It's not that you don't want to make progress, but that your knowledge is too short.

In ancient times, two beggars discussed what the emperor had for breakfast. A beggar said that the emperor was so rich that he would definitely eat a steamed bun for breakfast. Beggar b looked at him disdainfully and said, terrapin, nonsense. The emperor must eat two steamed buns for breakfast.

Of course, this is just a joke, but many times we are like these two beggars in life. We aim at two steamed buns, thinking that life is nothing better than this, which only adds a little comfort to our lack of progress.

Many people have never even left their small counties. People in northern Guangzhou are more exclusive and look down on us at all. There are still some people who have never even left their provincial capitals, and always talk about the United States and the happiness of the imperial people.

Through these two viewpoints, they completely rationalize the fact that they are afraid to go out and have no ability, and blame others and the environment. Anyway, it's not my fault.

Whenever your focus is outside, you close your heart and lose the possibility of knowing the world.

02

I have a classmate who was a punk in high school. He smoked all day, held a broken guitar and hummed, sitting at the gate of the girls' dormitory flirting with his sister.

Later, I built a band called ‘ZBF'. I don't know what it means. Seriously, I was completely pretending to be 13, and I couldn't play a few complete songs until I graduated from high school.

A pair of ignorant looks, but also keeps saying that he wants to fight for art all his life. It is really helpless to his parents and angry with his teachers.

After graduating from high school, his family paid him to run a 20-rate university in Beijing. When he got to school, he didn't forget to take his broken guitar and went to Beijing by train.

When he first entered the university, he was still bohemian and cynical, and then something happened to change him.

Today, he is an excellent music teacher with various certificates and his own art training school. The prodigal son of that year became the principal.

I asked him what made him start studying hard.

He said that when he was in college, he was introduced to join an off-campus band and began to go out to pick up some Shang Yan.

At first, because of poor technology, I was only responsible for handyman.

He stressed that several of the band's main players are also students, about his age, but with much higher skills, and they insist on studying hard for several hours every day. This stimulated him.

After getting acquainted, he found that the performance income of several major bands was quite high. After each performance, when he gets paid, he will take them to eat and drink. He seems to have tasted the sweetness of "eating meat in a big bowl and drinking big scales to divide gold and silver".

As a student, he suddenly realized that playing guitar is not just for flirting with girls.

From then on, he began to practice hard, and he has persisted to this day.

He said that every time I slack off now, I will go out and find a few people who are better than myself in the industry to study together, and my motivation will be enough at once.

He stressed that the reason why he didn't make progress at school was that he had never seen a cow.

03

My cousin's children are all in junior high school now. At the last family reunion, my cousin asked me that our boy was not interested in anything. What should we do?

In my opinion, whether you are interested or not is related to how much you know. You are not interested in anything. After all, you have seen and tried too little.

You haven't seen others play games with straight eyes and sleepless nights, so it's hard for you to be curious about the game; You don't have to go up and play two games to experience it, and it's hard for you to indulge in it.

I like other fields as well.

In the year when Ding Junhui won the world championship of snooker, billiards became popular among ordinary people in China.

You ask many young people why they like playing billiards. He will definitely say that playing billiards like Ding Junhui is so cool.

This is the effect of sensory stimulation.

Interest cultivation in any field has a process of knowledge-trial-proficiency.

Therefore, if you want to find your own interest, you must first expand the area of sensory stimulation, that is, learn more, then find a few projects with feelings, and finally choose one or two projects to be proficient.

Yun-peng Yue will make you fall in love with cross talk, Sun Yang will make you fall in love with swimming, Deng will make you fall in love with piano, magic, Wang Han will make you fall in love with host and acting.

The premise is that you understand with an open mind.

But I have to say that the real stimulus must be much better than the effect on TV. No matter how beautiful the villa you see on TV is, it can't replace the feeling of walking around the villa.

Therefore, we should choose to attend some art exhibitions, concerts, forums, lectures in professional fields, visit some professional Daniel, and so on.

The same is true of cultivating children's interests. Show him more about the outside world. You can't cultivate the hobby of piano and let him face math problems every day.

This is why the more confused we are, the more confused we are, and the more we have to go out for a walk.

But at this time, we must go to a crowded place instead of looking for the feelings between mountains and rivers. It's no use.

Mr. Lu Xun said that a bowl of hot and sour soup is not as good as tasting it yourself.