Always fighting at the beginning? What did I teach you to talk more and more?

Always fighting at the beginning? What did I teach you to talk more and more? Just expressing information, without emotion. Why do men refuse to communicate with us in many cases, and even ignore everyone's words? It is very important that we only express information, not show positive feelings. For example, a man gives you a boiled fish, but you find fault while eating it: "This fish is not as delicious as it is outside." Maybe you just want to tell the man that the boiled fish in the shop is better. From the other person's point of view, he just cooks a meal for you and wants you to taste its cooking, while I only pay attention to the taste of fish. Is this thing that important?

This is the performance of possessing information in communication, but there is no positive emotion. Although a man knows that his fish is not as good as that in the store, he won't think you are right, and he won't even want to cook fish with pickled vegetables for you in the future. After all, from a man's point of view, I made this boiled fish for you, not because it is really delicious, but because it tastes the same as the outside. I just hope you can see the fish with Chinese sauerkraut I cooked for you. If it's to save trouble, I might as well spend some money outside to buy you one. Therefore, in communication, positive emotional expression is also very important.

What's wrong with expressing emotions without expressing information is that the emotions expressed are negative. For example, your husband comes home too late every night. Under normal circumstances, you may vent and say, "Come home late every day, there is a room outside, and then don't come back." When you lose your temper, it is inevitable that you will say some ugly words to vent your emotions to stimulate the other party and try to make the other party pay attention to yourself, but such behavior is usually not worth the candle. The above two examples are both examples that the teacher gave you a mistake. Have you ever communicated like this? So what is the correct communication? The following is the knowledge of dry goods. Five steps of communication