A 40-year-old woman married a 25-year-old little fresh meat. What happened after marriage?

A joke that has been circulating on the Internet for a long time is that men are single-minded, and they will always like young girls regardless of their age and time.

This sentence is actually ironic and everyone should be able to hear it. Is this sentence correct? I think there is nothing wrong, but if you want to use this to belittle or ridicule a person or a class of people, then I really don't think it is necessary.

Many people regard this sentence as a mockery of men's "liking the new and hating the old", or just look at the external performance of appearance and surface.

But to be honest, if we change our gender, so will women. Women also prefer young little fresh meat to bad old men.

Love has no age. As long as men and unmarried women are unmarried and do not touch the bottom line of morality, public order and good customs, it doesn't matter who they like. It's normal and there is nothing to blame.

About liking youth, whether it is superficial or not, I think it is really superficial, but superficial?

Everyone is superficial. At first glance, people always look at the surface. They don't say to understand the meaning first. With the eyes and ears of the first feeling, we always look at what a person looks like first, listen to him, and then establish the first impression in their hearts. This behavior is superficial in itself.

Who doesn't like being young? Everyone likes it. Young means full of vigor and vitality, which means being in the heyday of life and full of vitality. Even if you have nothing, youth is capital. The simple, straightforward and angular character that is not overwhelmed by reality is often the most distinctive and precious.

When we get old, we all miss days of our lives when we were young. Maybe we like being young, not necessarily because we like young bodies, but because we want to find our mentality when we were young.

With young people, it seems that the mentality will change, giving people an illusion. It seems that they can really rejuvenate psychologically, make their mentality young, and their stagnant life seems to have begun to have vitality, making every day full of expectations.

Zhang Juan's (pseudonym) boyfriend proposed to her. A narrow platinum ring, though not so expensive, caused a stir in Zhang Juan's barren heart. When she told this story to her friends around her, she was unanimously opposed by her friends, who advised Zhang Juan not to get married for various reasons, but the final conclusion was that she was not optimistic about Zhang Juan's marriage.

Zhang Juan couldn't understand and was very angry: "They just can't see that I am excellent and I can find true love at this age! Still a young guy, yes, they are jealous. "

Zhang Juan was angry, and secretly vowed to marry them, to live better than anyone else, and to slap all those who didn't value their marriage in the face.

In fact, I can't blame Zhang Juan's friends for not being optimistic. Zhang Juan is 40 years old and divorced once, while Zhang Juan's boyfriend is only 25 years old and married for the first time. This is really not in line with the usual norms of our marriage, which makes it difficult to be optimistic.

Most importantly, Zhang Juan and her boyfriend have only known each other for less than three months, which is too short. As a person who has experienced a failed marriage, the plan to get married seems too hasty.

Zhang Juan doesn't think so. She felt that she had met true love this time. In his last marriage, a man in Zhang Juan had domestic violence. After eight years of marriage, Zhang Juan was killed, and later he was out having an affair. Zhang Juan stubbornly divorced her and took a man's house, including some property.

She has a child with her ex-husband. The negligence caused by the failure of their marriage led to the child's accident and died young at the age of four.

After the divorce, Zhang Juan opened a snack bar with the divided assets. Later, business was booming and two branches were opened in the city. She became a rich single woman with a car, a house and no children.

But Zhang Juan has always wanted to start a new family, but every time she meets a blind date, there are always men competing for her assets. Keeping a secret is talking about money, which makes her feel disgusted. At this time, her shop recruited a young manager.

The manager has a sweet mouth. He always kept his mouth shut in front of Zhang Juan, calling himself "Sister Juan" and making no secret of his love for Zhang Juan. He often praises Zhang Juan for her good maintenance, which is no different from her twenties.

This kind of sweet talk is very useful to women. Soon, the manager confessed to Zhang Juan, but Zhang Juan hesitated. After all, the other party is only 25 years old, and he is already 40 years old. This age difference is more than one round.

However, the boy said that he didn't care. Under the fierce offensive, Zhang Juan got together without knowing what had happened. Not long after they were together, the boy moved all his luggage to Zhang Juan's house and they began to live together.

During the period of cohabitation, the boy resigned and said kindly, "I have influenced your prestige in the store. I will cook for you at home and help you clean up the house until you get home."

Of course, during the three months of living together, the boy did the same thing, which made Zhang Juan think that he really found true love. The boy is young and humorous. Every time I was with this boy, Zhang Juan felt as if she had returned to her youth and forgotten her past and age.

Anyway, Zhang Juan agreed to the boy's proposal, and Zhang Juan paid all the wedding expenses. Soon they got married and got a certificate.

But only one week after marriage, Zhang Juan shouted that "tender grass" was not delicious.

After marriage, this boy is like a different person before marriage. Through the reason of marriage, he asked Zhang Juan for money every day, ranging from two to three thousand to tens of thousands. He goes out to splurge with friends every day, invites friends to dinner and have fun, and never comes back all day.

Not to mention the housework at home, the young boyfriend is not at home every day, and Zhang Juan has to help her husband clean up the messy home after a busy day.

"I suddenly feel that I am not married to a husband at all, as if I were a mother."

She told her husband to go out and find a class, but he always perfunctory her and didn't want to go to work.

Zhang Juan finally regretted it.

At 40, Zhang Juan married a 25-year-old fresh meat for the second time. Outsiders don't like it, only Zhang Juan doesn't think so. She thinks she knows exactly what she wants. With her boyfriend, she feels younger, and her boyfriend brings her some surprises from time to time. Although it was cheap, it also made her relive the excitement of having love and let her find her long-lost girl's heart.

She likes this feeling, which makes Zhang Juan feel that her life is full of new vitality. Only with this young man can she feel this. Being with a man of similar age and circumstances will only make her feel realistic and boring.

Even if she pays more for her boyfriend, she thinks it's worth it. After all, she is old, her boyfriend is still young, and life has just begun. She should support her boyfriend more and do more things.

However, after marriage, Zhang Juan found that this was not the case. Her boyfriend and her husband were completely different before marriage, and they did nothing at home. Every day, they ask Zhang Juan for money to go out to play with their friends and reach out for money.

Eat Zhang Juan, use Zhang Juan, don't want to have any pay, just want to live by Zhang Juan, let Zhang Juan suddenly found that he is not married to a husband, but became a teenager's "mother".

She is not only busy with her own career, but also has an adult son. After only a week, she complained and regretted it, and finally realized that "tender grass is delicious" is only the surface.

I want a divorce, but before I get married, everyone is against Zhang Juan's marriage. Zhang Juan got married in one breath and vowed to let outsiders live a good life. Isn't it a joke for outsiders to divorce so quickly now?

Zhang Juan, with a good face, wanted a divorce, but she was afraid to leave easily. Even if she really wants to leave, she can't leave so soon. Today's Zhang Juan can only muddle along in this marriage, and she doesn't know when this marriage will last.

Zhang Juan is a capable woman. In fact, she can live well alone. Even if she wants to find a second husband, she can find someone more suitable for herself and with better conditions. She has a house, a car, a deposit and no children, which is already very good in the second marriage conditions. As long as she wants to, she can live a stable and happy life anyway.

However, Zhang Juan chose the most difficult and uncertain road and got together with a young man.

Age is not necessarily a gap, but age is sometimes an insurmountable gap. It's normal to like youth and be attracted by the young opposite sex, but it's really difficult to get along with each other for a long time.

Nowadays, there are many marriage modes, such as "old man with few wives" and "old man with few wives". People always secretly ridicule "the old cow eats the young grass", but it is not shameful to like being young.

However, I also want to tell you that the age difference between husband and wife, the marriage is indeed unstable, there are many unavoidable hidden dangers, and there are too many unsolvable problems.

If two people really love each other, that's it. It won't be a big problem. What I am afraid of is that there are not many elements of love, and the proportion of real elements such as material is higher. One side just loves youth, and the other side just wants to get something for nothing, support interests and use each other. That's a big problem