What should I do with the ashes?

This is a very personal question, and the disposal of ashes depends on everyone's beliefs, culture and personal wishes. Here are some ways to deal with the ashes: When our parents leave us, we may miss them in the following ways:

1. Preserve relics: Preserve parents' photos, relics and letters, so as to review their experiences and feelings when necessary.

2. Tree planting to commemorate: plant a tree and some flowers around the park or cemetery to commemorate parents' life and love.

3. Carry out public welfare activities: by participating in public welfare activities, help the disadvantaged groups and let us feel the care and love conveyed by our parents when they are alive.

4. ancestor worship: according to traditional customs, pay homage to parents and ancestors, pray for their blessing and guidance, and be grateful for their care and foresight before their death.

5. Respect for life: in the name of parents, pay attention to and support some public welfare activities and charitable projects that conform to their values before their death, so that their heritage can be continued.

1. Bury: The most common way to dispose of ashes is to put them in the cemetery or your private courtyard.

2. Sea burial: ashes are scattered in the sea, which is a traditional oriental way.

3. Cremation: The ashes are reduced to ashes and stored in a small tomb in a cemetery or a monument representing the deceased.

4. Collection: put the ashes in beautifully decorated urns or clay pots and put them in memorial cabinets at home or in public places.

5. Environmental protection treatment: In this way, the ashes are made into fertilizer for plant growth and operated by green certified public welfare organizations.

No matter which treatment method is chosen, it needs to be carried out within the scope of law and ethics. It is best to make these plans before you die to ensure that your wishes are respected and realized.