to think that a boy must have a house and a car. I think this boy is also a very realistic person. Most of the demands made by girls are sometimes a temptation, and your expression is intuitively included in the assessment scope. And think that the reality of girls shows that your idea is also realistic, otherwise how can you think of this layer?

A boy has his own house and car, but he can't ask his wife to choose a spouse. The requirement is that the man has a house and a car. So what else is there in him worth following for girls?

This society is unfair to girls and women themselves. Many workplaces require women to be married or unmarried. What about married women? If she stays at home after marriage, her mother-in-law will think that she is from Mi Chong. On the contrary, if she goes to work, her mother-in-law will think that she is not taking care of her family properly.

Nowadays, it is very simple for girls to choose a spouse. If you ask her to have her own job in the future and can't take care of her family, then I think the requirement for a girl to choose a spouse can be changed to: the man can have no house or car; If it is unrealistic to ask girls to do what they want after marriage, why should they be scolded by boys?