Family affection defeats love

Zhen said that she never thought that the most precious love in her life would be lost to family affection.

Azhen and I are college classmates and roommates. She is from the plateau and I am from the Northeast. Among the shy little women in the dormitory, we are like two men, but the difference is that Azhen A man has a delicate heart beneath his appearance, but I am the real deal!

The feng shui in our dormitory was not good. Until graduation, none of us had a boyfriend, so the eight of us cuddled up to each other for warmth. It was better than sisters, and our love was stronger than gold.

But we all agree that A-Zhen is like our mother!

She wakes us up every morning,

yells at us to make the bed,

while sweeping the floor, she whispers to me that I am sloppy,

The cold weather reminds us to wear long johns,

When we are sick, we carefully deliver water and medicine,

We always want to take back the forgotten quilts hanging outside,

< p> She can mend clothes and repair zippers...

She can do everything our mother would do for us at home, so A-Zhen is like our mother, and we all love her.

We all said that Azhen’s husband would definitely be super happy in the future. Having such a careful and virtuous wife would be like marrying a mother.

Unexpectedly, it turned out to be a prophecy.

After graduation, Azhen returned to her hometown and became a special teacher. She took root on the plateau and watered the flowers of the motherland.

She and her husband met while preparing for the exam. They were classmates in elementary school and had not contacted each other for many years. They did not expect that they would come together after going round and round. Fate is such a wonderful thing.

During that time, the style of Azhen’s circle of friends was different. It was full of sweetness and love. We could see that she was very happy, and she would always shyly tell us that she She really likes her boyfriend. During the days when she was preparing for the exam, she was always very anxious. It was her boyfriend who stayed with her, telling her jokes, reviewing with her, taking her to school to observe the teacher's lectures, entering the examination room together, and waiting nervously together. The announcement of her results was the most stressful moment in her adult life, and he spent it with her all the time. When she told me this, the corners of her mouth still raised involuntarily, and her eyebrows were still smiling.

Later, both of them passed the exam as expected. On the day when the results were announced, her boyfriend took her to eat Western food, watch a movie, gave her roses, and confessed her love. We listened to her describe the scene at that time, You can see the fluttering little peach hearts on the opposite side through the mobile phone screen.

Later they got together. Because they were assigned to different places, they began a long long-distance relationship. The environment where Azhen worked was extremely poor. At the foot of the snow-capped mountains far away from the town, the Tibetans living there She could hardly speak Mandarin, and communication became a problem. Even though she was far away from the mortal world, intrigues were inevitable on the pure land of the plateau. She couldn't sleep on many lonely and cold nights. She missed her parents, home, and even more, he, who was also a teacher. And those difficult nights were filled with his soft words of comfort and his clumsy jokes, which sent her warmth through cold phone calls, letting her know that she was not alone, and that she still had him.

After two years of long-distance love, separated by hundreds of kilometers, they expressed their thoughts to each other through mobile phones and letters, supported each other, and encouraged each other. Finally, the hardships were over and spring came. Both of them were admitted as civil servants and were transferred back to work in the state and county. They no longer had to complain about missing each other thousands of miles away or feel melancholy in the moonlit sky. We followed suit and told them to get married soon!

The two quickly put their marriage on the agenda, preparing to meet their parents and discuss buying a wedding house. But when she happily and slightly shyly went to meet her parents-in-law, her heart was broken. Cool down. Her mother-in-law didn't like her, she disliked her very much, and she didn't even want to do scene work. Her cold words and cold face made her heart slowly sink.

Her boyfriend realized that something was wrong, and while comforting her, he secretly talked to his mother. Although his mother did not treat her coldly, she did not talk to her much. After two days of sitting on pins and needles, she wanted to When she went back, her boyfriend's mother was obviously unwilling, saying that she was squeamish and that it was difficult to take care of girls in the city. Zhen was so full of grievances that she could only swallow it in her stomach.

After returning from her boyfriend’s house, A-Zhen became silent. Her boyfriend knew that she felt wronged, so he always spent more time with her and was more gentle to her. At that time, A-Zhen thought, She is living with the man in front of her, not with her mother-in-law. As long as this man treats her wholeheartedly, that's enough.

However, love is a matter between two people, and marriage is a matter between two families.

Her boyfriend’s mother began to obstruct their relationship in various ways. Zhen could tolerate it at first. She knew that her boyfriend was on her side, but then one time, she finally broke out. When her boyfriend's mother called again to tell them to break up, she finally couldn't help it anymore, grabbed the phone and yelled, "Auntie, why are you doing this?"

The person on the other end of the phone paused for a moment, and his boyfriend was also stunned for a moment, but he immediately grabbed the phone and yelled at her,

"What are you doing? How can you talk to my mother like that?"

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After saying that, he ignored Azhen and walked away with the phone in his arms. Azhen looked at his back. She hoped that he would turn around and pat her head and comfort her gently like before, but he No, all her soft words of comfort were given to her mother on the other end of the phone.

That day was the first cold war between them since they fell in love. She didn't wait for him until very late. She called him, but the other party just said lightly that he lived in the work unit. The weather was a bit cloudy that day, just like her mood, with no gaps in the sunshine.

The boyfriend’s mother knew that they were quarreling, and she couldn’t wait to find a girl for her son in her hometown. She was said to be very gentle and virtuous. With her favorite daughter-in-law, she interfered more frequently in her son’s relationship, and the boy He was miserable in the middle, with his mother who had gone through all kinds of hardships to bring him up, and his heart-to-heart lover. He had no choice but to move to the work dormitory. He asked Azhen to give him time and give his mother time.

Azhen said, OK.

When Azhen’s parents knew that their daughter had suffered such great injustice, they immediately told their daughter to cut off all contact and never contact her again! The daughter that he held in his hands and loved like a treasure was so disliked by others. It would be nice not to hit him at home.

Relatives and friends also advised Azhen to break up. Azhen was also very tired, but she couldn't let go. He was her gentle moonlight in her darkest years, and his strong arm when she was walking alone, so she let her go. How could she let go of this moonlight if some of her arms were broken?

Azhen has been waiting for him. If this man comes back to her and is determined to marry her, she will follow him without hesitation! But he never came. He said he needed time to appease and persuade his mother.

The ancients once said that the love that rocks and rocks fall apart are all lies. Love in reality can be defeated so easily!

When A-Zhen decided to break up, the boy finally got tough. He was really reluctant to let go of their relationship for so many years. He knelt down in front of his mother and said that he would only marry A-Zhen in his life and that he would beg for his father. Mom, and begged Azhen’s parents. Finally Azhen couldn’t bear it anymore, and she cried bitterly while holding him. I think at that time, they both wanted to be together.

Eventually, the two got married.

Azhen thought everything would be fine, but fate always plays tricks like this, right?

After they got married and lived together, A-Zhen discovered how much her husband listened to his mother. Thinking about it, marrying her in the first place must have been a big deal, but her mother-in-law was so picky. Picky, A-Zhen wants to move out, but her mother-in-law objects to this idea as soon as she expresses it. Her son works very hard and has a bad stomach, and she is afraid that her son will suffer from stomach problems if he doesn’t eat well! She must let her son live at home so that she can cook for him. Azhen said she could do it, but her mother-in-law sneered.

"I don't want to make fun of my son's stomach!"

< p> A-Zhen was so angry that she had a fight with her mother-in-law that day. When her husband came back in the evening, before A-Zhen could say anything, her mother-in-law burst into tears and told her grievances. A-Zhen looked on coldly and returned without eating dinner. After leaving the room, my husband comforted his mother-in-law and then returned to the room and saw Azhen lying on the bed. He couldn't help but pull her up and said, "Don't quarrel with my mother in the future, let alone move out. My mother I feel aggrieved, do you know?"

"Your mother is aggrieved? Why don't you ask me if I am aggrieved?"

"You have nothing to be aggrieved about, but just do it. "How about food? You don't cook very well. Besides, it saves you a lot of trouble with mom here!"

Seeing the man in front of her with a "You are so ignorant" look on his clothes, A-Zhen suddenly Without the desire to speak, is the man in front of me with a look of disgust and indifference really still the boy who encouraged and told him jokes outside the examination room? This was the first time that A-Zhen felt regretful.

After a lot of quarrels, A-Zhen’s parents couldn’t bear it and bought A-Zhen an apartment and asked the young couple to move out. After this protracted battle for half a year, her mother-in-law finally let them move out. Of course, she was afraid that her son would be bullied so she wouldn't let them live in the house bought by Azhen's parents. She spent money to buy a property for them and decorated it properly. Azhen finally moved out of the home that made her extremely depressed.

The story does not end here. This year, Azhen gave birth to a lovely daughter. Because she was busy at work, her mother was ready to come over to help take care of the child. However, this caused strong dissatisfaction from her mother-in-law. Their child No outsiders are needed! Even my husband strongly urges my mother-in-law to take care of the children at home. But my mother-in-law is in poor health and has to take care of some elderly people. How can she support a child when she is too busy to take care of herself? My husband was angry at that time, saying that in the final analysis, she looked down on his parents. Since his mother wanted to raise a child, she wanted to do her best to contribute to the family. He also scolded Azhen for being ignorant.

Azhen’s place of work is far away from her mother-in-law’s house. This means that if the child is placed at her mother-in-law’s house, she can only see the child once a week. Her daughter is not that young yet, how can she bear to let her Leave mom?

My husband was angry. You have become a mother yourself and understand what it means to be a mother. Then why can't you be considerate and considerate of my mother? How difficult it is for her!

It’s because I’m considerate that I don’t burden her!

My husband refused to listen and insisted on placing the child next to her mother-in-law. In the end, he couldn't bear it and said,

I can have more wives and children, but my mother only has one!

Azhen's heart finally became cold. Looking back on the two years since her marriage, the tenderness gradually disappeared and the quarrels increased day by day. He was no longer the jade-like young man who amazed him in his time and was gentle in his years.

The joy of looking up and down has become an old trace.

I finally woke up from this dream.

Azhen filed for divorce, and her husband acquiesced.

It turns out that it is not just the details that defeat love, but also family affection! Mother’s affection!

I once read a saying that every girl is an angel. When she falls in love with a boy, for the sake of love, she would rather break her wings and come to the world. When the boy no longer loves her, When she was young, her wings were gone, and she could never return to their original appearance. She could only look at her bloody wings with sadness.

I remembered Azhen saying that when she saw him kneeling down to his parents, she would identify with him for the rest of her life and only wanted him no matter what.

At that time, they really really wanted to be together.

Therefore, the oath can only prove that when I took the oath, I really had the determination to unite the heaven and the earth, and this time is not that time. In this transitional time, there will be When the Paradise Flower Lake blooms, it will also spread into the boundless wilderness.

The past has become empty, still like a dream.