Touching feet and breathing, "Panic Dad" unexpectedly became popular! Netizen: The baby is still alive

In our real life, the responsibility of taking care of the baby is usually the responsibility of the mother. Some dads always use the excuse that they are busy at work and supporting the family to make money, and they will not stretch out their hands to take care of their children if they can. ah! Because dads also know that taking care of children is not an easy task. But it's strange.

Children will behave very well in their mother's arms, neither crying nor fussing, and talking and laughing with their mother. But once they fall into the hands of their fathers, the children will always cry and fuss, often leaving their fathers at a loss what to do.

For fathers, taking care of children seems to have become a particularly headache problem for him. As soon as the child cries or makes a fuss or wakes up, the fathers will instantly feel desperate and don’t know what to do? So how to solve this situation? It’s extremely difficult for a father to look after his baby! Not long ago, a netizen shared the story of his husband taking care of his baby at home.

The child was only three months old at the time. The husband was sleeping with the child. It was originally a warm scene, but what was unexpected was that the husband suddenly woke up. Then he mechanically touched the child's feet with his own hands, and then touched the child's nose to confirm that the child was still breathing, and then he fell asleep peacefully again.

Netizens saw this dad’s series of actions and gave him a nickname - "Panic Dad". Many netizens also ridiculed this baby's father: Don't worry so much, the child is still alive!

In fact, many dads make various jokes when taking care of their children. There is also the man who has just been promoted to "baby daddy".

He looked very nervous while holding his newborn child. It is obvious that the way the father holds his child looks very unfamiliar and cautious. The father seems to not know how to hold the baby to make the baby more comfortable, and he doesn't know how to place his hands. In order to ensure the safety of the child, the word "nervous" is surrounded by the pores of the new father's body.

Not only is the baby's limbs very stiff, but he also looks very nervous. Dad's face also showed very nervous emotions.

1. Men are more playful

Even if some dads become fathers, they are still very playful. He wants to play with his children. They like to use children as their own toys, or they try their best to play with their children.

Netizens said that some fathers will treat their children as a "machine gun" when raising their children. Picking up the child is like a "beep, beep, beep, beep, beep, beep, beep, beep" blast.

Sometimes when some dads are playing with their children, they will dig out all the junk at home. Throw it to the child, and then let the child throw it to you. In Bao's mother's view, these actions of father make the child feel insecure. It may cause harm to the baby, so the father is not allowed to take care of the baby. I think it’s unreliable for a baby’s father to take care of his baby. But the two of them had a great time.

2. The mother takes care of everything

In some families, the mother takes care of everything about raising the baby, so there will be complaints of one kind or another about their children. The family is a "single family". So when dads get home from get off work, they sit on the sofa with their phones in their hands and scroll through Douyin, ignoring all the housework at home. Therefore, Bao's mother handles all the housework alone.

Sometimes let dad help mom do something. Not only will he not be able to do it well, he will even cause trouble to mom and increase her troubles.

Therefore, after being like this for a long time, Bao's father developed a habit of not being willing to work at home, and he just pushed all the work to Bao's mother.

This creates a situation where the father is in a hurry when he takes the children with him, and is at a loss what to do. At first, the mother was afraid that the father would accidentally hurt the baby while raising the baby, which caused the father to lose a lot of experience in raising the baby. Therefore, it is beyond its capabilities. Although most cases of fathers raising children are "traps", for children, the father's role in the child's growth process is very important.

3. In the child's growth process, the significance of father is very important.

In the heart of the child, the image of father is extremely tall. In contrast, children feel more secure when they are with their father. When fathers take care of their children, they often like to let them try some adventurous and exciting games. Facing such games, children will have more adventurous spirit. Thus making your child more optimistic and confident.

Dad will promote children’s independence. We all know that children’s independence is very important to the children themselves. Dad's thoughts are rough and not as delicate as my mother's. Therefore, when fathers take care of their children, they usually don’t pay attention to details, and more of a “don’t care” way of raising their children. It is precisely because of this method that children will become more independent and have their own thinking.

Summary:

Although Bao’s father is careless, his pattern is beyond Bao’s mother’s reach. Men have a broad mind and a big picture, so they definitely have advantages in educating children. Just like a father's nonchalant way of raising a child, it effectively promotes the child's own growth. Dads let their children do more of what they can do themselves.

In contrast, the mother worries about everything and does everything herself, while the father is more beneficial to the child. Therefore, both father and mother are indispensable people in the growth of their children. Spending more time with their children will make their growth path broader.