You also buy 300 yuan of skin care products after confinement. It is not easy for my son to make money. What should I do in the face of such a mother-in-law

Some readers left a message saying that during the special period of confinement, she was actually vomited by her mother-in-law: "Daughter-in-law, you still buy 300 pieces of skin care products for confinement. It is not easy for my son to make money? "

Here's the thing.

Shortly after Gu Cheng became a mother, her husband was immersed in the joy of being a father for the first time. This is their long-awaited baby who has been married for 3 years.

My husband is considerate to Gu Sheng and takes care of Gu Sheng in the second month. Gu Sheng can't find anything wrong, but Gu Sheng is very angry with her mother-in-law these days.

My husband must have asked her mother-in-law to take care of Gu Sheng's confinement. Her husband was afraid that Gu Sheng would not be able to sit for a month and was ill. Gu Sheng is cheerful, sweet-mouthed, not picky about food, and there is no contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. She often makes her mother-in-law feel that Gu Sheng is her own daughter. My husband is very pleased to see that their mother-in-law and daughter-in-law get along so well.

It is not easy for a mother-in-law to understand that her daughter-in-law is confined to the moon. Before coming from her hometown, she caught 10 old hen and bought 30 Jin of freshly slaughtered pork from her neighbor's house, all of which were organic food.

Mother-in-law stews chicken and stew meat every day, so that Gu Sheng can eat well. Mother-in-law knows that her daughter-in-law has eaten well and her grandson has drunk enough milk. Compared with the money for milk powder, a little meat is nothing at all

02.

During pregnancy, Gu Sheng basically did not use any skin care products, fearing that skin care products would cause harm to the baby. The previous skin care products are all on the dresser, and they are almost expired.

Now that winter is coming, Gu Sheng, who is confinement, feels that his face is peeling badly, and when he touches his skin, he feels ten years older. Gu Sheng, considering that she needs breast milk for one year, didn't dare to use the previous skin care products. She decided to find a classmate who makes skin care products and buy some products suitable for lactating mothers.

Although she is now confined at home, Gu Sheng also pays great attention to her image. She doesn't want to be a yellow-faced woman.

After consulting several classmates, Gu Sheng decided on the basic skin care products for nursing mothers.

Because he was a classmate, the other party confiscated Gu Sheng's money and only paid the cost price. After the classmate delivered the courier, Gu Sheng looked forward to the arrival of that set of safe skin care products every day, because her face was too dry to stand.

After receiving the courier information, Gu Sheng asked her mother-in-law to go down and help with the courier. It's windy outside, so mom can't blow it.

My mother-in-law excitedly agreed and took the courier home, but her face changed. The mother-in-law put the courier on the dining table and hid in the room to secretly call her son.

After watching the sleeping baby, Gu Sheng came to the living room to open the courier, but she heard her mother-in-law's voice. From her room, Gu Sheng could hear every word of her mother-in-law.

"Gu Sheng was still in confinement and didn't go to work. He actually bought a bunch of skin care products. I wonder how much it cost. I can't spend money like this! Besides, she is at home every day now, just you and me. Who are you dressing for? Is this not a joke? " The mother-in-law speaks to her son in dialect, and Gu Sheng especially hopes that she can't understand their dialect, because it's really hard to listen to her mother-in-law.

Before hanging up, the mother-in-law warned her son, "It is said that this daughter-in-law doesn't like it. The more she gets used to it, the more useless it becomes. Our generation needs nothing. Didn't you come? Watch your daughter-in-law. Don't wait for things to happen. Don't blame me for not reminding you. "

03.

Hearing her mother-in-law's words, Gu Sheng felt that she had crossed. It's 20 19 now. In her mother-in-law's cognition, it seems that a woman who likes to dress up is not a good woman.

If it weren't for the serious water shortage on his face, Gu Shengsheng was too lazy to buy skin care products to take care of himself. From the beginning of pregnancy, although she paid great attention to her image, the traces left by pregnancy on her body could not be stopped, let alone the traces after childbirth.

Gu Sheng has always felt that it is acceptable to gain weight as long as the baby is healthy and willing to drink his own milk and eat more soup and meat in the next month. After all, children are the most important, and you can still lose weight after giving birth.

The malicious suspicion and speculation of her mother-in-law on the phone made her unacceptable.

When my husband came back in the evening, he saw Gu Sheng with a straight face and probably knew that it was her mother's phone call during the day, which made her unhappy.

Gu Sheng pretends to be busy, but he just doesn't look at her husband. The husband held Gu Sheng's face in his hand and gave him a heavy kiss to comfort him: "Don't mind what my wife and mother said. Don't worry, my husband makes money for you. As long as you spend it happily, that's her husband's skill. My mother is used to scrimping and saving. Don't be angry with the old man. "

The husband's appeasement made Gu Sheng's anger disappear by half. "I bought 300 pieces of skin care products, and that's what your mother described me. I want to use this skin care product for half a year. Ask your colleagues and friends how many skin care products their wives have used. Any of my classmates is better than me. I spent 300 yuan and was buried by my mother-in-law. "

"Yes, my wife is right. I'll tell my mother after dinner so that she won't be angry. "

Husband washes his hands and greets everyone to have dinner together. Mother-in-law's face is still stiff and she is still spending money on skin care products for her daughter-in-law. This matter is still worrying.

Husband deliberately asked Gu Sheng: "Wife, how many skin care products did you buy today?" "

Gu Sheng glanced at her mother-in-law, wondering if she should answer truthfully. Her husband blinked, and Gu Sheng probably understood her husband's meaning. "I spent 300 yuan to buy it and let my classmates take it. Suitable for breastfeeding mothers, no harm to the baby. This is a very safe ingredient. "

My mother-in-law had a good meal, and when she heard that she had spent 300 yuan, there was nothing she could do. She put down the bowl chopsticks and said to Gu Sheng earnestly, "Daughter-in-law, you still spend 300 yuan on skin care products, but it's not necessary at all. You know, he is the only person in the family who makes money. You can't spend so much. It is difficult for him to make money. "

"Mom, the price my classmate gave me is already very cheap. I can't buy such a price outside. " Gu Sheng patiently explained to her mother-in-law.

"You see, there are three people at home in the confinement. You don't have to dress up beautifully, just hold the baby and feed it. " Mother-in-law continues to "educate" Gu Sheng.

"Mom, that's ok, Gu Sheng happy, this one can be used for half a year? There is not much money every day. " The husband quickly explained to his wife.

"What, bought after half a year? Sin, how much money you earn is not enough. "

04.

The meal ended in discord, and her husband always comforted Gu Sheng, but her mother-in-law's words became a knot in Gu Sheng's heart. Is it true that mother-in-law always does this? She is usually fine. As long as money is mentioned, especially when a daughter-in-law spends her son's money, she can't stand it at all.

The mother-in-law probably hopes that the daughter-in-law at home will not spend a penny on her husband, but also earn money to support her family and bring her own baby. She will always be beautiful and filial to herself.

Qiao Mu's emotional message:

I have to say that it may be because of the gap between the times that my mother-in-law's generation had a hard time and experienced a special period without food.

So naturally, they cherish every penny, which is understandable.

I remember a girlfriend once told me: One year on the Double Eleven, she bought five couriers. When the mother-in-law saw these express delivery, her eyes were straight, and she quickly secretly asked her son: Do these express delivery costs a lot of money?

The son calmly said that the daughter-in-law spent her own money and bought it at a discount.

The mother-in-law felt better when she heard her son say this.

Saving is one thing, but in life, what should be used should still be used. On the other hand, if it is the son who buys things and the son who spends money, will the mother-in-law say the same thing to her son? I don't know.

Fortunately, Gu Sheng had a good husband who was wronged by her mother-in-law, but her husband's comfort made her feel particularly comfortable. Her husband also tried to help his wife explain and help her out in front of her mother-in-law. Although it may not satisfy her mother-in-law, at least Gu Sheng saw her husband working hard.

In fact, Qiao Mu has always had a view that his son and daughter-in-law are married and they have formed their own family. If the young couple are financially independent, they don't need the help of the old people, and they don't want to spend their own money, so the old people don't interfere.

Except, of course, young couples who eat old people. I don't have any opinions about the old couple helping their parents-in-law pay their mortgage, buying a house, paying their mortgage and supporting their grandchildren. Old people interfere in the economy of young people because you can't even be independent economically. If you are entitled to enjoy it with the old people's money, you should be controlled by them.

For young couples who are financially independent, the elderly should pay attention to their own boundaries, let them live their own lives, and don't interfere, evaluate or alienate each other.