Parents always quarrel in front of outsiders. What if I feel ashamed?

Indeed, anyone will feel humiliated, although we in China have always said that it is normal to quarrel for three days without fighting or loving. But as children, we still hope that parents can feel harmony and respect and quarrel at home alone. No one knows, although you will be sad and hope that your parents will miss others, fortunately you will not feel ashamed, but quarreling in front of others is different. You may feel ashamed, because you think others will say how disharmonious your family is behind your back and will look at your family differently. Based on this situation, you should not get into trouble with your parents, but do the following:

First of all, you should find out the reason for your quarrel. Only by knowing the cause and effect of the incident can we know who is right and who is wrong. Generally speaking, quarrels are caused by disagreement. You'd better not fan the flames, which will make things worse. Besides, Dad, you are wrong. In this case, because they are angry, you should persuade them carefully, or find someone your parents trust most to clarify things.

Secondly, when you get home, you should have a good talk with your parents and tell them your feelings and thoughts. I believe that every parent has a good face, and quarreling is just an impulse, so let them bear it.

Finally, if your parents are still the same, there is nothing you can do. You must be yourself. We say that although we are a family, we can still be ourselves, and don't always pretend to be ourselves for the sake of others' eyes. We should correct our bad behavior and learn from others' good behavior. This is a good interpretation of the threesome. Don't think that others will look at you like your parents, they won't, so you should do your best.