I am most afraid of the sudden silence of the air. What is the best way to solve the embarrassment?

Many people have encountered such a situation at parties. Everyone was chatting, and suddenly no one spoke, and they were silent for a while, which reminded me of the lyrics of a song in May? Afraid of sudden silence in the air? . Some people don't know what to do in this situation. They either take out their mobile phones to have a look, or drink water from a cup, or look far away. They must find something to do to solve their embarrassment.

In fact, there is no best way to solve the embarrassment, only the most appropriate method. Different scenes have different ways to solve embarrassment, there is no fixed routine, and it needs improvisation.

I often meet this sudden silence at parties, because most of the time I eat with my clients, and sometimes there is no topic to talk about. At this time, I will introduce the topic to the food I eat or the wine I drink. Let's discuss the taste of food or what kind of wine we like. Through this kind of guidance, open the topic and naturally have something to say.

If you are inviting others to dinner, try to find a topic anytime and anywhere and try not to be cold. You can talk about things according to each other's hobbies. For example, if someone likes watching football, you can talk to him about the game, and if someone likes traveling, you can talk to him about places suitable for traveling. Of course, the premise of all this is that you must do your homework in advance, otherwise you will have nothing to talk about if you don't know as well as others.

Usually solve it? The air suddenly became quiet? Embarrassed people speak very artistically. They know how to grasp the theme and extend it. Many people are certainly not short of such people. No matter what kind of person he meets on any occasion, he can talk about it in Kan Kan, and his words are particularly convincing. This is the art of chatting.

The more scenes a person experiences, the more ways to solve embarrassment, which is the accumulation of experience. Of course, such a person will certainly not have nothing to say and ask questions that others don't want to answer, such as privacy. It is also skillful to resolve embarrassment, otherwise it is easy to be self-defeating

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