In a word from my mother-in-law, I worked hard for a year to make a hardcover wedding room and turned it into someone else's wedding room. What did she say?

Wang Yun, sitting opposite me, has already become a cry baby. I don't know how to comfort her until she calms down. She cried for a while, picked up a tissue to dry her tears and began to tell me her story-

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She said that she had been with her boyfriend for eight years. If we hadn't broken up, we would have been married for six months now. However, not long ago, she got the news that her ex-boyfriend was married and the bride was not her. She can't accept it. She said that the wedding room she spent a year in hardcover turned out to be someone else's new house, but it was occupied by another woman. And all this, too sudden, too unexpected, the reason is so difficult to understand. ...

Wang Yun said that when she thought about those years when she was with her predecessor, her feelings were mixed and it was hard to say. Wang Yunhe and her boyfriend were high school classmates, and later went to college in different places, which was a long-distance relationship. The process of falling in love is particularly bitter and sweet, because it is very valuable to maintain this relationship.

After graduation, they chose to struggle together and work hard together. It was hard at first, and I rented a small house in the village in the city with my boyfriend. Now that her boyfriend is gone, she can't figure it out. Dream on, I didn't expect to break up anyway.

She went to the front space the other day and saw his wedding photos. He and that woman, that is, his wife, are extremely happy. More than a hundred wedding photos, one by one, deeply hurt her. She remembers being with him for eight years, and there is no trace in his space. No matter now or in the past, without a photo, she suddenly felt very sad and unworthy of love.

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My ex-husband's family conditions are superior. His family is in business and his parents are very busy. My ex-boyfriend grew up with his grandmother. Although he is not self-motivated and has a good temper, he is not very angry, but he is rather boring. In those years, I was considerate to her, but I loved playing games and lying. For this reason, she often mentioned him, hoping that he would change. But he didn't listen and thought he couldn't change, so they quarreled occasionally. But it's basically for his own good, and he can accept it without getting angry.

Wang Yun said that she knew that she was strong and bad-tempered, and sometimes she couldn't stand being wronged, because her family conditions were not good and she felt a little inferior and sensitive. After living in his house, she was always depressed and unhappy in the face of his mother's domineering attitude. That day, too, the house was already installed, and my mother-in-law went to see it, criticizing it indiscriminately and saying it was not good-looking. I felt that the money was not spent less and the effect was not very good. She cried sadly and felt wronged by her mother-in-law She worked hard to decorate, but they didn't ask. It's really hard to stare at the decoration. My mother-in-law said that she didn't spend less money, and she felt very angry. Then she said, "Then why don't you pretend?" I was really blind and didn't do anything. I should have known I wouldn't do anything. "My mother-in-law feels rude and ungrateful. She bought a wedding room and paid for the decoration. Instead of asking her to pay, she spent some time and energy. Besides, it's for her own decoration. She actually refuted her in one sentence. After that, I was so angry that my mother-in-law and daughter-in-law couldn't get along. So, let her son break up with her.

She is also stubborn, angry and angry with her boyfriend. At first, her boyfriend coaxed her, but she got angry when she didn't coaxed her well. She quarreled with him, saying that he was on her side without thinking of her, and then quarreled with her boyfriend. As a result, the two men had a cold war, and neither of them spoke to the other. There was no clear break-up, and in this way, after the scheduled wedding date, no one bowed their heads. Unexpectedly, I broke up by default.

Wang Yun said that in retrospect, it was still too dramatic. After the wedding, my ex didn't say anything to her, and people disappeared and there was no contact. Later, when she couldn't hold on, she found him, but he told Wang Yun that they had broken up. Wang Yun was suddenly confused, and it felt like a dream. Later, I learned that my mother had found the right girl. The girl's family also does business and is very rich. It is said that they met before breaking up with her. But because I was getting married, my predecessor disagreed. At the stage of their cold war anger, they came together again.

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Now that I think about it, maybe, those are just excuses, and the breakup seems to have been planned long ago. Wang Yun felt that the former people couldn't resist the attraction of new things, and her family really put a lot of pressure on him. She just gave him a cold war. The woman introduced to him by his family looks very young, gentle and obedient, and does not put pressure on him. Wang Yun thought his predecessor would like it.

Wang Yun said that when we are together, because of the poor family conditions, she seems to be more pragmatic, likes to earn money and has strong ambitions. My predecessor has been providing him with money because of his better family. But Wang Yun doesn't like it. She thinks they are still young, so she wants to rely on herself and spend her own money to feel at ease. My predecessor was a teacher. At that time, my salary was more than two thousand a month, and there was no welfare. Then he drove to work, and the gas money was not enough for a month. I don't know how he feels. Because of this, Wang Yun often praised him and hoped that he would make progress. So, she gradually dislikes her boyfriend. My predecessor said more than once that being with her was very tiring.

The wedding room was bought by her predecessor's family, but Wang Yun put a lot of effort into the decoration of the house, which almost took her a year. Mention this matter, Wang Yun choked up. She said: "Now, my satisfactory wedding room, the wedding room I decorated with all my heart, every decoration and every design contain my love and affection, but now I really live with another bride and become someone else's bridal chamber. How can I not feel bad? "

Wang Yun said that for a time, she dreamed every day, often dreaming about the dribs and drabs between her and her predecessor. The feeling after waking up is really painful, very painful ... eight years, and eight years of feelings are gone. I broke up with 19 for a year. Now she is 28 years old. I gave a woman all her best years, and it's still the same in the end.

Calm down, Wang Yun said, in fact, to tell the truth, she was also very afraid of getting married, and she was uneasy, and she always felt a sense of insecurity. Although they have been together for eight years, they have been together for eight years, especially in recent years, and she has not felt real happiness. Maybe she really doesn't want to marry him in her heart. However, now that we really broke up, her predecessor married someone else, but she regretted it to death. Is this state unwilling or unwilling? she does not know ...

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I told Wang Yun that breaking up seemed inevitable. Two people's ideas are so different. When they don't talk about marriage, they don't expect much from each other, but once they enter marriage, they will have different requirements and contradictions will arise. Moreover, there are great differences between the two families, the family is not right, and the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are not harmonious, which are all hidden dangers of marriage problems. Perhaps, in the eyes of her ex-mother, she never had a crush, and she had already found a more suitable candidate. So, a word is just an excuse.

But in any case, he broke up, and he was so anxious to get married, which showed that he didn't miss his old feelings, or that he didn't love them at all. So, you don't have to regret it. Be strong, live a good life, find your love, grasp it and make yourself happy.