Not disturbing others’ peace is compassion; not hurting others’ self-esteem is kindness

1 * Being understood is lucky, but not being understood is not necessarily unfortunate. A person who places his value entirely on the understanding of others is often worthless.

2 * If you take equanimity as existence, you will not be greedy; if you take busyness as pleasure, you will not be miserable; if you take diligence as wealth, you will not be poor; if you take endurance as strength, you will not be afraid.

Three * No matter how sincere you are, if you meet someone who doubts you, you will lie. No matter how simple you are, when you meet complicated people, you will always be scheming. No matter how naive you are, when you meet real people, you will be a joke. No matter how professional you are, if you meet someone who doesn't understand, you will be blank. So, don't care too much about other people's evaluation of you. All you need is to be the best version of yourself, your unique self.

Four* Not disturbing others’ peace is compassion; not hurting others’ self-esteem is kindness. When people are alive, just shine their own light, and don't blow out other people's lamps.

Five * Don’t worry about others doing better than you. You just need to do better every day than the day before. Growth is a game with yourself.

6* Don’t let those who are really good to you slowly disappear from your life; because both love and friendship need to be managed carefully.

Seven * Looking down from the 80th floor, everything is beautiful. Looking down from the 2nd floor, it is all garbage. If there is no height in life, all you will see are problems; if there is no pattern in life, all you will see are trivial matters.

Eight *Choice and giving up are the thresholds that need to be faced in life and life. Yesterday's giving up determines today's choices, and tomorrow's life depends on today's choices. Life is like acting, everyone is his or her own director. Only those who learn to choose and give up can win a wonderful life.

Nine * Friends made with favors are only temporary, but friends attracted with personality are long-lasting. Know that enriching yourself is more powerful than pleasing others.

No matter how important the person is, they will disappoint you and become no longer important. The real disappointment is not scolding, crying, or getting angry at you, but silence. Whatever you do, I feel that it has nothing to do with me anymore.

Eleven * Only when I grew up did I realize that sometimes when you tell the truth, you have to apologize to others because you revealed the truth. So if you want to live smoothly, please always bring your brain.

When you grow up, not many people seem to care about whether you are happy or not. Many people only care about whether you are successful or not. However, you must care about whether you are happy or not.

Thirteen* Sort out your mood, forget those unpleasant past events, listen to music, look at the scenery, say what you can say, do what you can do, walk the way you should go, and see what you want to see. people.

There will always be days on the 14th when the wind is a little strong, the rain is a little heavy, the sky is a little dark, people are a little tired, and there is a lot of sand and gravel underfoot. Maybe I don’t know how to let myself go through this journey safely, but I think that as long as I still want to go on, everything I experience will be just a passing cloud in the end.

Fifteen * One day you will understand that you have to digest your grievances by yourself. You don’t need to tell your story to everyone, there are only a few people who truly understand you