When others joke, people laugh. When I joke, it seems that everyone else is unhappy and will come back to me. Is my joke humiliating?

Of course, joking is exquisite. Speaking is an art, that is to say, the joke you played is sometimes not funny. Sometimes it may hurt people's dignity, so everyone will hate it

Sometimes when you are with others, you say what you should say, and you don't say what you shouldn't say. You can listen to what they say. This will also give you some experience. See what they say and do.

No matter where you are, even at work, you should watch every move, word and deed of others. You can learn a lot in this way. If you are not good at expressing these, you can buy some books about how to be a man. There will be some speech skills, which will increase your knowledge in this field.