We Chaoshan girls

We Chaoshan girls are very cute, such as me, hahahaha.

Speaking of the most foreigners in Chaoshan area, it is said that there are many gods in your place, as if there are many fewer natural disasters in your place than ours, and then Chaoshan people will involuntarily talk about the gods here, and we are all blessed by our owners. Ha ha ha ha, familiar smell? Yes, that's my hometown. You can meet many of your own people outside. It feels good. Chaoshan people are everywhere.

Carnegie said something to accompany me on this special day. Sometimes I really thank these talented people whose handwriting can read my heart. I am well aware of my responsibilities, but I can only slow down and let the children wait for me ... because some people are really happy.

Speaking of children, every married Chaoshan woman should have a boy. I don't even know what logic this is. Fortunately, my life is good, because I may destroy the galaxy, so there is a child who is particularly hard. Fortunately, I got a boy at once, hahahaha, both children are boys. Then it's a pity that I married a greedy man, and he still wants me to have children. No matter how angry I am, he still wants me to have children. It's a good thing I gave birth to a girl this time, otherwise he will nag me to death in my life. Because the concept that has been implanted in Chaoshan girls is to marry a chicken with a chicken, and to marry a dog with a dog, and it is a lifestyle in which men are outside and women are inside. There are many ideologies and lifestyles in his big family, which makes it really difficult for me to integrate. Because you marry such a person, you have to live with his lifestyle. The originally happy Chaoshan girl gradually forgot the taste of laughter because she entered the marriage hall.

It is said that women are made of water. Describing every married Chaoshan woman is really nonsense. For example, my mother-in-law, I can see that she is not easy. She has to deal with all the customs, and I am sure I can't help, because I really don't understand and I can't learn. I doubt God, and I fear God. I was born in Chaoshan, and I really acted like a Chaoshan woman. Because I don't know anything about these things, before I got married, my mother told me that you haven't learned it yet. What should you do when you get married? I answered her willfully, and there was no rule that it must be a woman. Should two people be responsible for each other? My mother said, then you have to meet someone who is as willing to help me as your father. I will definitely marry someone who wants to share everything with me in the future. Because my father is an honest man and doesn't talk much. Although his ability to make money is limited, he really doesn't have the male chauvinism of our Chaoshan men and is willing to help anything. Really, his charm is beyond the reach of many Chaoshan men. Maybe some women think that men who are willing to help are afraid of their wives, so you are wrong. They love their wives. Such a man is a really smart man. Because I always believe that a man who really loves his wife will have a successful career, otherwise his luck will not be bad. But nothing is absolute, it's just my personal opinion. Although my father really can't share it for my mother in other ways, the love between my parents can be said to be different from ours. Faced with all kinds of life, my mother sometimes spits on me and loses her temper with my father. It's just that my mother is an optimist by nature. No matter how bad things are, they will turn into good things when they arrive at her. Think of good things when it's bad, and life will go on. Actually, I'm greedy. The person I have been looking for is someone who can have a hall and a kitchen at the same time. Do not have the male chauvinism of Chaoshan men. I think a man who can cook and do housework is really handsome. If he is self-motivated, willing to work hard to make money and determined to make his life better and better, then he is simply handsome. How can there be girls who don't want to get married?

What Chaoshan women fear most is the broken marital pattern. I am responsible for the birth and care of the child, and then my family name will be yours. Fortunately, our Chaoshan area is basically the same surname. Otherwise, I will die of psychological imbalance. In this big family where I am married, there are really many ideas that are out of tune with me. Men are the hardest, they have to be responsible for making money to support their families, and it is not easy to work outside. So is it easy for us Chaoshan women? How many unknown things have we sacrificed? Who will compensate us? The world of adults is not easy for anyone, okay? Why do women still live in the secular past in their eyes? Shouldn't that bad atmosphere be changed? Equality between men and women is easier said than done. Under such circumstances, I can only remain silent forever, because everything I say is wrong, so I don't waste my breath. After all, everyone has different ideas. I can't force them to agree with me. After all, I don't want what they want to impose on me. Different views and mutual respect are the best way to get along.

Education from a family is really important. No wonder now more and more people realize that it makes sense to be suitable for each other. I have self-knowledge since I was a child, birds of a feather flock together, and people are divided into groups. I am a girl from a poor family, and I know many things. In this secular society, many things have been secretly priced. I don't want to sacrifice myself again and again for money, because some things can't be bought by money. Although those things are worthless to some people, they are really important to me. It's just that I won't make money and will be looked down upon by some people. I accept it. I really don't have a high degree and my ability is insufficient.

There is a kind of sadness in the world that can't cry. This kind of sadness cannot be explained to people, and even if it is explained, people will not understand it. It will never change, just like snowflakes quietly deposited in my heart on a windless night. My soul can find a home in my favorite words. haha

I still remember that I was happiest when I was studying. In our Chaoshan area, many people will advise girls, why do you read so many books? Better find a good man to marry, or it will be difficult to find a good home when you are old. I didn't do very well in the senior high school entrance examination, because I had been chasing idols at that time, and then I went out to study in a social university smoothly. At that time, because of the slow speed, I couldn't make any money and dared not enter the factory. So my first job was to see a clothing store, which really suits me, because I am also a Chaoshan girl who loves to brag. So I like it very much and I am very happy. It's just that I'm really simple Maybe it's because I study deeply, not Doha. Life really made me suffer a lot. Later, based on the common problems of Chaoshan girls, at a certain age, there will be three aunts and six grandmothers to introduce you. /kloc-when I was 0/7 years old, I saw many girls of the same age falling in love. At the age of "Seeds of Love", there are people who like you, and there are people who like you, just enjoying it. I just don't want to open my heart, so I really don't fit in that environment, so I don't fit in with many people. There is also a boyfriend to pick up after work, and a boyfriend to take care of when you are sick. Before I married my husband, I had my first love, but it was not love, but an illusion of love. Fortunately, I lost my way and knew what kind of person I was suitable for. I like my husband's sense of practicality. It's just that after living in family of origin for so many years, there are still many ideas that are alien to me. In his three views, he is more or less influenced by his family background. Most of the time, he doesn't understand me, and I don't understand him. It is said that the best love is mutual understanding. I used to believe that love is eternal, love in literature, love in film and television dramas. But when I got married because of love and really entered the marriage, I realized that love would become a family relationship bit by bit in the daily necessities, and then it would fade away because of the chicken feathers in the place where I live. Only two people who understand each other can make the chicken feathers of this place into a feather duster and accompany them from beginning to end. When they are old, they can also generously hold each other's hands and enjoy the clouds together. It's just that who really meets such a little luck. Because the chemical love has a shelf life, the length of time really varies from person to person. Personality is really important, which is what I value most when I get married. Because people in this world have ulterior motives, which is really terrible. Because I witnessed a lot of indifference in the days when I was looking at the store outside. I betrayed my innocent girl because of money, and my husband and wife turned against each other because of money, many, many. Tell me in the secular time that love is not eternal, and we must rely on each other's management and efforts to think about eternity. It is in a close competition that you can reap eternity. Gone are the days when I watched the shop outside, and then I opened a shop outside with my husband, so I was really lucky to find the Chaoshan girl I forgot in the corner. This is me!

I am not a wife, a mother, a sister-in-law or a daughter-in-law. I'm just myself. Putting aside those labels for a while, I found the real me back. Chaoshan girls are generally cute, but they are not cute most of the time in life. Do Chaoshan men think the girls around you are cute? If you are not cute, you have to reflect. In fact, what I want to say is that a family is a cooperation between men and women in order to win. It is the two of us who get the certificate, and the ups and downs of life should be shared by both of us. I didn't get married to avoid the wind and rain, nor to meet the wind and rain. The world of adults is not easy. Two adults are born out of love, and they form a family together, not to keep warm. Why do we Chaoshan girls want to become Chaoshan women, and at the same time encounter some storms caused by you? Obviously, I want to find someone who can rely on each other. What I yearn for is to face the ups and downs of life together, work hard to make money together, and take care of and educate the children together, instead of living far apart. So what is the significance of women's marriage?

It's just that the focus of family care can be more on women, but will you men appreciate that we women have sacrificed so much precious time to have children and take care of our families? Why do some people say that men become bad when they have money? Because the temptation outside is too great. In our Chaoshan area, many men who make money really have the confidence to marry a little wife. There are countless others. I have seen many such things outside before, so do men really dare to promise to love you only in this life? I used to believe everything, but now I know there is, but it really depends on luck. I will definitely educate my children to update synchronously in the future, treat the people at the bedside well, and bear the dribs and drabs of life together. I know I'm particularly immature. There will also be many characteristics of Chaoshan girls. After all, I am a Chaoshan girl. I also chose to get married after listening to the marriage view of Chaoshan women, but I can meet anyone. Just three different views. I dare not say that I am not wrong about the contradictions and disputes caused by different views.

Now I can bring up the past with a smile, and then many things are laughed off.

That Chaoshan girl can still laugh like a child. I relived many children's songs of the post-90s generation with childlike innocence. Listening to their words, I really think that being a person is the most naive only when I was a child. She can laugh happily if she wants to cry.

When thinking about children, you can turn over the photos of children countless times, sometimes with tears in your eyes and sometimes with your mouth raised. Mom really wants to take you out to see the world, but she doesn't have the ability yet. Mom is an example, an ordinary person who is idle at home. I hope my Chaoshan children are happy and healthy every day.

That Chaoshan girl is still that Chaoshan girl, but after the precipitation of time, there are a little more traces of life. I hope that many customs in Chaoshan area can be updated with the changes of society, but the gods we worship should remain original. God bless, please bless the people I love and the people who love me all my life. Borrowing the mantra that Chaoshan women respect god, the master keeps the title, and the adults and children are smooth at the end of the year. I only know this sentence, unqualified Chaoshan woman.

That Chaoshan girl, have you become a lovely Chaoshan woman?