"If a person is blessed, God will give him suffering": These kinds of suffering may seem unfortunate, but they are actually tests from God.

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Jia Yi of the Han Dynasty wrote in the "New Book": "Those who love going out love to return, and those who go have good luck."

A person, if He knows how to give to others, and I believe he will also be respected by others. If he can benefit others, he will also receive certain blessings.

This is the law of "good fortune and misfortune depend on each other". Being kind to others seems to be a disadvantage for oneself. But in fact, all the losses will become the beginning of your "blessings in disguise".

In the same way, we always think that "eating hardship" is not good, so we particularly hate suffering and think it is more terrifying than savage beasts. However, all the suffering will pave a muddy road for your future happiness.

A Zen master once said that only the amount of suffering you can endure will determine the amount of blessing you will have.

Just imagine, can greenhouse flowers that have not experienced wind and rain really last long? Perhaps, the moment it leaves the greenhouse, it will be destroyed immediately and become a ruined flower.

And those towering trees stand tall and tall, isn’t it because they have endured countless tortures in the world and finally persisted, thus standing proudly in the world?

People, don’t be too short-sighted. These kinds of hardships may seem like misfortunes, but they are actually God’s tests for you.

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The pain of being cornered will lead people downhill.

There is a saying that goes well, when a person reaches the bottom of the valley, no matter how he goes in the future, it will all go uphill.

This is what Sun Tzu said in "The Art of War": "throw yourself to death and then survive; leave it to death and then survive."

In the "Last Battle", Han Xin's army was besieged by Zhao Legion, but Han Xin still chose to camp close to the river. In his opinion, the enemy generals are just frivolous and mediocre people, and they are not worth fearing at all.

Facing the attack of the Zhao army, which was like a pile of scattered sand, the Han army, which was trapped in a desperate situation, fought hard and fully displayed the momentum of "one against ten". Together with Han Xin, he sent out surprise troops to seize the Zhao army's rear base camp. The ingenious plan finally made Han Xin famous in one battle.

In the same way, for ordinary people, facing "difficulties" actually happens in real time. However, how we respond determines the direction of the rest of our lives.

But I still have to say that at the moment when life forces us to have no other way out, as long as we know how to grit our teeth and persevere for a while, maybe the dawn will come.

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The pain of difficulty will make you go uphill.

In life, we are most afraid of encountering the situation of "a tiger in front and a wolf behind". In this situation, no matter what we choose, we will face a huge crisis.

We might as well ask ourselves a question, is it really beneficial to put people in a difficult situation?

In fact, this is a double-edged sword. People with less ability and character, or people who have never suffered for most of their lives, I believe they will choose to give up as long as they face difficulties. The result can only be a tragedy.

On the contrary, people with particularly strong abilities and temperaments not only survive the difficulties, but also tap into their own potential. Then they are "potential stocks" with a bright future.

Mencius once said, "If you go in, you will be helpless, but if you go out, you will be invincible." The country is permanently destroyed.

If a country does not have loyal ministers and good generals, and does not have enemies that threaten it at all times and make it feel in danger, then it is not far from destruction.

All the difficulties have given people a sense of crisis.

It is often these senses of crisis that make ordinary people more mature and wiser.

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The pain of things not going as expected is God’s gift to you.

I have heard of such a thing.

A young man had just graduated from college and applied for a job at a pretty good company. He felt that this company was particularly in line with his pursuit, so he especially wanted to join this company.

In the end, it was just the opposite of what he wanted. The more a person wants to achieve something, the more he will lose.

Later, he entered a smaller company, and unexpectedly met a boss who appreciated him. At the same time, after several years of hard work, the boss also recognized him and asked him to be his right-hand man.

Now this young man is already the vice president of the company, changing the fate of the poor scholar in the past.

God arranges your failure not to make you unlucky, but to tell you that this road will not work and you have to take another road. When you take the right path, will God still hinder you?

To borrow the words of a famous person, all those things that happened, looking back, are actually good things.

What is bound to happen cannot be stopped. In this case, it's okay to accept it and change your direction.

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The pain of the rest of your life will make you more mature.

There is such a kind of blessing in this world, which we call "survival after disaster". Those who have experienced disasters and survived are definitely blessed with great luck.

A few years ago, when Lao Li was walking out of the store, the rolling shutter door above his head suddenly smashed down. Fortunately, Lao Li walked a second faster, otherwise Lao Li would have left on the spot.

Since experiencing this incident, Lao Li suddenly saw through life. Fame, fortune, money and power, what do they mean? To put it harshly, if it weren't for his luck, he would have left long ago.

Luo Xiang once said this: "If it weren't for the protection of fate, you would have been gone long ago. All your dreams and all your lofty plans for life have disappeared into thin air and are all a joke. ”

The reason why we can live stably depends not only on our personal diligence, but also on God’s blessing. You must know that the suffering you suffer will eventually turn into your blessing, protecting you and turning disaster into good luck.

That's all.

Text/There are deers in Shushan