My boyfriend always says that his girlfriend is ugly, and then he says it was a joke. What does this guy mean?

It depends on the situation, how you feel about yourself, or if you often show that you think you are good-looking in front of him, or if people around you think so, and he himself is not very good-looking, then he may be Out of suppression, this type of man generally hopes that his status is higher than that of the other person and that he has strong self-esteem. The second situation is that he is quite handsome, but subconsciously feels that you are really ugly and not good enough for him, and then vetoes such bad thoughts, but in fact he is telling the truth.

The third type of man is a mean-mouthed man who doesn’t know how to consider the other person’s feelings. He may really think you are ugly, but he is really joking and likes to see your reaction, even if he thinks you are not. Even if it looks good, I don’t care. Or maybe it was just a bad joke made by an immature boy.

There are other possibilities. After all, only he knows it. In fact, if you don’t like this situation, you can say it seriously and with a little anger when he says this. There is a limit to joking. You are always like this. Ask him if he would be comfortable if he were you, and see if he really feels that way. Let’s see the other person’s reaction. Tell the person clearly that you don't like it. The only way to deal with people with low emotional intelligence is to be straightforward