Why do some women no longer crave love?

Love is a two-way trip, not a person's persistence.

there are eight bitterness in life: birth, old age, illness and death, love parting, resentment for a long time. The first four are involuntary, and the last four are all based on personal practice.

There are thousands of forms of love, but the ending of love is very simple, either you care about each other or you forget about each other.

it is naturally everyone's expectation and yearning to stay together, but passing by and parting ways will always come unexpectedly.

Many people, like moths to a flame, are caught in the whirlpool of feelings: some talented people meet beautiful women, some Lori loves uncles, some harps and songs, and some enemies don't get together.

Just because we met so beautifully, we fell in love with each other hopelessly at the moment when our eyes met, regardless of the great difference in age, status and identity. Love is love, even if it breaks with relatives and friends, even if it is not tolerated by the whole world.

when the passion for maintaining love is gone, when the initial oath becomes a joke, and when the person who keeps saying that he will love himself all his life turns to love others, he finds that love is a two-way trip, and his wishful thinking is futile.

The longest love is that two interesting souls attract each other for a long time. No matter how many years have passed, it is still like meeting for the first time, full of joy and happiness, full of certainty and nature.

The failed emotional experience and subsequent attempts also ended in failure. Many women began to stop looking forward to love, let alone marriage. For the rest of their lives, they will follow their fate, do not expect love or marriage, and live a good life every day.

2

I figured out what I really want.

Jane Austen, an English woman writer, is regarded as a writer as famous as Shakespeare. Her novels are set in rural life and show the style of an era. Austen is unmarried for life, but in her literary works, the heroines all have happy endings, which seems to make up for the regret of her own love in reality.

The film Being Jane Austen tells the reason why she never got married: Jane Austen, who loves writing, met a talented young man who came from the city for a holiday in the countryside, and they were attracted by each other's talents and fell in love. However, young talents rely on their uncle's support to continue their studies. If they stay with Austin, they will lose everything.

In the face of the fierce game between life and ideals, Austin wavered: she didn't want her boyfriend to ruin her future as a judge because of love, and she didn't want to have to give up her hobby of writing because she became a housewife after she got married.

She said goodbye to her boyfriend who ran away with her, and then refused a proposal from a squire's children. She devoted all her enthusiasm and energy to writing and wrote a rich and wonderful life with her family.

A woman who doesn't want to get married is not unwilling to try love, but understands her heart and has a dream that is far more important than pursuing love. Therefore, they will devote their limited energy to their dreams and persevere.

3

Life will not work, let alone love.

Life is full of glamour and warmth, and it is also full of triviality.

With the support of love, the triviality of a chicken feather is also a good opportunity to show love. If you cry bitter and tired, he will accompany you to clean it up. More reality is that life is only a trivial thing, and he will only turn a deaf ear when you shout bitter and tired.

the ideal love, not only the present, but also the poem and the distance. If it's just a struggle, forget it.

Just like in the TV series My First Half of Life, Luo Zijun met Lao Jin, a person who took good care of her: he offered to send Zijun to work; When I was invited to be a guest at home, I cooked with big bags and small bags, and repaired all the electrical appliances at home. He asked Zijun and his children to eat first, but he continued to repair electrical appliances.

In the eyes of men like Lao Jin, the obligation of husband and husband is to make money and work. As for the spiritual * * * is consistent with language and three views, it is not the focus of consideration at all.

But life is more than just living together. You buy rice, I buy oil, you cook and I wash dishes. Life is more about two people who have endless words, countless mutual recognition, and surprises of knowing each other.

The spiritual world is so different that it is not only impossible to make do with it, but also a lasting injury, and the final outcome is unacceptable. Like Xu Bochang, a teacher, and Liu Shufen, his wife, in the movie "Nothing to Ask", kindness can never be transformed into love. A marriage without love is the grave of two people.