The reasons why young children don’t like to talk and the guidance measures

1. Talk to the baby more

Some parents rarely talk to their children. They always think that the baby is too young and cannot understand when talking to them, so they always let their children sing one-man shows. . These parents may not know that the baby's brain cells are formed by repeated impressions from the stimulation received, seen, and heard in the growing environment. Brain cells also grow due to these stimulations, and these stimulations directly affect the child's language development. There are several processes in language development. One is the child's pronunciation stage, the second is the language understanding stage, and the third is the language expression stage. After the baby is born, the baby's pronunciation can be trained and guided. Parents should constantly communicate with their children to keep the language information in their children's minds.

Therefore, for newborn babies, parents should also provide a rich language environment and sufficient language stimulation. For example, you should talk to your child when changing his diaper, bathing him, feeding him, playing with him, sleeping, and waking up. There is no need for too much language, the emphasis is on accumulation. A few simple words and sentences will become the cornerstone of children's language development and lay the foundation for deepening the relationship between children and parents.

2. Encourage the baby to speak more

Children cannot speak yet and can only use movements or eyes to express certain needs. If parents see their children reaching for the cup, they will quickly give them water; if the children point to the fruit with their fingers, the parents will immediately satisfy their needs... This kind of life has been long, and the children can open their mouths for food and stretch out their hands for clothes. You will feel: If I don’t speak, everything will be satisfied, so why should I speak? Yes, this behavior of parents makes the children lose their desire to talk to others and the motivation to speak, and eventually use their body language instead of spoken language to interact with others.

Nowadays, there are many families like this, especially those with children raised by the elderly. Another reason why children start speaking late is that parents do not know how to give their children language stimulation that is suitable for their abilities. For example, when teaching a child to speak, it is not through concrete, vivid, colorful objects that are often encountered in life, but when the child is over one year old, some pictures and written texts are shown to the child. When children are learning language, they need direct, vivid, and vivid stimulation. The vocabulary in books is abstract, and the children's acceptance effect will be poor, so the speed of learning to speak will be very slow. When a child wants something, you should tell him the name of the thing he wants, and also tell him the characteristics of the thing, such as: apple, red... After doing this a few times, at least he will say "fruit". Therefore, we must give the child a language environment, listening stimulation and opportunities to speak, so that the child's language will develop quickly.

It should be noted that teaching children to speak also has a goal, otherwise haste will make waste. This positioning is: teaching children to speak should slightly exceed the child's actual language expression ability, and this ability must be completed with the help of adults. For example, if a child can speak one word, it is best for parents to teach two words. If a child can speak two words, parents should teach three words. Only in this way can the child's language ability be greatly improved. If a child can only speak one word and parents teach phrases or sentences, nothing is taught.

3. Don’t let your baby be confused

Nowadays, there are multiple languages ??or dialects in some families. The confusion of languages ??or dialects is also a reason why children do not speak. In the family environment, the husband and wife sometimes speak dialects and sometimes speak Mandarin. In addition, the nanny frequently changes, and the nanny's dialect will stimulate the child's brain cells. This stimulation process is not in line with the child's language ability, and ultimately leads to the child being indecisive about language and not knowing which language to choose.

4. Don’t force your baby to speak

Children’s language expression ability is still very poor. In order to help their children learn to speak, parents sometimes use the “force” method. For example, if a child wants something, and the parent threatens the child with the object, the child will not give it if he does not speak. This will cause the child to have an aversion to speaking. Especially when children start to speak later than babies of the same age, parents often use the trump card of "forced talk" to coerce and induce their children to talk. Children must first understand language before they can express it. This is a process.

If you push too hard, the child will feel a lot of pressure to speak. The child can only resist this kind of pressure by remaining silent.