"Stubborn mother and son" confronted each other in the street, only less than 3 meters apart. Netizen: No one will let anyone.

It used to be said that children were "little bullies", but now children are not bad. As a parent, you must have met a situation where your child was spoiled and cheated. For example, when children are taken to the streets, when they see delicious and fun things, their emotions often can't be controlled, and they always pull their parents to buy this and that. At this time, parents certainly can't completely obey their children. As soon as you disagree, the child's temper will come up, making parents angry and funny.

Children playing tricks on others is a headache for parents. Many parents have studied at home and outside. At home, at least it's "family affairs". When you are outside, it is also related to the parents' face to let the people who eat melons watch. That was not the case. Recently, a group of pictures of "tug-of-war between mother and child on the street" became popular:

In the picture, the young mother is unhappy, holding her chest with her hands, and looking at the baby rolling 3 meters away, you will know that this is a pair of mother and son who are deadlocked because the child is derailed and the mother is disobedient.

Here's the story. Mom took her children shopping, and the baby was attracted by toys and kept asking her to buy this and that. At first, Ma Bao patiently persuaded the baby that "there are many toys at home, so don't buy them", but the child wouldn't listen and had to buy them. Of course, the mother can't spoil the baby here, and the baby has no choice but to stage a "falling to the ground on the spot". On the other hand, the mother did not compromise, but walked away 3 meters away, holding hands and looking at the baby. "You are useless, get up."

Obviously, the woman in the picture is not an easy-to-compromise nanny, which is right. Parents immediately compromise when facing their children, which is not conducive to the healthy growth of children. Excessive doting on children will only make children have no bottom line and develop bad habits of having bad needs.

As children, it is more difficult for us adults to control our emotions. When they are angry, because of their limited expressive ability, the way to vent their emotions is relatively simple and rude. In addition to throwing things, falling on the ground and rolling around has become a constant choice for children all over the world.

Children who generally love to "roll" are also spoiled by their parents. Parents' doting leads children to spoil and cheat. Once parents are not satisfied, they are threatened in this way. Especially in public places, this trick of children is particularly useful. Some parents can't bear to face it, so they can only promise their children at this time.

Of course, some parents are very principled and ignore the people who eat melons, such as Ma Bao in the above article. When meeting such a mother, the baby is considered "unlucky". If this mother can educate her children in principle in the future, she will not worry about changing this "bad habit" of her children.

Parents should first calm down and don't let their children drive their emotions. If they make a hullabaloo about with emotion, it becomes a joke. It is normal for children to cry. Parents should be rational at this time and accept their negative emotions frankly.

As parents, we should deal with it calmly and then appease and enlighten our children. Of course, you can't give up your arms as soon as the child kicks. Doing so will only make your child feel that this trick is very useful, and his parents will not allow him to do so in the future. In the face of children's splashing water, parents should stick to principles and not spoil their children.

Once the child has used this trick, it has reached the limit. At this time, parents should respond, otherwise they may accumulate negative emotions in their children's hearts. It is inappropriate not to respond to children at all.

Parents should show their attitude to their children, don't buy this thing, don't cry and splash water in public places at will ... So, parents should make it clear to their children and let them know where they are wrong.

As the saying goes, "the authorities are fascinated, the bystanders are clear", and so are children. As the person in charge, the child only thinks that it is the fault of the parents that he didn't buy it, and he doesn't think that he is wrong. When rolling and splashing, almost every child can't touch oil and salt. No matter what their parents say, they have no education at all. However, the child will calm down after the incident. At this time, it will be much less difficult for parents to educate patiently. It will also make children reflect, but it will have better results.

When children cheat and splash water, parents' coping methods are very important. They can neither be spoiled nor ignored. Parents should carry out rational induction education while adhering to the principles and bottom line, so that children can understand the rules, distinguish right from wrong, and let children have self-discipline when they grow up and grow into a better person.

How do you deal with children cheating and splashing water? Welcome to share your experience in the comments section.