She was abandoned and adopted by Sichuan bachelors. When he grew up, he became a baiwenhang and took his adoptive father to court. what do you think?

1993, a disabled bachelor aged 3/kloc-0 in rural Sichuan adopted an abandoned baby. At that time, every family lived a hard life, not to mention his low IQ, and sometimes his life depended on others. His family objected to his adoption of the baby girl.

However, under his insistence and the argument of raising children to prevent old age, the family finally agreed to help the little girl register. Unexpectedly, 23 years later, the adopted daughter grew up and took the adoptive father to court after marriage, demanding the dissolution of the adoptive father relationship. After the court accepted the case, it finally ruled that the adoption was invalid and agreed to dissolve the father-daughter relationship.

Cai Chong, the adoptive father, never understood why the daughter he eventually raised didn't want him as his father. Although he is an adopted daughter, he always treats his child as his own daughter.

What saddens him even more is that the 30,000 yuan pension money he worked so hard to accumulate was also taken away by his adopted daughter. Why did the adopted daughter become a stranger after 23 years? What the hell happened between them?

1962, Fang was born in a rural family in Guang 'an City, Sichuan Province. At the age of eight, he had a bad cold and a high fever.

At that time, the family was too poor, and my father died early. My mother dragged him and his brother's two children alone, barely eating, and had no money to send him to the hospital for treatment. She could only use rural methods to reduce her fever. Later, the fever did go away, but because it didn't go away in time, my brain burned out, sometimes I understood, sometimes I was confused.

When Fang was confused, he ran around the village. He understands, and he knows how to do odd jobs and earn some pocket money. My brother Fang Chongqian moved out when he got married, leaving only his mother and Fang at home, and the mother and son lived alone.

When the eldest son got married, the mother finally finished one thing, but looking at this silly little son, she was very worried. How can a smart girl like him be willing to marry him? Fang didn't understand his mother's worries. He is happy every day and doesn't know what sadness is. This day flies, and he will be 3 1 year old.

My mother is old, too. What worries her most is Fang Cai Chong, unmarried, childless and stupid. what should he do ？ Only your eldest son can entrust it. But the eldest son is not rich, and the death of the younger son is also a burden for the eldest son. Her palms are full of meat and she loves her two sons.

That day, she was thinking about it, but she couldn't help sighing. At that time, Fang hurried back from the outside and saw what was in his arms. Her eyes are not good and she can't see what it is. When her son approached, she was so scared that she almost sat on the ground. The son's arms turned out to be a newborn baby.

"Where did you get this child? My stupid son! You've caused your mother trouble again! " The mother hurriedly took the child from Fang's arms and went outside.

Mother thought it was a mentally retarded son, so she took the child back when others were not looking. She was afraid that her son would accidentally hurt the child, which was no small matter.

But Fang prevented her mother from leaving, even said angrily, gesticulating, "For me, men, for me, children …". He speaks incoherently. Mother didn't understand and insisted on going out. She wants to send the child back to others quickly. In the process of tearing and entanglement, someone in the village went home and told her about the process of the baby being taken back by Fang.

It turned out that a sallow and emaciated man came to the village, wearing patched clothes and holding an old quilt in his arms. He asked anxiously, who can adopt a child? He said that the family was difficult and there were many children, so he couldn't afford it. But after all, he is his own flesh and blood, hoping to find a good family for his children.

Curious villagers went to see the doll, which was only a few days old and had a thin constitution. They are all worried that it will not live and no one will adopt it. Seeing that no one was adopted, the man plopped down on his knees and begged the onlookers: "Please be kind and save the children!" ! In my house, she is a dead end, help! " .

Someone advised him: "It's not that I don't help you, it's a life!" If you adopt her, you have to be responsible for her. No one has this ability! "Some people also advised him to take it back." No matter how hard it is, you have to raise your own children. "When a group of people were talking about it, no one noticed that Fang suddenly held the child up. He looked at the child's thin face gently and calmly with an expression he had never seen before, and his eyes were full of love.

His behavior frightened the villagers who knew him well. Can he adopt the child? This is a joke. He can't even support himself. How does he support a child? The villagers persuaded Fang, "Give the child back to others quickly, you can't raise it." Fang seems to be unable to hear, holding the child in her arms and not letting go.

When the villagers in turn tried to persuade the man not to give the child to Fang, the man did not know when he had run away. Fang ignored other people's words and ran back to his home with his child in his arms. After listening to the villagers, the mother was relieved to know that her son had no accident.

Relax first, then worry. What about the skinny kid in front of us? Fang can't count on it at all, and it costs money to raise children. If there are no earners at home, how can we have money to support them? The mother thought about it and decided to send the child away. Whether her son understands it or not, she says we can't afford to raise this child. No matter what she said, Fang refused to let go and insisted on keeping the child.

The mother had no choice but to consult with her eldest son. The eldest son's opinion is clear. The child cannot be raised and must be sent back. He loves his mother very much. She began to be widowed when she was young. When she was a parent, her younger brother Fang had not worried her for so many years. Her mother has never enjoyed happiness in her life. If she raises this child again, it will take many years of hard work.

However, Fang simply wouldn't listen to his words, holding the child in his arms and not letting go, for fear of being taken away. At that time, deadlocked. Perhaps, this child is destined to have something to do with their family.

The village is not big. Anyone who has anything can't hide it at all, and news will fly all over the village in a short time. What's more, the famous "fool" in the village wants to raise other people's children, and the news is even more resounding and spread to the village Committee.

After the village director knew it, he couldn't sit still and quickly came to Fangjia to ask about the situation. After understanding the situation, he sent people to the villages before and after to ask in detail, and finally found the family who abandoned the children.

The biological father of the baby girl has always wanted a boy. His newborn daughter disappointed him. He had been looking forward to his son, so he wanted to give it away so that he could have another one. After knowing the situation, the village director knew that he could not send it back. Considering the family situation of the old lady, Fang, a half-foolish son, didn't marry. He advised them to keep the children, and said, "When you raise the dolls, you can also raise Fang Cai Chong later."

In a word, reminded the old lady. Yes, raising this child will solve the problem of supporting the younger son. The question that has been bothering the old lady will be answered at once. After discussing with my eldest son, I agreed to keep the child. Coincidentally, the child seems to know that he has become this family, and the child who has been sleeping begins to cry.

What's even more amazing is that Fang actually knows how to coax children, pat them gently and sway slowly. Maybe he has seen his mother take care of his brother's children like this, and he has learned it. The old lady looked at her son and then at the child in his arms. I can't help thinking that God took pity on him and gave him the child to help him. After she left, her son Fang finally didn't have to be alone, and someone took care of him. She felt very gratified at the thought.

After the girl officially settled in Fangjia, Mrs. Fang gave the child a nickname, called "Xiao Fang". The arrival of Xiao Fang brought excitement to this quiet home. Whether it is the voice of coaxing children, teasing children, or crying and laughing children, this family has been alive. Most of the children are still taken care of by Mrs Fang. When Mrs. Fang is busy, she will give a hand and hold the baby for a while.

When the villagers know that he has adopted a child, they will say to him when they meet, "You have a daughter and a father. You can't play all day. You have to go out and make money to buy food for your children. Children grow up when they have food. "

He really understood. So, he went to the construction site with the men in the village, and helped others carry goods and unload them. He will do it as long as it is profitable. When he makes money, he buys milk powder for his children. In addition, his brother usually has a lot of sponsorship, so all the neighbors know about his family and help them from time to time.

With the care of so many people, Xiao Fang has grown up quickly and healthily. Xiao Fang speaks very early, and will soon call her father and grandmother. When he heard someone calling him dad, Fang danced with joy and told everyone.

Before, he seldom spoke. After Xiao Fang came, he was also willing to talk to others, and his words gradually increased. Xiao Fang's childhood was happy and carefree. Grandma dotes on her, her adoptive father follows her, and all the "uncles" like her. Although life is not rich, Fang Cai Chong tried his best to give Xiao Fang the best life.

Xiao Fang's favorite foods are baked sweet potatoes and boiled corn. Sometimes, when she is unfamiliar, as long as she says she wants to eat, Fang will go to the field to pick it and cook it for her. They were glad to see her eating sweetly.

Neighbors sometimes say that they are too wasteful and spoil their children. Mrs. Fang just smiled and didn't refute. In a blink of an eye, Xiao Fang has reached the age of going to school. Because they are in the mountainous area, the school is far from home and they have to walk a long mountain road.

Children in the village, their parents are busy with work and have no time to pick them up. Children who go to school go to and from school by themselves. Xiao Fang is different from other children. Fang doesn't trust her to go alone. He must send her to and from school himself. This man with low IQ, he devoted his only love to this daughter.

However, before long, someone came and stole his love. When Xiao Fang was nine years old, her parents who abandoned her suddenly came to visit. It turned out that they had a good life in recent years and made money. They are ashamed of their daughter, so they want to see her. But there is absolutely no idea of taking her back, so that Mrs. Fang can rest assured.

After discussion between the two families, it was agreed that Xiao Fang could go back to his biological parents' house for a few days during the winter and summer vacations. From then on, Xiao Fang showed kindness to his biological parents. Fang 10 years old, she went back to her biological parents' home in the summer vacation and didn't come back until the end of the summer vacation.

Fang Cai Chong went to Xiao Fang himself, but got lost because of IQ problems. Finally, it was sent home by good people. However, in the end, Xiao Fang did not return to the family where she was born. Later, she returned to Fang's home.

The quiet life was broken when she was fourteen. That year, her grandmother who lived alone died. Grandma is the pillar of this family. When the pillar fell, the family broke up. After grandma died, Xiao Fang lived with her adoptive father. However, Fang can't cook, and Xiao Fang often goes to school without food. Also, Xiao Fang was sent to the home of Fang Chongqian, Fang's eldest brother. Fang Caichong earns money by farming and doing odd jobs, and is responsible for the living and study expenses of Xiaofang.

After junior high school, the cost of going to school is increasing. Fang's money and living expenses are barely maintained, and she has no ability to study for her. Xiao Fang is very sensible, and it is not easy to know her father's. She chose to drop out of school. Later, for a better life, she went out to work with the young people in the village to make money. Fang did not expect that her daughter's trip opened the prelude to tragedy.

At first, Xiao Fang took care of his family and earned money by working. Every time she gets paid, she will send the money back to her father. Because Fang couldn't read, she sent it to her uncle and asked him to buy some delicious food for his father. When the villagers knew that she had sent the money back, they all praised the child for getting something for nothing and knowing how to be grateful. Later, for a while, Fang couldn't contact her. He was worried that something would happen to her.

Find someone to know her. It turns out that Xiao Fang is already a big girl, and someone is pursuing her and busy falling in love. The boy works with her and is two years older than her. My hometown is Jiangxi, and my parents are farmers. Both of them devoted themselves wholeheartedly to their feelings and were very serious, and soon they came to the point of talking about marriage. During the Spring Festival, Xiao Fang brought the boy back.

Fang Cai Chong, the adopted daughter, has a simple idea. She is very happy to see her daughter get her object back. Fang Chongqian, the eldest brother, saw from his manners that the child was reliable, and Xiao Fang was willing and not opposed to this marriage. But in his heart, he didn't really want Xiao Fang to marry so far.

A difficult problem lies ahead: one Sichuan and one Jiangxi are too far away. What about Fang's future support after marriage?

Fang Chongqian, Fang's brother, told the boy about this problem. I hope he will go back and discuss with his parents how to solve it. It was supposed that they would get married years later, but the boy didn't propose when he got home. After waiting for a while, the boy's family promised Fang to live together after marriage.

On 20 10, Xiao Fang and the boy got married smoothly. The husband's family also abided by the prenuptial agreement and took Fang back to live in rural Jiangxi. They didn't know that this decision finally led Xiao Fang and his adoptive father to break up step by step.

In the first few years, Fang Xiao Fang and her husband's family lived in rural Jiangxi. He doesn't eat idle meals, goes out to do odd jobs and helps others herd cattle. , and made a little money. There is no contradiction between the two sides. Later, in order to earn more money, Xiao Fang and her husband continued to go out to work. This led Fang to stay alone at Xiao Fang's in-laws' home. Originally, after marriage, Xiao Fang's father went to live. The villagers thought he was a relative, stayed for a while and left. Nobody said anything.

A few years later, my daughter and son-in-law all went out to work, and the old man still lived here. People in the village began to whisper to each other, married their daughter-in-law and brought their father. They have never seen such an appearance. In-laws have lived for most of their lives, and it's shameful to be pointed at behind their backs, as if their son is worse than others and can't get a wife.

My in-laws told Xiao Fang about it and hoped that his father would go back. They gave him living expenses every month. On the one hand, he is an adoptive father, on the other hand, he is in-laws, and there is a husband around him. On the balance of affection and love, love finally overcame affection, and Xiao Fang agreed with her mother-in-law. So, at the end of 20 15, he was sent back to his hometown in Sichuan. But it's not that simple.

Fang Caichong, who returned home, did not receive the living expenses of Xiao Fang's in-laws. Eldest brother Fang Chongqian called Xiao Fang's father-in-law to ask about it. As a result, it was a couple, and there was a quarrel on the phone. The two sides were very unhappy.

In a blink of an eye, the Spring Festival of 20 16 arrived. Xiao Fang returned to work in Sichuan and went to his biological parents' home, but did not return to the village to visit Fang. Until the morning of New Year's Eve, Xiao Fang's father-in-law took his son and Xiao Fang to Fang's house, took Fang outside for a reunion dinner, and sent Fang back that afternoon.

Moreover, Xiao Fang didn't say hello before he rushed to his uncle. Fang Chongqian was very sad when he thought of his contribution to Xiaofang. But he didn't think much. After all, Xiao Fang was raised by their family, so she can't be ungrateful. However, he neglected that the most difficult thing to guess in the world is the human heart.

After the Chinese New Year, Xiao Fang lost contact, occasionally contacted, and refused to answer the phone on the grounds of "busy work". Subsequently, Fang received a court summons, and Xiao Fang asked the court to rule that the adoption was invalid and the father-daughter relationship was not established. The whole village was angry at the news that Fang had received a court summons. One by one, they called Xiao Fang ungrateful. She is a real version of "the farmer and the snake". It was not easy for her to raise her at home before.

The court accepted the case. After hearing the case, the court made a judgment: Fang adopted Xiao Fang only through the introduction of acquaintances, not through formal legal channels and not registered with the local civil affairs bureau. Therefore, the adoption of the ruling party is invalid, and the father-daughter relationship between the two is also invalid. This means that Xiao Fang has no obligation to support Cai Chong.

However, the court also supported Fang to sue Xiaofang and asked her to pay her adoptive father's maintenance for 23 years. This result is like a bolt from the blue for Fang who has raised Xiao Fang for 23 years. The daughter he has worked so hard to raise will no longer be his own daughter, and they will become strangers, which he can't accept for a while.

Fang Cai Chong often mumbles with a picture of Xiao Fang, "She doesn't care about me, and now she doesn't care about me." Moreover, there is another thing that makes Fang sad: Fang has 30 thousand yuan, which he left to Xiao Fang's father-in-law, and suddenly disappeared.

This 30 thousand yuan is Fang's pension money. 20 13, the two companies agreed that the money should be deposited in the bank, the deposit certificate should be kept by Fang's family and the password should be kept by Xiao Fang's father-in-law. It is agreed that Xiaofang will raise Fang Cai Chong to 60 years old and the money will go to Xiaofang. However, Fang's family went to the bank and learned that 30 thousand yuan had been reported lost. Xiao Fang's father-in-law said that Fang Cai Chong paid for the money himself.

The two families went to court because of this matter. Soon, Xiaofang took the "adoptive father" Fang Cai Chong to court. The cause and effect of the matter, who is right and who is wrong, is really a bit confusing. In any case, whether they are father or daughter, one thing is certain: Fang Caichong's family raised Xiao Fang for 23 years, which is a fact that no one can erase.

Someone once said that the most regrettable thing in life is that "the tree wants to be quiet, but the wind will not stop, and the child wants to raise it." Family harmony, unity and friendship, respect for the elderly and love for the young, and younger generations should honor their elders. This is a fine tradition for thousands of years and a beautiful wish shared by all.

Why did Xiao Fang break up with his adoptive father Fang Cai Chong? Many netizens said that it was because they had no money that they were so rude. But I think this is just one of many factors. What do you think is the core reason? What do you think of this matter?