How to be a good father

Family education is a knowledge and requires skills. As a father, it is common that he doesn't like to communicate with his children, and he is arbitrary and rude when things happen. If a father wants to know his children, he should first be their friends, get along with them on an equal footing, be more concerned, be more considerate and communicate more, so as to know them better and educate them more effectively. When encountering something, the father should not be impatient, but should have keen insight and analytical judgment ability to properly handle the problem. Fathers should also have high language skills. If the language is accurate, vivid, friendly, humorous and interesting, children will welcome it; On the other hand, if you are stiff, dull and dogmatic, you will be lovers. Generally speaking, there are mainly the following aspects:

A democratic and tolerant attitude.

Democracy and tolerance are by no means doting on children, but respecting and trusting children as independent life individuals. Most children are lively, curious and have a wide range of interests. Don't strictly control their daily behaviors and hobbies. As long as there is no harm, they can basically let nature take its course and let their talents and potential be brought into play.

Pay attention to cultivate good daily habits.

"The power of example is infinite", especially as a child's first teacher, adults' daily behaviors and habits are directly imitated by children. If children want to have good habits, fathers must set an example and show perseverance and patience. Take cultivating children's good habits as your own habits, set an example and urge each other with your children.

Pay attention to cultivating children's interest in learning.

Don't care too much about children's grades, especially in primary school, but pay attention to cultivating children's interest in learning. How to let children learn actively? He can learn some interesting games, tell stories, watch animations and play with various toys with simple learning functions. Older children will be more conscious and cognitive. As long as you help your child build up confidence in learning, why worry about learning and love learning?

Exercise children's good psychological quality and independent ability

Fathers should be soberly aware of the importance of children's mental health in today's complex social environment. Don't control your child in a "small vacuum" set by yourself. You don't have to pick up and drop off every day to go to school. After returning home, talk to your children about what happened at school every day, comment together, analyze good and bad, distinguish right from wrong, and achieve the goal of cultivating children to adapt to complex environment independently.