What does it mean to be simple and calm?

Question 1: What does intellectuality mean? Generally speaking, a beautiful woman with culture, connotation and accomplishment is "intellectual", and the original version of Verstand in German is often translated as "reason" or "understanding".

Question 2: What does it mean to be happy and calm when I don't love you? It is the fragrant memory of butterflies in summer embedded in the maple leaves in autumn, swaying on the branches of trees one by one, returning to the earth with a quiet and beautiful attitude, as if for an instant, becoming eternal; Yaner, who left after a low return, no longer lingered under the eaves for the night; Only the delicacy of daisies is another story. Who can understand these hearts, whether, sigh that time is in a hurry. But I want to keep these feelings, guard these hasty shadows, open flowers with pen and ink, and rhythm the fireworks of life.

In this autumn wind, I often sigh: life is like a dream, and it is quiet outside the dream. May it be like a quiet autumn leaf. The dream of the wind, the mission of the tree, the quiet beauty of the leaves, let nature give us beautiful autumn colors, and the heart is a faint smile in the beautiful heart, which becomes a harvest in a season.

In this late autumn, a cup of green tea rises, and the tea smells warm and refreshing, such as tea, which evokes the fragrant memory of summer. The earthly fireworks have been graceful at the fingertips, the quiet time has been rendered into words flowing at the fingertips, and the beautiful years are like water! A cup of fragrant tea, fragrant autumn tea, simple mood, tells the story of prosperity and loneliness, the leader of autumn rain, and the footprints of seasons.

Question 3: What does * * * mean? One of the most basic conditions that * * * must have is to have enough economic strength to afford luxury goods such as famous brands. I really beg to differ from this statement. * * * Financial independence is true, but it doesn't matter if you consume luxury brands. My personal understanding of * * * is this-

First, economic independence and personality independence. You can earn very little money, but at least you have to support yourself and not depend on others. Even if this man leaves you, you still don't have to worry about three meals a day. Economic independence is the most basic condition of * * *. Without economic independence, personality cannot be independent. An economically independent woman doesn't have to look down on a man to buy a beautiful shirt and lipstick. Economic independence, food, drink, clothing and use are all earned by themselves. Spend whatever you want, and don't worry about who has a problem. Don't look at the husband's or boyfriend's face and frown. There is no need to wake up suddenly in the excitement of indulging in buying, calculating that you spend too much and feel guilty. Only when women spend the money they earn can they feel free and confident. Only by achieving economic independence and not being a "climbing flower" can women live with dignity, value and significance. Second, the spirit is independent and the mentality is strong. The so-called character. * * * has its own independent space and rich life. Not relying on men, not sticking to men, seems to be inseparable from each other. * * * Keep calm, think calmly and respond tactfully. I won't panic, I won't complain, I won't cry, I won't even cry. Unlike human beings, that's what immature "* * *" will do. * * * should be that no matter how turbulent the outside world is, it is still calm and unaffected by the environment. Even though her heart is full of waves and undercurrents, she is steady, dignified and decent, just like a good family, which makes people know that she has seen the world at a glance. Look at Faye Wong. Her husband Li gave a speech to reporters at the airport. She kept silent in front of the camera. She knows what is right and wrong, but she just keeps silent and shows a kind of self-denial and patience, which contains strength. This is the performance of * * *. If she were an ordinary woman, she would have argued and reasoned with each other at the top of her lungs. Third, behave in a civilized manner and dress appropriately. * * * Elegant manners, decent speech, educated, and attention to personal etiquette. Generous and considerate. * * * Dress appropriately and generously, and dress according to your age, skin color and figure. Don't "act young" or "pretend to be old". Don't be new, don't wear fancy clothes. Some people say that * * * must wear famous brands, so as to reflect a woman's taste and personality. I suspect that this statement is an "advertising bomb" released by well-known brand dealers, or some remarks that misunderstand the definition of * * *. I want to say that * * * is made by connotation, not by famous brand packaging. If there is no inner self-restraint, no amount of famous brands can be dressed as * * *. At best, it is just a boring behavior of a rich man to show off his wealth. A thoughtful and connotative woman can show an elegant and noble temperament even if she is plain-looking, plain-faced and plain-dressed. Here, I borrow the words of Xu, a master of consulting psychology, to sum up: "The real * * * should be economic independence, relatively successful career, rich life experience, connotation, elegant temperament, self-love, self-confidence and considerate care."

Today, we really need to redefine the word "* * *". Xu, a consultant at the Psychological Counseling Center of East China Normal University and a master of counseling psychology, said, "* * *' originated from Japanese pornography and now refers to adults aged 30 -50. But not all mature women are * * *, and what I want to say here is not just sexual maturity. The real * * * should have rich life experience, connotation, elegant temperament, self-love, self-confidence and considerate care. "

Sexual maturity is the premise of * * *

Ge Hongbing, a professor at the College of Literature of Shanghai University, recently completed a survey on "single communities in modern cities". Among those women who "actively" choose single status, "* * *" is relatively concentrated.

Ge said, "The process of high-level singles in China has been gradual since the 1990s. With the gradual opening of society, the tolerance of society for single life is getting higher and higher, and the gradual prosperity of economy also provides the possibility for single life. Especially 1995, some white-collar women working in big companies in Shanghai got housing subsidies alone, which became a landmark event for singles, meaning that' one person can also form a family'. "

With relatively mature economic conditions ... >>

Question 4: tasteful, what is the most appropriate word?

Mature and exquisite

Noble atmosphere

Simple and capable

Female advantages ① Attractive charm: image, temperament and personality; 2 Elegant taste: fashion, elegance and etiquette; ③ Mature mentality: self-confidence, optimism and contentment; (4) Rich emotions: rational, brave and romantic; ⑤ Good popularity: mellow, decent and harmonious; ⑥ Extraordinary wisdom: Fiona Fang, choose and give up; ⑦ Real health: sunshine, vitality and enthusiasm.

Time flies, and in a blink of an eye, the flower of youth is no longer in full bloom and has entered middle age. The past is no longer coming, they are no longer ecstatic about every flower, and they are no longer sad for every flower. No longer world-weary, no longer haggard for affairs; The vicissitudes of time, rolling the world of mortals, have been polished into unique softness and delicacy. But as long as we seriously taste life and enjoy the taste of life, then whether it is faint fragrance or bitterness, it will be our priceless harvest.

How to be a tasteful woman is very important, but how to be a tasteful, intelligent and graceful person is more important. People often say that the smell of women. A woman with true feelings is full of flavor, bitter like lilac, delicate fragrance like white rose and noble like red peony.

At work, several of our best women often discuss this issue together because they are similar in age. How can we have good taste? No elegance! Where does wisdom come from! Yesterday, I read a story about a woman in a book: a woman sat in the autumn sun in September, her eyes were endless, her face was beautiful and serene, and her elegance dimmed the autumn colors a lot ... her heart suddenly jumped. The feelings of women's taste, elegance and wisdom are scattered all over the place.

Women's Day is coming, and I want to return to this topic. Looking back on my experiences with women, I have a lot of thoughts ... I always feel that a woman's life can be divided into several stages: poetry stage, prose stage, essay stage, and finally a heavy novel and ending. In my opinion, an adult should have taste, elegance and wisdom:

Kindness, wit, maturity and self-esteem; Deep and rich in thought, elegant in speech and well dressed. She is equal to others, neither supercilious nor supercilious. She always has a kind expression on her face. When you talk to her, she won't compliment, criticize, brag or be aggressive. Only listen to her heart, the greatest love.

Her attitude is positive and optimistic, not decadent and indulgent, not complaining about others, kind and gentle, with an inclusive heart, independent thoughts and personality, and her own views and opinions on things. I love my job, and I can be independent and free in the unit, but she doesn't fight for power and profit, and she doesn't ask for anything in return. As her colleague, you can often feel a refreshing fragrance.

Have a leisurely life, rich cultural background, and have a calm attitude towards everything in life. It is by no means that you are too tired to run around, and you will go on the rampage or say an endless impatience when something happens. She shouldn't neglect her maintenance because of tedious housework and hard work. Should she know how to take care of herself? How to delay aging? Let your beauty continue.

Being able to play a good role in life is the pride of parents. Childish in front of children, careful and gentle in front of husband. Knowing that I am in love with someone, countless worries are entrusted to treat him gently and tolerably. Time is separate. "Life and death are rich, but you can bear it with your son. Hold your hand and grow old with your son. "

She must keep learning, constantly enrich herself and cultivate herself. Cultivate knowledge, personality, culture, enhance inner cultivation, enrich connotation, and shine from the inside out!

She is calm, quiet and open-minded. Quiet as clear water, moving like a cheerful stream. Never arrogant feelings, but rich in connotation. Yingying comes and goes leisurely. No matter how busy you are, you should take some time to devote yourself to the world of books, read some books, read a passage of prose, repair your rough soul, and make yourself gentle and lovely. I often surf the Internet and read newspapers, so I know more about family affairs, state affairs and the world. Maybe, she will practice yoga. A wide range of interests and hobbies have accumulated her introverted mind.

I don't remember reading such a sentence there: I look down on fame; Emotionally, I can see that; Officially, I can see it clearly; Money, see through, this should be the best description of a * * * person, so mature women are the most charming.

I envy and like those tasteful, intelligent and elegant, which can make people fall in love with their inner temperament ...

Question 5: I don't care about things, I don't care about my heart, I'm simple and natural, and I follow my fate wholeheartedly. You mean I don't dispute things, I don't care about my heart, I pay attention to peace, that is to say, our body and mind are not entangled in trivial matters and troubles, and we can be open-minded about life setbacks, let go of gains and losses, and be open-minded.

I don't care about things, I don't care, I'm simple and natural, and I'm obsessed with it. There are always some things in life that make us dissatisfied, some people in life that make us unhappy, and some setbacks in life that make us depressed.

Question 6: What does intellectual beauty mean? Intellectuality is the kind of mature, rational, wise and atmospheric women. They usually have a good career development, but they are different from strong women in the secular sense. They are full of intellectual charm, rich in feelings and know what they need. Very neutral at work, but very feminine emotionally. They are different from the simplicity of little girls and the narrowness of little women.

Intellectuality refers to the external temperament naturally produced by the internal culture. To put it bluntly, it is to make people feel with their eyes that this person has a cultural and connotative temperament and has nothing to do with rational calculation.

The word intellectuality is often used in the description of female roles as well as in the positive female roles. Personal understanding, the so-called intellectuality seems to refer to the so-called rationality as opposed to sensibility, while the female role praised as intellectuality is nothing more than a smart, sensitive and accurate woman, feeling a bit like a modern professional woman or a female aide.

An intellectual woman, like an advertisement, has connotations and opinions. She is spiritual, "smart and brave". She can ignore the erosion of appearance by years, but she will never give in easily. She can be a far cry from the devil's figure and light posture, but she knows how to dress herself exquisitely and tastefully with a wise mind.

It is not difficult to be such a woman. Save your strength, increase your knowledge and cultivate your charm, and you can become an intellectual woman like her.

Talk rationally

An intellectual woman, who speaks calmly and appropriately, can be called a "hero" among women.

Details 1: can speak standard English.

Detail 2: Ask and answer politely and make good use of honorifics.

Detail 3: speaking cadence. The change of intonation is the most common way for intellectual women to express their thoughts.

Detail 4: Speak rationally and restrained, sometimes even without mercy. Because language is magical, it is actually a different kind of scenery, which is worth appreciating.

Show reason

Intellectual women can appreciate the intellectual side in gestures and smiles.

Details 1: The cultivation of intellectuality begins with charging. Learn professional courses, read literary classics, recite Chinese classics, and practice piano. In short, the word "learning" comes first.

Detail 2: When walking, please stand up straight and steady first, but you can speed up the pace of walking.

Detail 3: Eat on time, form a fixed sleep and exercise habit, and take nutrition, health and beauty as the keynote.

Detail 4: I like the talk of intellectuals, and sometimes I can talk eloquently, but I never like telling boring jokes in front of people, which embodies the demeanor of intellectuals everywhere.

Detail 5: Treat the discount frenzy rationally. Only when it is time to do it.

Dress intellectuality

Intellectual, beautiful and generous dress images can make white-collar women young and beautiful.

Details 1: Simplicity and fluency are the basic requirements of the overall dress, and the principle of stable color and simple tone should be observed in general. Black, white, gray, brown and other colors are good choices. Beige is the most predestined color of simplicity and intellectual beauty.

Detail 2: From the collocation point of view, a white shirt with a delicate black tie, or a suit of the same color with simple style, refreshing color and novel style, or a knee-length skirt with a shirt and a simple vest top can easily convey the intellectual beauty.

Detail 3: Stiletto heels can just embellish the elegance and calmness of intellectual women.

Detail 4: In the case of matching the same color professional clothes, you can choose beautiful scarves, necklaces and bracelets for embellishment to add femininity to the rigid dress.

Cosmetic intellectuality

Intellectual makeup should be outstanding, capable, plain and healthy.

Details 1: The overall makeup should be thin and transparent to create delicate skin.

Detail 2: Please keep your eyebrows straight. Don't get your eyebrows too close, have a lighter color, and use a brown eyebrow pencil.

Detail 3: With eyebrow color, the eyeliner should also be brown.

Detail 4: Emphasize the treatment of eyelashes to make you look energetic and confident.

Detail 5: Eye shadow and blush should be brown to show mature intellectual beauty. When blushing, sketch your face as three-dimensionally as possible to create a natural and energetic makeup.

Detail 6: Natural elegance, rich natural lip color and faint rose red are more suitable for intellectual women.

Hair intellectuality

The hairstyle of intellectual women is another rational dress.

Details: 1: regularly enter high-end hair salons to nourish your hair professionally, so as to have excellent hair quality.

Detail 2: When buying hair care products, look at the brand first, then the ingredients, and finally the price.

Detail 3: dye your hair, but less highlights. Even if it stands out, it is also a very inconspicuous highlight of the same color.

Detail 4: Falling in love with short and capable hair does not rule out the long hair of clear soup noodles. More repulsive to curly hair.

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Question 7: There is great beauty in heaven and earth, but without saying it, what does the still water depth mean?

This seemingly abstruse universe is actually simple and simple, ordinary and stable.

Time goes by, one city and one pool, all in every ordinary life, every calm smile.

Question 8: What is low-key luxury? Low-key luxury:

Face up to high quality life.

Suits tailored by top designers look ordinary, and the same style and color can also be bought at roadside stalls.

You brought a Rolex, and someone accidentally found it. You mysteriously said it was false.

The food I often eat is eggs and tomatoes cooked in Zrien iron pot, rice is pearl rice, and dishes and chopsticks are used by Emperor Qianlong.

Home is a very ordinary villa, but it is far from the urban area. When you go out, you can see the mountains and the sea not far away. The interior decoration is simple and atmospheric, the hard materials are from the origin of well-known enterprises, and the soft decoration is made by masters.

S800 is the safest means of transportation, but there are also many toy cars, such as Bugatti, Ferrari and Bentley.

Question 9: What does * * * mean? There are no mature men! ***

Today, we really need to redefine the word "* * *". Xu, a consultant at the Psychological Counseling Center of East China Normal University and a master of counseling psychology, said, "* * *' originated from Japanese pornography and now refers to adults aged 30 -50. But not all mature women are * * *, and what I want to say here is not just sexual maturity. The real * * * should be economic independence, successful career, rich life experience, connotation, elegant temperament, self-love, self-confidence, thoughtfulness and care. "

Sexual maturity is the premise of * * *

Ge Hongbing, a professor at the College of Literature of Shanghai University, recently completed a survey on "single communities in modern cities". Among those women who "actively" choose single status, "* * *" is relatively concentrated.

Ge said, "The process of high-level singles in China has been gradual since the 1990s. With the gradual opening of society, the tolerance of society for single life is getting higher and higher, and the gradual prosperity of economy also provides the possibility for single life. Especially 1995, some white-collar women working in big companies in Shanghai got housing subsidies alone, which became a landmark event for singles, meaning that' one person can also form a family'. "

With relatively mature economic conditions, it is very important for Ge Hongbing to independently control and exercise sexual rights.

"Sexual maturity is a necessary and sufficient condition for" * * * ". They hold an open attitude towards sex, believing that sex is a tool for love and saving men, and no longer regards sex as a tool for possessing men and getting married. Ge Hongbing said.

The ideal woman in his recently completed novel Caidao takes "* * *" as a template. "They have more sympathy and understanding for men, will know how to save men selflessly through sex, and will have more maternal glory."

Xu also believes that sexual maturity is one of the prerequisites for women to become "* * *". She said: "When women have sex, their psychology will undergo subversive changes. And sexual maturity will give women a new understanding of themselves. Women's sexual maturity is both physical and psychological, including physical maturity and psychological maturity including * * * skills. One of the manifestations of' cooked' is' sexual maturity'. "

* * * Emphasize sexy beauty or intellectual beauty?

A lady once smiled in front of the camera and said, "My skirt is very short and high heels are very high!" " "After finishing this program, she became the idol of countless college boys. This lady is neither an actress nor an image designer. She is Ms. Ye Ying, vice president of Kodak Global.

Ms. Ye Ying is definitely super "* * *" in the eyes of "younger brothers": not only because she has brains and her own career, but even her fierce competition has become "sexy" because of her feminine charm.

"Recognizing sexual charm is a change in people's values and tastes." Ge Hong Bing said, "The community of' * * *' has always existed. Recently, it has been noticed and used by people, indicating that people are beginning to agree with women's understanding of themselves. The word "* *" is a symbol of social openness. "

"Since the 1960s, there has been a trend of' sexual liberation' in the West, which made people, especially women, pay attention to themselves, and feminism rose. * * *' is actually a manifestation of this essence. Xu believes that change begins with ideas, but ideas need economic conditions and social environment as support. All these are realized, and women can be "familiar" from the inside out. Compared with experts, the image of "* * *" is obviously more intellectual in the public mind.

Just like the survey of "Beauty in Men's Eyes Becomes * * *" conducted in Taiwan Province Province, for men of different ages in 20, 30 and 40, men of different ages have the same choice of beauty. Nearly 55% of the audience think that adults should have self-confident brilliance, mature sexy charm, and intellectual connotation and thinking in order to meet the optimal conditions of their communication.

"* * * is a general term for women at their peak." Ge Hongbing believes that these are all qualities that people should have at their peak.

Huang Jiwei, an interpreter of fashion vocabulary, said: "It's like' rookie' versus' ashes'. The word "* * *" is relative to "green". "Familiarity" of "* * *" refers to the experience and experience of everything. "

With the passage of time, the public will have a deeper understanding of "* * *". Nowadays, the word "* * *" not only contains ambiguous information of "sexual maturity", but also contains higher requirements for women ...