Who has the story of an ancient wife taking the initiative to ask her husband to take a concubine?

According to Shao Wenlu by Shao Bowen in Song Dynasty, Zhang Ruxiu, Sima Guang's wife, took the initiative to buy a concubine for him, but Sima Guang refused. The wife quietly put the beautiful concubine in Sima Guang's bedroom and went out by herself, but Sima Guang still refused to accept it.

The wife of Shi Kefa, a famous anti-Qing soldier in the late Ming Dynasty, also advised him to marry a concubine. Shi Kefa said, "Yin dares to be a child!"