They all speak with thorns. Why do Jiafu people like Daiyu and hate Qingwen?

Although both of them are true natures, Lin Daiyu knows more about the art of speaking and emotional intelligence, while Qingwen is too straightforward to be liked.

First, the contradictory role Qingwen does not disgust readers, but it is a role that everyone in Jiafu hates. Because those people hate Qingwen for many reasons, for example, she is just a servant girl. Compared with Lin Daiyu's housekeeper status, Qingwen obviously has a lower status. And people in big families are holding high and stepping low. Qingwen, as a bottom person, naturally suffers more prejudice. Although she is inarticulate, she has no emotional intelligence at all, and she is a bit sharp, mean and even cruel. This is a girl who can't be affectionate when looking at it. Her behavior in the Grand View Garden is also very radical.

Second, the oppressed people can only arm themselves through oppression. Qingwen, after all, is only a servant girl, but this servant girl's personality is very attractive. She also knows the tricks of the bottom people and will bully people who are weaker than herself. She is also very unkind, living very arrogantly and freely, but living very truly. I have no other thoughts when I speak, but I don't know how to package my heart. She doesn't buy people's hearts like Lin Daiyu, and she lives naturally and freely. However, this real person is naturally unwelcome in this messy place of Jiafu.

Third, Lin Daiyu, who has a high emotional intelligence, said that she is sometimes a little picky, but after all, she learned from Jia Yucun and still knows how to get along with others. I also pay great attention to my speech. I have a high emotional intelligence and occasionally tell some humorous jokes to everyone in Doby. Plus, as a young lady, no one will say anything about her even if she has some minor faults in speaking bluntly. This is also the sorrow of the class at that time, and the treatment faced by two people who are also true temperament is also different.