What is the wisest thing for a wife to do when she finds out that her husband is cheating?

Practice 1: cry if you want, and then actively adjust family relations. This must be very frustrating for you. This long-held grievance will make you breathless. If you make a scene, it will only make others laugh and only increase your troubles. If you feel uncomfortable, find a place where no one is there, cry loudly and release all the grievances. Once you cry, you will feel much better. Then you should adjust your mentality and actively improve and adjust your family relationship. No matter how bad the situation is, you should remain optimistic and open-minded, so as to positively influence him. If you try to change yourself and take care of your husband's mood, I believe the family atmosphere will definitely improve. Practice 2: Try to communicate some family responsibilities with her husband and bear her husband's infidelity, often because she is tired of family life. But many men don't know that even if he likes a woman again, once he gets married and gets along for a long time, if he can't tolerate the shortcomings of this woman, marriage will make him bored. Therefore, you should understand the immaturity of men, and at the same time, you should try to help your husband grow up and let him know some family responsibilities and responsibilities. Marriage certificate is a kind of responsibility and constraint. If you want to have a beautiful marriage, you should not only know how to take responsibility, but also know how to restrain yourself and be loyal to the marriage. It's just that many men don't understand this responsibility and constraint. You should try to guide your husband through other people's stories, let him see where the roles and responsibilities of men and women should be in other people's happy marriages, help him understand the meaning of marriage, and let him know that the greatest happiness in life is the happiness of marriage. Practice 3: I can't get through my husband emotionally and start to pay attention to him. Husband cheated, and his mind was largely outside. If you want to attract him back, you should also pay attention to your attitude towards life. You can also wear exquisite high heels or make up lightly. At the same time, you should also be careful not to be emotionally awkward with your husband, and don't always give him a look, because a family living in harmony is more important than anything else. You should know that your husband's infidelity is largely responsible. Lin Yutang wrote Clouds in Beijing, in which the heroine Yao Mulan is so smart and talented, but her husband will still cheat. For her husband's infidelity, she began to dress herself up and pay attention to men. She not only wears delicate makeup, but also sews clothes for her husband herself. No matter how late her husband comes back, she waits for him. It is precisely because of her true feelings that she touched her husband, thus saving him and maintaining the happiness of the family. Husband cheated because he didn't understand the responsibilities and constraints of marriage, but he was immature. If you go against him or have an argument with him, then your marriage will collapse. Therefore, when you find out that your husband is cheating, as a wife, if you don't want to divorce, you should abandon those traditional crying and adopt the most sensible approach: actively and optimistically improve family relations, keep your husband with your own wisdom and wisdom, and protect your happiness. What is the wisest thing for a wife to do when she finds out that her husband is cheating? 2 1. Don't make a hullabaloo about knowing that her husband is cheating. I believe that every wife has psychological discomfort. At this time, if you make a hullabaloo about at each other, or attack mistress, or quarrel with each other with other things, you can of course express your anger and sadness, but if you lose your image in front of your husband, your husband will break the jar and fall, and some men will even break the jar and fall. It is a foregone conclusion that you don't publicize "dirty clothes" everywhere. At this time, if you publicize your husband's affair with friends or relatives everywhere, others will not dare to make any suggestions rashly. Most people will take the practice of persuading them not to leave, which will not be of much practical help to themselves, and may also make this matter known to everyone, which is not conducive to the return of their husbands. On the contrary, if we don't talk about it for the time being, after the husband leaves the other party, he can easily return to the family without any embarrassment in front of outsiders. In particular, going to complain to the elders of both sides may lead to war between the two families. After the war escalates, the scene is often difficult to clean up, and both sides may lose each other, which is not good for both sides. Especially after men's dignity and privacy are made public, it may accelerate the decision to end the marriage relationship. However, Bian Xiao also reminded me here that with this kind of worry, we should not hold it in our hearts, otherwise it may hurt our health if we hold it for too long. If you can't find a solution, you might as well talk to one or two confidants to relieve your depression, then cheer up and smile at life again. 3, calmly analyze the reasons for her husband's derailment After learning that her husband is derailed, the wife should calmly analyze the reasons for her husband's derailment, first look at what problems exist in her marriage with her husband, and see if her husband thinks that marriage is dull and wants to find some excitement, or because there are any contradictions in daily life. Couples are destined to stumble together. Think back to what once caused a rift in your relationship, and then try to make up for it. Starting from small things, showing your gentle side and touching each other can often save each other's hearts. Finally, I want to remind you that the clever way for a husband to cheat his wife is to stand on his own two feet. It is best to have your own financial resources, do not rely on your husband, do not let yourself be out of touch with today's society, get along with friends more, improve your self-cultivation, have your own career or hobbies, and make yourself more attractive, so that you can live a chic life even if you leave your husband. This is the performance of the strong.