The poor son-in-law congratulates his old father-in-law on his birthday, but his mother-in-law refuses to serve the meal, and his daughter throws the bowl and leaves. What do you think?

My wife and I met and fell in love when we were in college. We have known each other for eight years and have been married for four years. My wife is very good, has strong working ability and is very virtuous and takes care of the house. I have always felt that being able to marry her is my greatest happiness. At the same time, I feel a little guilty about my wife. My wife’s family is in the city, and I am from the countryside. Yes, my father-in-law and mother-in-law were strongly opposed to us being together at first, but my wife never disliked me and resolutely chose to live a hard life with me. From then on, in order to prove myself, I worked hard and wanted my wife to live a good life.

When we got married, my wife and I only held a simple wedding, not to mention having our own house and car. After we got married, we started renting a house. After several years of struggle, we finally had some small savings of our own and bought a second-hand house. Although the house was not new, for both of us, we finally had our own house and our own home. My wife also has an older sister and a younger sister. Both of them are married to wealthy people. Only my wife lives a hard life with me. We are both self-aware and don’t have much contact with each other. After all, our expenses are not at the same level. superior.

Last week my wife told me that my father-in-law was going to celebrate his 60th birthday. My father-in-law’s family has never had a good impression of me. In order to behave better, I even bought a piece of clothing and some supplements for the elderly. . The total amount is almost 2,000 yuan. Spending this money to buy gifts is already tightening our belts. After all, we just bought a house and have almost no money on hand. But when I delivered the gift, I discovered that my sister-in-law and eldest sister had given me a red envelope of 6,000 yuan, as well as some foreign supplements. I felt very embarrassed at the time, and I also clearly felt that my father-in-law and mother-in-law had a much colder attitude towards me, and I was a little disappointed. But my wife comforted me and said: Don’t think too much, we just have to think about it. Some things are not measured by money.

There were a lot of guests that day. When we were eating, my mother-in-law told me that because there were too many people, I couldn’t sit at the table, so she asked me to sit on the sofa to eat. I didn’t think much about it at the time. Same. But I didn't expect that when my wife heard this, she immediately became angry, slammed the bowl on the table, and pulled me away. Along the way, she was very angry and said that she couldn't stand her parents' family looking down on me like this, and she also said that she would never go to her parents' home again. I was very touched by what my wife did, but I didn't want to cause any gap between my wife and her parents' family because of me. Are we really going to stop interacting with each other in the future?