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A calculating and disappointing marriage, brothers who are suspicious and complaining, what is Lu Yao's heart-wrenching life like?

Everyone in this world comes to this world with expectations; they will also leave this world with more or less regrets and regrets. As for regrets and regrets? Everyone is different, maybe it’s their lifetime wealth; maybe it’s the future of their children; maybe it’s because they can’t let go of their siblings; maybe it’s something wrong they’ve done in the past...

Among modern Chinese writers , there was such a person who passed away full of regrets and remorse, he was Lu Yao.

As a well-known peasant writer, Lu Yao seemed to have a glorious life, but was extremely miserable before his death. Because the three most important people in his life were not able to accompany him through the final journey of his life.

Lu Yao has three people he can't live without in his life - his wife who paved the way for him, his younger brother who is his spiritual support, and his most beloved daughter. But why did the few people closest to him turn against him and leave him when he was lingering on his sick bed? In fact, looking back at Lu Yao's life, we know that this is inevitable.

A marriage full of calculations and disappointments caused his wife to leave him

Lu Yao was born in a peasant family, but he has never been willing to be just a farmer. He wanted to escape from the peasant family. circle. If he wanted to leave the countryside, he had no other way out than studying. But under the circumstances, there was still a huge obstacle standing in front of him: he had no money to go to college.

After thinking about it, Lu Yao thought of his own advantages: knowledgeable, talented, and single. He once told Hai Bo his idea that he must find an educated youth. Because there is no local woman who can afford to send him to college? How could he go out without going to college? So, he made up his mind not to talk about relationships, but only as educated youth.

Aiming at this goal, Lu Yao met his later wife Linda. After the two of them got together, Lin Da did what Lu Yao thought and took money to support him in college. If a girl is willing to save food rations and not buy new clothes just so she can give a boy a little more money, she probably really likes the boy!

Linda did all these things for Lu Yao back then. According to the memories of Linda's friends, Linda had a relatively high salary back then, but was reluctant to buy herself a new piece of clothing, and even wore the same piece of clothing for several seasons. Young Linda gave all her passion and love to Lu Yao, even though Lu Yao didn't care at all.

The gap in identity and spiritual level makes them go farther and farther in their marriage. Linda, who comes from a family of intellectuals, has a stubborn and independent personality. She alone bears the burden of taking care of her daughter, contacting relatives and friends, and running trivial matters. A woman who was already weak was forced by life to become a "female man" who carries gas tanks by herself.

But Lu Yao didn't notice this. Even if you love someone again, you will be disheartened if your long-term efforts are not rewarded. After all, Linda was unwilling to endure this kind of life anymore, so she filed for divorce from Lu Yao.

But Lu Yao has always been very face-saving throughout his life. When he was young, he was often ridiculed by others because of his mother. This made Lu Yao value "face" very much throughout his life. For the sake of face, Lu Yao could smoke two packs of cigarettes that cost three yuan a day when the economy was in straits. (At that time, his monthly salary was only more than 30 yuan, and he had two packs of cigarettes a day. The monthly salary was not enough for him to smoke)

Naturally, he would not agree to divorce Linda. After all, if this matter spreads, not only will others laugh at her, but her daughter will also lose her mother. In this way, the two people, who were discordant in appearance and estranged in spirit, spent nearly ten years torturing each other.

Finally, Lu Yao signed the divorce agreement on the hospital bed. It is unknown whether Lu Yao expected his wife to change his mind when he was dying. All we know is that after Linda signed the divorce agreement, she flew away like a bird out of its cage without looking back, and even ignored her own daughter.

Endless suspicion and complaints turned the brothers against each other

When Lu Yao was growing up, there was another person he could not live without, that is, his younger brother, Wang Tianle. If Linda is Lu Yao's material support, Wang Letian is his spiritual support. Even at that time, Lu Yao wrote a book "Morning Starts at Noon" specifically for Wang Tianle.

The title of the article is immediately followed by the sentence "Dedicated to my brother Wang Tianle".

This simple sentence is enough to show the close relationship between the two brothers. However, family ties can also deteriorate.

Lu Yao was suffering from lung disease at that time, which was also a serious disease at that time. This disease is contagious. Wang Tianle had always been adhering to the attitude of brother, friend and brother, and continued to visit his brother. However, perhaps because he was afraid of being infected, Wang Tianle would take it seriously every time and wash his hands repeatedly.

Such things may not matter to ordinary people. But for a person who is about to die, this will be a very heavy blow - before he is dead, he is disliked by others, and this person is his biological brother. Lu Yao, who couldn't accept this incident at all, finally felt resentful towards his brother.

When someone dislikes you, you can even breathe wrongly. This was indeed the case. Lu Yao, who was gradually dissatisfied with his younger brother, began to recall the trouble his younger brother had brought to him. At that time, Lu Yao won the Mao Dun Literature Prize, but because he had no travel expenses to go to Beijing, his younger brother used his name to borrow money from others to collect the travel expenses.

But he always felt that he had not spent so much money. The more he thought about it, the more he felt that Wang Tianle had squandered some of the money. In this way, the long-standing conflict between the two finally broke out. Lu Yao and Wang Tianle eventually turned against each other, and even Wang Tianle did not attend Lu Yao's funeral again.

I can no longer accompany my favorite daughter

Lu Yao’s daughter is called, but looking at the name, you can feel Lu Yao’s love for her daughter.

Although Lu Yao has no love for his wife all his life, he has love for his daughter. Until death, the most worrying thing is the long journey. When Lu Yao was seriously ill and bedridden, in order not to leave any bad impression in his daughter's mind, although Lu Yao had to say Lu Yuan's birthday every day, he still endured it and did not meet Lu Yuan for four years.

Even when he was dying, he still hoped that his relatives could take good care of her. In fact, Lu Yao really loved this child. He was a lavish spender. Even when he was the poorest, he never touched the 10,000 yuan he left for his daughter.

Of course, love is a two-way street. His love for his daughter was neither in vain nor wrongly paid. He has also been thinking about his father's birthday, and has even prepared a birthday gift long ago, just waiting to give it to Lu Yao.

Unfortunately, before Lu Yao could wait for that day, he would never see the gift carefully prepared by his daughter again. When Lu Yao was buried, Lu Yuan cried so hard that he was out of breath. Finally, he begged his relatives to open Lu Yao's coffin, put the gifts he prepared into the coffin, and accompany her father for her.

Everyone’s life cannot be judged simply by “right or wrong”, especially when relationships are involved. For example, Lu Yao, from Linda's perspective, he was a Phoenix man, not a good husband, and ruined Linda's life; but if you think about it carefully, is it wrong for him to want to find a way out for himself?

There is nothing wrong with my brother's behavior. It is human nature, but if it were Lu Yao, wouldn't you be disappointed? However, at least Lu Yuan is the warmest light in Lu Yao's life and the last comfort in his life.

Although a person's life will always leave more or less regrets and regrets, but if there are still people who can be the light that dispels the darkness, then a life is enough, and incompleteness will be a kind of beauty. .