Mom’s marriage

? Mom is the second eldest child in the family, with a brother who is four years older, a sister who is four years younger, and a brother who is eight years younger. At that time, there was no family planning, and everyone wanted to have more children in the family who could work hard.

My grandma’s father died early, and my mother had two younger half-brothers. My grandpa also had the same background. His father died young and his mother remarried. The difference is that he did not follow his mother and become his grandparents. The two of them got married and gave birth to my mother, uncle and aunt.

? When my mother was a child, her health was not good. She would get sick every three days. She would not eat this or touch anything else. When eating cornmeal pancakes, she would bake two white flour pancakes for her and call her the youngest uncle. No share. Thanks to my grandpa, they did a small business selling tofu and sesame oil when they were young, so they had some wealth. At that time, my grandfather was the only person in the village who raised horses, and everyone else had cows. To this day, I jokingly call my grandpa a household worth ten thousand yuan in the village. Later, the family built a house for my uncle. In addition, my grandfather and uncle were injured while working. The injuries were not serious. They were transferred from the town hospital to the city hospital, and the family savings were put into it. Fortunately, they were human It's okay, grandpa was discharged from the hospital safely.

As the eldest son, my uncle continued to go to school, but my mother did not go to school anymore. Instead, she left home and went to work in Qingdao. When it first started to develop in the 1980s, there were many job opportunities, and my mother was quite diligent, so I established myself on a construction site. At that time, a young man from Laoshan on the construction site liked my mother. The two of them ate and went shopping together, and my mother even went to his house. In my mother's words, that young man was thin, either very good or average height, and a bit dark. When I went to his house, his parents were very nice people. They treated her as their daughter and liked her very much.

My eldest uncle is dull and stubborn, and he doesn’t like girls. He is twenty-six or seven years old and he still doesn’t have a wife. In the late 1980s and early 1990s, such an old man didn’t have a wife in the countryside. He would be laughed at. Grandma was a little bit patriarchal. I don’t know who paid attention to it. Grandma decided to use the popular method of marriage at the time, which was to exchange her daughter for her son’s daughter-in-law.

Grandma called her mother back, and when she came back, she said she had introduced a partner to her. At that time, my mother was confused and told my grandma that he had a partner. Grandma said she was far away from home and other reasons for disagreeing. My mother got angry and had a fight with her. Then my grandma did something shocking. He went to my great-grandma’s grave and cried and complained that my mother was unfilial. I cried. Later, my mother could not withstand the pressure and cut off contact with everyone and everything in Qingdao and married my father. My father’s sister, my aunt, married my uncle.

Then my cousin and I were born one after another. My father loved me and my mother, and my uncle’s family was also very harmonious. Both families lived happily, just when everyone thought that this happiness would last forever. Conflict broke out. My grandfather passed away when my father was very young, and my grandmother was in poor health. My eldest aunt was the eldest in the family and was more than ten years older than my father. She was the one who made the decisions in the family. Later, when she got married, she also liked to take care of her younger brothers and sisters. Mom My uncle and I are quite strong and don't like others to point fingers at our house. I often hit my aunt's heart as the boss, once, twice, and three times. Finally, my aunt suddenly got into trouble. She started to quarrel with her uncle for various reasons, which eventually escalated into a fight and finally ran away from home. This is when grandma couldn't sit still. If your daughter is gone, why should she be my son's daughter-in-law? Why should my daughter be assigned to your family as a daughter-in-law? So she started to use various means to get her mother to go home. After grandma and her eldest aunt, After unremitting efforts, the two families finally separated. My mother took me back to my grandma's house, while my younger aunt left my cousin and left. In this way, my cousin and I became a single-parent family. My mother and I began to live under the roof of others for more than ten years. life. At that time, my mother was only 26 or 27 years old and she was living with me at my grandma's house when I was 3 or 4 years old. She never remarried because of me. To this day, I still think that my mother is the greatest woman I have ever seen.

Until I was in the second grade of junior high school, an aunt who knew my mother introduced her younger brother to my mother, who became my current father. The following year, I had a 16-year-old half-brother. My stepfather and my mother now love each other, my sister is naughty and cute, and I am married and have my own family.

I only hope that my mother will be happy in this life!