Why do some people say that honest people in rural areas are terrible?

Honest people in rural areas generally don't get angry, but when they get angry, they are Conan the destroyer. In fact, honest people everywhere are the same, but honest people in rural areas look more Mu Na and more honest.

Next, tell a true story:

A few years ago, in the countryside where my brother-in-law's hometown was located, in the first month of the lunar calendar, a tragedy occurred in which his son-in-law was killed. So what caused the door-to-door son-in-law to create such a tragedy? The reason must be that he was treated unfairly in his mother-in-law's house.

I heard my brother-in-law say that the woman's family has better economic conditions, but she only gave birth to two girls and no boys. The woman's parents (that is, the father-in-law of the tragic man) wanted to recruit a door-to-door son-in-law, and finally chose this son-in-law. The son-in-law is an honest man worthy of the name. He usually doesn't talk much, smiles at everyone and works hard. But even so, the woman is still not satisfied and can call him at any time, and the man is waiting patiently again and again. It was not until later that male infertility was found out that the woman completely quit and insisted on divorce. The man refused to go, so the woman had to go. Later, the woman repeatedly tried to anger the man with words. The man lost his mind and killed him during the Chinese New Year, and then the first scene appeared.

Facts have proved once again that honest people can't be bullied!

Although they usually have a negative attitude towards Nuo Nuo. Everyone seems to be a nice guy, but once it breaks out, it will ignore the consequences and hurt others. Their anger and resentment will erupt in an instant, and no one can stop them.

The subject's question says that honest people in rural areas are terrible, and there is such a situation, which may be opposed by others. I sympathize with honest people from my heart. Our party has always advocated honesty, telling the truth and doing practical things. Honest people are characterized by honesty, trustworthiness, integrity, conformity, obedience and satisfaction. However, in real life, there are a few honest people, and if their temper comes, they will

In our village, there are a pair of honest people recognized by the whole village. The man's name is Beijing and the woman's name is Ba Jin. She gave birth to five boys and one girl. She was ill and suffered from joint pain all the year round. They also have a good relationship with their neighbors, so the production team was re-elected. Everyone agreed to recommend Beijing as the production captain, and one of them was an honest man. In fact, it is really difficult for an honest man to command dozens of households, because he is step by step and will not change at all. He only knows how to suffer. On rainy days, he led everyone to weed in the fields. Others suggested that they should operate in paddy fields on rainy days, but he just refused to listen to others' opinions. As a result, the production team was ruined.

So how many people have been dragged by civil disputes caused by such honest people, as personal experience to tell you.

I, party member from the production team, members of the management committees of other teams, and prestigious old farmers in the village, began to mediate, but failed.

2. Inviting the elder friends of Beijing couple to mediate, but failed.

3. The cadres of the brigade conducted mediation for many times, but failed.

4. Report to the commune party committee, and Kong, secretary of the commune party committee, went to the scene to find out the situation, but it still failed.

Later, someone thought of my cousin in Beijing, that is, my wife's cousin, and asked him to help mediate in a commune in Jiangsu, but it still failed. The commune secretary was so angry that he tore up all the unreasonable invoices in his hand and asked the other party to pay.

Finally, he found a cousin to be the secretary of the political and legal Committee in this county to understand the situation.

After the situation happened, in order to appease him, he was sued by the court according to his request, and the court ruled that he still refused to implement it. It should be said that mediation failed.

7. In the end, it will disappear and disappear automatically with time.

8. This is a true story. Please comment.

Don't tell me, my family lives in the countryside and mountains! There is a very honest man! Bullying can't be said anyway! Is to calculate you, take advantage of you! Let me talk about it. Time has passed for a long time!

It seems to be in 10 or 1 1 year! His cousin told him to work in another town! We have to move back home! That is, it has existed for a long time. At that time, it was said that the salary was 1500 January! A family of four lives on that money! Don't mention how hard it was that day! In fact, at that time, he talked with others about his salary of 2000 and thought it was his brother! Help or something! Also embarrassed to refuse! Squeeze your head and go! At first, the salary was paid as usual! About a year later, I often default on my salary or something! A delay is half a month! There is really no way out, just ask the salary! Why do you say your brother is still in such a hurry? Why not give it to you! Then the salary was given! But the relationship between the two families is very stiff, and I won't work there for a year! Married, took the kids back to their hometown,

Then the point is coming! Three years later, his brother was short of money! Tell him to lend him 50 thousand yuan from the bank! Think about it. Fifty thousand is not a small sum in the countryside! Then he was embarrassed to refuse. Business is getting worse and worse, probably 17! Money owed! Not yet, he said to give him money to repay the loan! No money now! What can't I do for him? He pays interest every month! About 1000 yuan! I don't know exactly. I paid back 30,000 yuan on 18! There is no mention of money now,

The reason why honest people are bullied is that they don't know how to refuse others!

I once experienced a similar thing personally: a bully in a junior high school class bullied the best student in the class. That student was too honest to fight back. Later, the honest man killed the bully.

Let me tell you a detailed story: in a junior high school class, a group of bad students idled around all day, bullied their classmates and formed a so-called "brother" gang. Maybe it's jealousy. Later, he got into the trouble of being the first in his class. He is a boy, who often ranks among the best in exams and comes from a poor family.

This group of students often bully him when they see that he doesn't fight back. Then one night, in the dormitory, they bullied him again, but this time their fate changed forever. I don't know when the first honest man took a knife out of his arm and stabbed them. In the end, he died and was injured. The student is safe and sound.

This incident shocked the whole school and caused an uproar. Later, the police came, put him in prison and lost hundreds of thousands. Poor old parents don't know how they felt when they heard the news. They are proud of their good students, proud children, honest people, killed people and went to prison.

I don't know exactly. All I know is that white-haired parents came to school and cried, and lost hundreds of thousands. Since then, I have never heard anything from him. First, he is an honest and good student.

From then on, I saw those honest people with plain appearance. I won't look down on them. Beneath the seemingly inconspicuous appearance of outsiders, they have their own stories and families. When I see people in need, I will try my best to help them. I don't want to help too much, but I just want to do my part. Most of them belong to poor people, and I will try my best to help them.

Honest people in rural areas are terrible. Jokes, they are not terrible at all, but amiable. You have a job, ask him, he helps you, and you have no money to borrow it from him. If he had money, he would certainly lend it to you. If he has no money, he will be embarrassed. Even if he says he's sorry, if you entrust him with something, you will put a hundred hearts into it. He won't steal, touch, rob or make trouble. It is precisely because of this character of honest people that some malicious people bully them and take advantage of honest people. They can tolerate some small things, but there is a certain limit to this patience. As the saying goes, a dog jumps over a wall to avoid biting. Honest people were forced to rush into landslides and tsunamis, and people bled three feet in a rage. In life, aren't many murders committed by honest people?

Be kind to honest people, don't bully honest people, be equal to honest people, make friends with honest people, and honest people will repay you with their heart. What reason do we have to bully and deceive such people?

Therefore, honest people are not terrible. What is terrible is the heart of the person who eats persimmon and chooses softness.

Why are honest people in rural areas terrible?

In fact, it is not that honest people in rural areas are terrible, but that the outbreak of honest people in rural areas being forced to rob will have very serious consequences! ! ! If you don't touch the bottom line of honest people, bully honest people and insult honest people, how can honest people break out!

On the other hand, ordinary people will be angry if they are forced to be angry! Anyone who is violated, scolded or bullied will be angry! Honest people are human beings and have a temper. If you bully him once or twice, he will leave you alone. When the value of being bullied reaches the psychological bottom line of honest people, honest people can't stand it! If you provoke honest people again at this time, the consequences will be very serious!

Therefore, it is not that honest people in rural areas are terrible, but that honest people should be respected more. If you think an honest man is a soft persimmon, pinch it if you want, and one day you will find that you are wrong! The more honest people are, the less they should bully others. Everyone should be equal!

In fact, honest people have a good temper and are easy to get along with. In general, just ask an honest man for help! Honest people will agree without hesitation! We should be happy with useful friends, not bullying honest people!

Why do I say we should respect honest people and don't bully honest people! Let me tell you something true.

We have a very honest man here. He works in a forestry station in the county. He is the stationmaster of the forestry station! At the forestry station, there is another person who is a staff member of the forestry station. He speaks straight and doesn't give the stationmaster face. Because the stationmaster is honest, he speaks openly, regardless of the occasion, and completely ignores the stationmaster. It can be said that the contradiction that occasionally happens on the webmaster's head will not be great, but if it happens frequently, it will cause big problems. Thirdly, when going out to perform tasks, I don't know the specific reasons. Later, most people in the forestry station in the county were fired! Focus on investigation!

As the saying goes, disaster comes from the mouth, and a person's actions are beyond his control, and sooner or later he will be unlucky!

It can be seen from this incident that if you don't mess with honest people, honest people can't just give you two strokes! If an honest person feels that his personality is not respected or treated unfairly, he will seriously lose his mind! Then the consequences will be serious! Even pay a huge price!

Therefore, honest people should be respected, and honest people in rural areas should also be respected! Not that honest people are terrible, but those who bully honest people are terrible!

Kong Ergou described the past situation in northeast China.

A rural teenager (Guanghui), his family took great pains to send him to school in the county.

One day, he was playing on the playground. A group of students played badminton and hit the ball into a tree. Brilliant climbed the tree out of kindness and picked it up. When the teacher met him, he severely criticized Brilliant and accused him of being too naughty.

Glory said nothing.

After a while, a rogue boy hit the ball into the tree again and let Brilliance pick it up. Brilliant thought that it was not easy for his parents to send him to school here, and he was afraid that the teacher would have a problem with him, so he refused.

After a period of time, the rascal was very angry, so he asked people in the society to tidy up the glory and let it pay money every week. Glory was afraid, so he tried to ask for money from home every day to give the rogue boy, until one day, Glory really went bankrupt. After many days of humiliation and pressure, Glory spent the last five dollars to buy a dagger and went to school with a book on his back.

After school, the rogue boy and several others, as always, found Guanghui and asked him for money. Guanghui stabbed the rogue boy without hesitation and was sentenced himself.

Most honest people are withdrawn. If you are bullied by others for a long time, you may go to extremes and kill this person who often bullies him. There are husband and wife in our hometown. The woman is outspoken and loves to talk and laugh. Husband is honest and doesn't like to talk. Whether working in a foreign country or at home, she likes to make fun of her husband, and sometimes belittles her husband in crowded places, making him lose face. The husband was dissatisfied with her practice and repeated reminders had no effect. Once, they chatted at home and talked about his character. She laughed at her husband for being timid, honest and dull, not a man. When her husband saw that she often said this, he got angry and called the woman a tigress, so the woman went over and tore his mouth. Two men got into a fight. The man was so strong that he knocked down the woman. A woman's mouth is still unforgiving, and swearing is even worse. The man had the idea of killing people, took a hoe from the outside and smashed the woman's head a few times. The man killed the woman and then hanged himself in the house. The villagers say that there are many people going to work, radish is the main course, and carrots are peppers. I can't say it after eating it.

Therefore, when a person is often bullied, psychological barriers will occur. When the psychological endurance reaches a certain limit, there will be murder psychology and it will go to extremes.

No personality

Psychology: Why is it so terrible for honest people to be angry? Do you know their psychological state?

What people fear most is not mediocrity, but lack of individuality. The reason why many honest people are unpopular is actually another factor, lack of personality. According to psychology, popular people have their own obvious personality tags. What is personality? Personality is something unique to a person, such as cheerful, introverted, calm, simple and honest, versatile, like to travel and so on. These can be a person's personality labels, and honest people often give people an impression of no personality, which is also because honest people don't know how to use labels to shape themselves in the social environment.

1, the rage under long-term repression

In the environment of long-term display of IQ, honest people have a hard time. If they cater to it, they may be laughed at, but if they don't, they will be hit. Then the accumulated negative energy will be very much psychologically, just waiting for that fuse. I don't know, have you ever seen an honest man get angry? It's very shocking. Anger seems to burn everything. /2. The psychological pressure caused by the outside world keeps accumulating and cannot be effectively released.

Honest people generally belong to introverted personality. They talk very little, but they have a strong sense of external things and are very sensitive and delicate inside. They know everything that happens in life. They generally know whether their friends are good or bad, but they are not good at words and do not express their true feelings easily. Therefore, when they are under some psychological pressure in their life and work, they will temporarily accumulate in their hearts because they can't find a suitable outlet to release them.

3, introverted, do not like to talk to friends, and soon reached the emotional critical point.

Honest people are very introverted and have low trust and dependence on others. I don't like talking to my closest friends, so I always live in my own small world and hate being disturbed and invaded by others.

It is said that honest people in rural areas are terrible. In fact, while pointing to honest people, more spearheads point to themselves.

First of all, an honest man is definitely not as terrible as the wicked, so why doesn't anyone say the wicked? Because you are afraid of him and dare not provoke him, you dare not say a word, let alone help. When the wicked bully others, so as to avoid the wicked, you won't intersect with the wicked, and you won't feel the existence of the wicked.

Secondly, since everyone says that people are honest, it shows that this person has always been honest and diligent, living his own small family life and never bullying others, even those who are very low-key. These people don't know where they have offended you, saying that honest people are terrible.

Third, because honest people are low-key, some people think they are easy to bully, and they like to make fun of honest people and play with their mouths. Honest people will definitely not dispute with you again and again, and at most they will be warned if they have too many times. But some people just feel bullied and don't listen to warnings. Don't you know that disaster comes from your mouth? Because honest people like to keep a low profile, they can be more tolerant. They've made you do it, and they don't know if it's good or bad. Normal people have already erupted, but normal people often erupt, and everyone is used to it. Even if someone hurts someone, it's not surprising. When an honest man breaks out and hits people, people feel that the weather has changed. Usually soft buns are worse than themselves, which makes them feel terrible. It is unfair to say that honest people are terrible.

As the saying goes, living a quiet life in front of yourself and others will make you feel terrible. Do you need to reflect on yourself more?