Bi Fujian's bitter knot

A pair of squints and a bad smile. Standing on the stage, he always pretended to be poor and amused. He is one of the hosts with the highest appearance rate in CCTV, Bi Fujian. However, few people know. Behind his smile, there is an unknown knot, and that is his daughter Jiao Jiao.

A happy marriage ends in a breakup.

1In July 1996, Bi Fujian's daughter Jiao Jiao was born. At that time, Bi Fujian was in the climbing stage of her career. 1in the autumn of 997, Bi Fujian created and planned the column Dream Theater, which later became the trump card of CCTV. The audience likes this black-faced, funny, rustic and grinning host.

Bi Fujian was busy with her career and neglected her equally busy wife. His wife engaged in news photography and won many photography awards, which was much more famous than Bi Fujian, who was unknown at that time. But after marriage, especially after having a daughter, she often runs around and goes home to take care of her daughter after taking photos. Being busy at both ends for a long time makes his wife physically and mentally exhausted.

In 2002, Bi Fujian's mother died of bronchiectasis. Father was hit and had a sudden cerebral thrombosis. Cause hemiplegia and paralysis in bed. In addition to recording programs, Bi Fujian has to think of his father, and it is even more difficult to take care of his wife and daughter.

In autumn of 2003, Jiao Jiao was hospitalized with pneumonia. At that time, Bi Fujian was filming in other places and couldn't come back. On that occasion, my daughter was hospitalized 10 days. After Bi Fujian returned to Beijing, Jiao Jiao, who had been afraid of injections, had no fear of intravenous drip.

The wife who took care of her daughter in the hospital 10 days collapsed. One day after Jiao Jiao was discharged from the hospital, his wife calmly said to Bi Fujian, "Old Bi, let's get a divorce."

The crack can't be mended. A week later. Bi Fujian and his wife agreed to divorce, and his daughter Jiao Jiao was raised by her wife. Soon after, his ex-wife told him that he and his daughter were applying for visas and would soon settle in Canada.

100 More than one overseas letter accompanied her daughter to grow up.

One day in May 2004, Jiao Jiao will fly to Canada with her mother. Early in the morning, Bi Fujian sent the mother and daughter to the airport. The car stopped outside the waiting hall and it began to rain outside the window. Bi Fujian took out an umbrella from the trunk and handed it to her daughter: "This umbrella was bought by my grandfather for my father, and he took it all the way to Beijing. Take it with you. Later, I saw that you thought it was dad who sheltered you from the wind and rain. "

A month later. Bi Fujian is arranging his father's treatment in his hometown. Jiao Jiao suddenly cried, "Dad, why did you give me a broken umbrella? Everyone laughed at me. I don't want to go to school anymore! " As she spoke, she burst into tears. His ex-wife took the phone and told Bi Fujian: After arriving in Canada, Jiao Jiao became less and less talkative because she couldn't communicate with others because of her language barrier, and her personality became headstrong ... It was raining today, and Jiao Jiao took the black umbrella that Lao Bi gave her to school, while all the other children were colored umbrellas. Her umbrella was laughed at by everyone, and she was already depressed and didn't want to go to school.

It rained again that night. Bi Fujian lives in his father's house in Dalian. He remembered the black umbrella he gave his daughter. At that time, Bi Fujian's family was poor and his school was far from home. Whenever he goes to school, he is most afraid of rainy days. If it rains suddenly on the road, he will get wet. At that time, he really wanted an umbrella. Once, on his way to school, he was caught in the rain again. I got sick when I got home. The first thing I woke up was to say to my father, "If only I had an umbrella!" " Father answered him word for word: "We must buy one! "A few days later, my father bought an umbrella with his monthly cigarette money.

Later, Bi Fujian was admitted to Beijing Broadcasting Institute. His father specially gave him a black umbrella and said, "Dad can't accompany you to Beijing, so let this umbrella shelter you from the wind and rain." Bi Fujian left the umbrella because of his father's words. When Jiao Jiao left. He gave the black umbrella to his daughter again.

Jiao Jiao is still young. Can she understand her thoughts? So, Bi Fujian wrote down these growth stories that he had never told his daughter in the mail, and asked his ex-wife to read them to her daughter. Unexpectedly, after listening to her mother's letter, my daughter was greatly moved, so she called Bi Fujian to tell her that she would accept this letter.

From then on, Bi Fujian insisted on writing emails to Jiao Jiao. In order to let her daughter know about her life. Whether it's business trip or work. He always carries a camera with him. No matter where I go. He will take pictures of local customs or interesting things he meets, and send an email to his daughter with some introductory words and feelings. The number of words in the daughter's reply has gradually increased. In addition to telling her feelings and thoughts, she sometimes mentions school life. On one occasion, Bi Fujian went to the mountains to record a program. The living conditions of poor children in rural areas made him very emotional. Just then, there was no computer at hand, and he found a pen. I wrote a letter to my daughter on the small table. A daughter who wants to be well fed and clothed. Knowing these experiences of her peers, she can choose to face life strongly. ,

Soon, Jiao Jiao took the initiative to write a letter to Bi Fujian, in which she kept a diary for a week. Bi Fujian looked at the joys and sorrows written by her daughter and was very happy.

In more than a year, Bi Fujian wrote more than 65,438+000 letters to his daughter, and they exchanged views on study, extracurricular activities and local customs. Through her daughter's reply, Bi Fujian felt that the child grew up day by day and became happy.

On New Year's Day in 2006, Bi Fujian received a greeting card from her daughter, which read: "Dad, I am proud that I am your daughter, not because you are the host, but because you helped me get an A+. Hey! "

It turns out that my daughter wrote a story about their three substitute umbrellas at school. At the end of the article, I wrote: "My black cloth umbrella, which is a bit shabby, accompanied my father to the north and south." When I left China, my father gave it to me. Although it looks out of date, I hate to throw it away. Because it is the continuation of our three generations of love! "

Daughter's Pride: Dad is Bi Fujian.

In August 2007, under the expectation of Bi Fujian, a Jiao Jiao flew back to China from Canada to visit him.

Lao Bi carefully looked at 1 1 year-old daughter, and the more she looked, the happier she became. He gave up all social activities to accompany his daughter. Jiao Jiao is very naughty. Lie in bed in the morning and let dad come and pull her out before she gets up. Watching Bi Fujian busy preparing meals in the kitchen, Jiao Jiao sometimes suddenly rushed up and wrapped his feet tightly around his father. Old Bi, who is held by her daughter, sometimes has a sour nose.

On one occasion, just after Bi Fujian cooked the meal, Jiao Jiao suddenly said, "Bi Fujian, you have worked hard!" Bow respectfully to him. Bi Fujian couldn't help laughing. He asked his daughter, "Why don't you call me dad, but my name?"

The daughter plausibly said, "What does it matter? Mary and I are good friends. I always call her by her name. Dad and I are good friends. Why can't we call you by your name? "

One day, Bi Fujian and Jiao Jiao played together. She jumped up and down and had a good time. Seeing her strong desire to perform, Bi Fujian tentatively asked, "Do you have the courage to show off?" Unexpectedly, my daughter replied, "I am Bi Fujian's daughter. What are you afraid of!"

In that issue of the Avenue of Stars, Bi Fujian brought Jiao Jiao to the recording scene. Jiao Jiao is very active. Singing and dancing, she ran to the stage and pulled her father to the stage. She reached a tacit understanding with him with her eyes. The old and the young cooperated tacitly, which caused cheers at the scene.

June 65438+ 10 16, 2008 is Bi Fujian's birthday. Jiao Jiao sent him a gift from Canada-a small umbrella. The greeting card said, "Dad, this gift was specially chosen for you. I hope it can also provide you with shelter from the wind and rain. "

Then his ex-wife called him. Jiao Jiao said that in order to buy this gift for his father with the money he earned, he dragged his car to find bottles in his neighbor's trash can every day after school, filled a box and pulled it to the garbage station to sell it until he earned enough money to buy this small umbrella.

Looking at that beautiful umbrella, Bi Fujian felt a warm current surging in his heart. He suddenly felt that his daughter had made him realize the value of life, and he thanked her.

Suffering