What kind of cold humanity makes you cold in real life? _ x005f & lt Procter & Gamble Company.

My sister-in-law's father died, and I drove for four hours to pay my respects. She said something that chilled me. My brother-in-law said she couldn't speak, and told me not to take it to heart. I decided to stop seeing her.

My husband and brother are the oldest, and his brother is four years younger than him. My husband and I have been married for more than ten years, and I treat my brother-in-law like my own brother. No matter what conditions brother-in-law puts forward, as long as they can be met, we will try our best to meet him.

Brother-in-law major in automobile maintenance in vocational high school. After graduation, he worked as a mechanic in a garage. He earns only enough money for his own expenses and never gives his parents extra money. In-laws are a little partial to his youngest son, and always feel that his eldest son has better conditions. Everywhere he spent at home, he was looking for his eldest son.

At the age of 25, my brother-in-law met a girl named Xiao Gan. Xiao Gan is one year younger than him. Her family comes from the countryside and she works here.

Brother-in-law just stayed with Xiao Gan for two months and brought her back to live. The first time I met my brother-in-law's girlfriend, my in-laws were very concerned. In order to meet his brother-in-law's girlfriend, they specially dressed up and cooked many dishes to entertain Xiao Gan.

After Xiao Gan came, he entered his brother-in-law's room without saying a few words to us. I cooked the meal and asked her to come out for dinner. Brother-in-law said that Xiao Gan came to our house for the first time and was embarrassed to sit at a table with us for dinner. He took two plates and put them in the room to eat.

My mother-in-law went to her brother-in-law's room to chat with Xiao Gan, but Xiao Gan ignored her. When she saw my mother-in-law talking to her all the time, she said she was leaving and asked me to take her back to her brother-in-law. My brother-in-law asked my mother-in-law not to ask so many questions and invited her out.

Xiao Gan lived in my mother-in-law's house for four months. She didn't say much to her in-laws. My father-in-law took the initiative to talk to her, but she didn't hear me. She stayed in her room all the time except going to the toilet. Both of them threw their dirty clothes into the washing machine and didn't even wash their underwear by hand.

My mother-in-law is very dissatisfied with her brother-in-law's girlfriend. She won't let her brother-in-law continue to get along with his girlfriend. My brother-in-law has been spoiled since childhood and won't listen to anyone.

My mother-in-law asked me and my wife to do the ideological work of my brother-in-law. My brother-in-law directly said, "If the family interferes with other objects, he will never find a girlfriend again." .

My mother-in-law has a hard mouth and a soft heart. She is worried that she will not let her youngest son get along with Xiao Gan. Later, if she didn't find a girlfriend and get married, she would turn a blind eye to her brother-in-law and Xiao Gan and stop asking about their affairs.

When my brother-in-law and Xiao Gan were together for almost a year, Xiao Gan's brother knew that she lived with me at her brother-in-law's house, so my brother-in-law married Xiao Gan and had to give them a bride price of 200,000 yuan.

My brother-in-law never gave my mother-in-law any money, and he didn't spend any of the money he earned. He didn't have the money to get married. My mother-in-law took 80,000, and we took the rest120,000.

Brother-in-law said that the money was lent to us and would be returned to us when they had money. At that time, I was quite happy to hear what my brother-in-law said. My husband is the only brother. He has no money and his in-laws are not rich. As long as he can live a good brother-in-law's life, he will try his best. Although I didn't want him to return it, I was still warm when he said thank you.

After her brother-in-law got married, she lived with her in-laws. Mother-in-law doesn't like her sister-in-law's behavior, especially when she has children, and she still does nothing. She plays games at home when she is not at work. The mother-in-law took care of the children without saying a word of thanks. She also said that my mother-in-law despises her and is not good for her daughter.

The mother-in-law quarreled with her sister-in-law, and her sister-in-law went back to her mother's house with her child in her arms. She just left for three days, crying to call her brother-in-law. My brother-in-law drove to the little girl's house and saw her sister-in-law and her children living in a barn where food was stored. Sister-in-law's original room was occupied by her nephew, and she had to live in the barn when she came back with her child.

There is no sunshine in the barn, and there are many bugs. The child was bitten all over without any good place, and his eyes were swollen. My brother-in-law was heartbroken and took them home immediately. My sister-in-law didn't come back, saying that she would rather live in the barn with her children than come back to live with her mother-in-law. She asked her brother-in-law to buy a house, and they checked the bill carefully.

My brother-in-law has no money, and neither does my mother-in-law. My brother-in-law came to borrow money from us again. My husband and I discussed, first lend them some down payment, let them borrow money to buy a small apartment with a second-hand house, let them repay the loan themselves, and then pay us back when they are well off.

I don't want to promise, and there is nothing I can do. Only we can give money to the whole family. If we don't lend it to my brother-in-law, my husband will be upset, my mother-in-law will be angry with them, and my father-in-law will sigh all day. I agreed to lend my in-laws 200,000 yuan as a down payment for their happiness in their later years, and also for my brother-in-law to have a good house for three people.

On the day I bought a house with my brother-in-law, my brother-in-law was very enthusiastic. He always keeps thanking his eldest brother and sister-in-law. Brother-in-law asked his wife and my husband to say thank you. Sister-in-law didn't speak at first, and then whispered, "This is a loan, not for you. Why are you so excited? Do you really think people don't have to pay you back? "

After listening to my sister-in-law's words, I felt particularly uncomfortable. My brother-in-law apologized for his wife, saying that she couldn't speak and told me not to take it to heart. My husband said that his brother "asked him to educate his wife well, at least to be able to talk". Brother-in-law made a promise, and he must talk to his wife well.

Since the brother-in-law moved out, his wife has never taken her in-laws around, nor has she asked her brother-in-law to bring her children to visit. During the Chinese New Year holiday, my brother-in-law only bought things for my in-laws and never met them.

Mother-in-law misses her little granddaughter and visits her brother-in-law's house with something. My sister-in-law never lets her in-laws eat at her house. No matter how many things the in-laws buy for them and how much money they give them, the sister-in-law feels that they should share them. She also said that her mother-in-law didn't help her with the children and asked her to give her the salary card.

Mother-in-law said that she decided how to spend her own money, and she would give it to whoever was filial to her. An unfilial person is not qualified to spend her money. Sister-in-law said that her mother-in-law was biased towards us and spent all her money on us. My in-laws were old, so I didn't expect her, so I kicked her out.

Mother-in-law was so angry that her blood pressure rose to 180 that she almost fell when she walked. She was in hospital for two days before she returned to normal. Since then, my mother-in-law has never been to my brother-in-law's house.

On the first lunar new year's day, my sister-in-law died of illness, and she came back to attend the funeral. My husband and I discussed that my sister-in-law's father had passed away, and I wanted to give my brother and sister a face to do a program.

My sister-in-law's home is 300 kilometers away from us. The day after the funeral, my wife and I set out from home to stay there for a day to help. We both started from home at five o'clock in the morning, and it is estimated that it will take four hours to get there on the road, but there are few cars in the morning.

At 9: 40 in the morning, we arrived at my sister-in-law's house. Sister-in-law's family came to see us and all came to meet us. Brother-in-law also asked us if we were tired from driving.

When my sister-in-law saw us coming, she asked us in the first sentence, "What are you doing here?" My brother-in-law said that my sister-in-law came to give us a show. People who don't come to our house don't respect you for such a big thing that your father died.

My sister-in-law said out of control, "Respect me. When did your family respect me? Your family loves to do face-saving work. Your brother and sister-in-law came to show our relatives, and I don't know what they are thinking. "

My brother-in-law saw that I looked a little pale and said that my sister-in-law had just died and she couldn't accept it. She told me not to argue with her, and took us to the house to sit down and have a rest. Sister-in-law's brother and sister-in-law came to accompany us, saying that her sister-in-law could not speak, so that her sister-in-law could bear with us more.

Sister-in-law rushed into the room and said to her brother and sister-in-law, "If you say who can't talk, then why can't I talk?" My in-laws don't like me because my eldest brother and sister-in-law can pretend to be the best. My in-laws were fooled around by her and gave her all the money. I thought I didn't know. I am afraid that my mother-in-law will give me the toll and today's money. "

I said, "We are making every effort to take care of the elderly. We don't want old people's money, and we don't do any face work. Whoever is filial to the elderly knows it well. " I said that and left. Her brother and sister-in-law apologized to me and asked her to apologize to me. My brother-in-law said a few words, and my sister-in-law burst into tears, saying that we bullied her to her parents' house.

My husband and I ignored everyone's opposition and left on the spot. My sister-in-law said later that we came either to express our sincere condolences or to watch her jokes.

I haven't seen my sister-in-law since I left there. I was completely shuddered by the coldness of my sister-in-law's human nature. I knew my sister-in-law was indifferent. I thought that as long as I was tolerant enough and cared enough about her, I would be moved and we could become a family.

I never imagined that my sister-in-law was so cold-blooded. No matter how good I was to her, she was unmoved and thought I was so profitable to her. For people like sister-in-law, only by staying away from her and drawing a clear line with her can we get peace. Otherwise, even if I pay more, it seems to her that I am willing, and I can't get anything in return and I can't get a glimmer of hope.

According to my brother-in-law, my sister-in-law doesn't trust anyone and doesn't want to have an intersection with anyone. Because she prefers her son at home, she is treated unfairly.

For the sake of family harmony, I tried my best to help my sister-in-law, tolerate her and touch her. However, her heart is so deep that she is unmoved by what I have done. She also thinks that I am restless and profitable. For people like her, I have to draw a clear line and avoid it, because only in this way can I be unaffected by her emotions, and those who are chilling by her will slowly recover.