"Shen Teng, why don't you get divorced?"

Hi, Mom, the box office exceeded 4.5 billion, and Shen Teng successfully climbed to the top of 20 billion box office actors.

Originally it was a gratifying thing, but Shen Teng's wife, Wang Qi, was scolded by the hot search.

It's all because she broke up Shen Teng and Mary.

As we all know, Shen Teng and Mary are the king's fried dough-pieces of dough twist FunAge, and they have been partners for more than ten years.

After starring in the movie Goodbye Mr. Loser, I gained a lot of CP powder.

Later, the two married and had children, and they no longer cooperated frequently, which became a problem for many people.

Last week, Shen Teng Mary was on the same stage again in a variety show. Visible to the naked eye, both of them deliberately kept a certain distance.

CP fans are crazy. It's all because Wang Qi has alienated them.

Although Weibo in Wang Qi has stopped, they still surrounded the comment area to vent their anger.

Attacking looks and figure, advocating Wang Qi's forced marriage and deceiving the rich second generation, even Weibo, who celebrated his son's birthday in Wang Qi, was full of ridicule and abuse.

One by one, Wang Qi became a "poisonous woman" in the mouth of netizens, and Shen Teng was like a poor man trapped in a marriage cage.

But is this really the case?

-02-

"Shen Teng, what is the most correct thing you have done?"

"I entered the Twist FunAge after graduation, and I found this girlfriend (Wang Qi) before graduation."

In his senior year, Shen Teng took a fancy to Wang Qi, a junior who performed tap dancing on the stage, and they were together for 12 years.

After graduation, he appeared in many TV plays, but when Shen came into contact with drama, his life was always short.

Wang Qi never cared about and always supported Shen Teng's cause.

The only breakup is not that Wang Qi is too poor and loves the rich, as reported by netizens.

But Shen Teng is playing tricks in the dark, doing nothing, completely ignoring Wang Qi's feelings.

After breaking up, Shen Teng felt like a knife. After learning from a bitter experience, he took the initiative to recover Wang Qi.

This time, they never let go of each other's hands, and it was 12.

The controversy began with Shen Teng's participation in the variety show "The Son-in-Law Comes".

At that time, Wang Qi had been with Shen Teng for 12 years.

Naturally, Wang Qi's parents want their relationship to have a happy ending.

This has become a "forced marriage" in the mouth of netizens.

"Shen Tenghong, a woman who has been with him for so many years, can't do without a knot. He is riding a tiger. "

As we all know, the so-called "urging marriage" is a script. The original intention of Shen Teng's participation in the program was to propose marriage.

On the day of marriage proposal, Shen Teng, who thought she would be strong, sang the third lyric and burst into tears.

Wang Qi's "fatness", which was criticized by netizens, was also used by Shen Teng.

Shen Teng, who was born in the northeast, never had that kind of male chauvinism in front of Wang Qi.

Wang Qi worried that eating would make her out of shape, so Shen Teng took the initiative to coax Wang Qi to eat:

"Nothing, it looks good when you are fat."

Mary and Wang Qi have been best friends since they were not popular. They always go out to play together.

Mary said, "I am the only woman Wang Qi trusts, and I deserve her trust. We talk about everything. "

Years of friendship, but I was misunderstood when I participated in the "Happy Comedian".

Shen Teng and Mary need to borrow their seats to kiss because of the plot. As a result, Mary lost her footing and they really kissed.

After the performance, Wang Qi came on stage, and Mary hissed at them for "kissing". Wang Qi said:

"He just kissed Mary, so he must rinse his mouth when he goes back."

Talk and laugh with Mary.

A joke between good friends caused trouble, which was interpreted as a prank by netizens and broke up Shenma CP.

Chai Jing once said:

Let Shen Teng Mary "float away", where is Wang Qi? It's just what netizens say.

Nowadays, avoiding suspicion is Shen Teng's protection of marriage and Mary's respect for friendship.

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Shen Teng and his wife were never the only ones who were pointed at.

Kang Hui, 48, married his wife for 22 years and gave her the gentlest side:

As long as you are free, you must not let your wife do housework.

His wife hurt her waist, and even though she was busy at work, he insisted on accompanying her to the hospital for physical therapy.

Such a couple was attacked because they had no children:

"Without children, life is imperfect and selfish!"

Gina is a famous "crazy lover", and all she can do is to resolutely prevent Lang Lang from getting started.

Once, Gina was photographed helping Lang Lang with her luggage at the airport, but Lang Lang was empty-handed.

Husband and wife have their own needs, and Lang Lang is accused of "love rat" and "treating his wife as a nanny".

So that when I went out with Gina later, Lang Lang grabbed the bag as soon as he saw it, always guarding against the mouth of netizens.

Christy Chung, 50, with three daughters, married Zhang Lunshuo, who was 12 years younger than her.

She also wants to fight Zhang Lunshuo and have the crystallization of love. In her eyes, "giving birth to a husband is a very romantic thing."

This decision about love was ridiculed by netizens as a fertility machine.

Are they really wrong?

Read such a story:

The monk asked, which do you think is better, a piece of gold or a pile of mud?

The seeker replied: gold, of course!

The monk smiled and said, what if you were a seed?

The German philosopher Leibniz once said: There are no two identical leaves in the world.

The same is true of marriage, such as drinking water and knowing yourself and yourself. Don't use your own experience to point out other people's feelings.

If you are not a fish, you will know the happiness of fish.

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Hemingway once said, "It took us two years to learn to speak, but it took us a lifetime to learn to shut up."

In a word, it is really easy to ruin the happiness of others.

A middle-aged woman was setting up a stall on the roadside when her husband came by bike to bring her lunch as usual.

Late, the husband smiled apologetically and sat there watching his wife eat with relish.

Passers-by passed by at this moment. She glanced at her wife's lunch box and said dismissively:

"There is no oil and water at all, how to eat.

It's a pity that a big man makes his wife suffer every day. "

Then pretended to sigh and turned away. Only the woman sat stupefied with a box lunch, the man's eyes were red, and the two were relatively silent.

Emotional expert Zhu Jing said in the article "Don't disturb others' happiness": "What you see in your eyes may be a kind of suffering, and what others see in their eyes may be happiness."

Sit still and think about yourself all the time. Gossip is not personal.

If you can't bring happiness to others, it is also a kind of advanced kindness not to disturb others' happiness.

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Zhou said in On Happiness:

Everyone has his own life and goes his own way. Stay close to the actor's work and stay away from his life.

You can not bless, but please don't disturb. You can light your own lights, but don't blow out others' lights.

Forward+"look", I hope you and I can have everything that makes us happy, and we can also have kindness that does not disturb others' happiness.

Not disturbing is the greatest gentleness.