My wife says "I have a cold", this is what a smart man would do!

(1)

Wife: I have a cold!

Husband: Oh

Wife: Oh, you are so big, you don’t care about me at all

(2)

Wife: I have a cold Got it!

Husband: Oh, then drink more water

Wife: Drink some damn water, water can cure a cold!

(3)

Wife: I have a cold

Husband: Have you taken any medicine?

Wife: I ate it, but I still feel uncomfortable

Husband: Oh, there is no other way, I can only carry it

Wife:...

The above scenarios are what we men often encounter. Similar scenarios include "Hubby, I have a stomachache" and "Hubby, I am so tired." If you don't reply to such questions or reply poorly, they will cause trouble. If your wife is unhappy and thinks you don’t care about her, what’s a better answer?

Routine: Respond to emotions and take action

1. Respond to emotions

I have a cold and feel very uncomfortable. I will tell you about my discomfort. But you didn't respond at all. Can I not be angry? This is what girls really think. So we first need to respond to her emotions and let her know "you know she's upset."

Wife: I have a cold

Husband: Oh, it must be very uncomfortable

Wife: Yes, it hurts a lot

Husband: Then it’s uncomfortable to talk.

Wife: Well, I have a meeting in the morning, so I’d better try to be a quiet woman and speak less.

Let the other person feel that you care by responding to your emotions. Many times, the other party does not want you to provide a solution. She also knows that the discomfort of a cold is unavoidable. Taking medicine cannot avoid the discomfort, and it will not be cured immediately. She just wants to get your care and get your care. After that, I gained psychological comfort.

2. Take Action

Responding to emotions is the first step, and then you need to take action. We often fall into a misunderstanding, thinking that there are some problems that you cannot solve, so we do not take any action. Any action, such as a girl saying: My aunt is here, I feel sick in my stomach. We may think, what can we do about this? You can only handle it yourself. But in the eyes of girls, this is indifference and cold-blooded. Therefore, we must take action at this time.

Wife: My aunt is here, my stomach hurts

Husband: Come, give me a hug, women are so hard...

Wife: Yes, everyone There are a few days in the month

Husband: You go and lie down on the bed, I will get you a hot water bottle to cover yourself

Wife: Well, thank you husband

Husband: You should move less these days, and my wife will give me more instructions to do the work.

Wife: Husband, you are so good!

At this time, as a man, you should pay more.

In fact, some people may say that such a small thing should be so complicated. Is it fake? I think it depends on whether you are sincere or not. When you were chasing her, I believe you were sincere when you did these things. However, after many years of marriage, you feel it is not necessary anymore. self. However, the passion of love is short-lived, and the long and tedious life after marriage is the main theme. If these small things are not handled well, in the long run, there will be nothing to say, and they will become strangers and have nothing to do with each other. If handled well, small things become beautiful memories in ordinary life.