The baby girl was thrown downstairs by her biological mother and her father refused to be treated again. How pitiful is Guan Sheng's uncared-for child?

A 4-month-old baby girl fell from the fifth floor in Shijiazhuang, Hebei Province, causing cerebral hemorrhage and lung and kidney injuries. On February 6, 65438, the baby girl's father took her home and refused to be hospitalized. The father believes that the child is now in the development stage, and only needs sleep and milk powder to raise it. What is even more shocking is that the mother's brain is not very good and she is suspected of mental illness. It is likely that the child fell from the upstairs and was thrown out by his mother. At present, the child's mother has been taken to the hospital for treatment, and the window has been installed with a protective fence.

Psychopaths can't control their behavior. If the mother gets sick when throwing the child, she may not even know what she is doing. But from the perspective of the child's father, this matter is worth pondering: the other person has mental problems, why should he marry and have children? It can only be said that in his eyes, having descendants is the most important thing, and what kind of descendants and their living environment are not worth considering.

Some people on the internet say that if you can't afford to raise a child, don't. Some people hate this view and think it violates the reproductive rights of the poor. In fact, this sentence still has some rationality: it doesn't matter if the family is poor, but it is warm and harmonious. If the family is poor, self-motivated, parents have mental problems and can't control their emotions, the child will live in hell as soon as he is born. If given a choice, children may not want to be born in such a family, just like this baby girl in Shijiazhuang.

A similar thing happened in Yangzhou: on the first day of the first month, Xu took his parents, children and wife to visit relatives. During this period, Xu ignored the children and only cared about drinking by himself. His wife was very dissatisfied with this and went home first. This made Xu feel humiliated, so he quarreled with his wife and threatened to jump off the building. His wife is angry, too, so that he can dance with his children. Xu was angered by this sentence. He threw his 4-month-old son to the ground, picked him up and threw him out of the window. The child died on the spot and Xu was arrested on suspicion of intentional homicide.

Japanese writer Kotaro Isaka wrote a sentence in his work Serenade: It's terrible to think that parents don't have to pass the exam. It's just a joke to have a baby after passing the exam, which is difficult to operate in reality, but parents really need to keep learning: learn to control their emotions, learn to observe their children's behavior, and set a good example for their children. Parents who can raise good children are always thinking about how to make their parents grow up healthily and worry about their children's various problems. In this kind of care, children will naturally consider and understand others.

If parents can't control their emotions and always talk about suicide, children will always be in fear. If they hear too many sentences like "I'd rather kill myself if you don't do it", they will become numb, start to ignore life and even yearn for death.

Children are not only children of a family, but also children of our whole society. The degree of concern and concern for children, in a sense, will directly affect the development of our future society. To create a good environment for children's growth, we should not only rely on publicity and education, but also use mandatory laws and regulations to restrain parents' behavior and make them realize that children have their own lives and consciousness, not parents' playthings.

Some foreign countries have very strict regulations in this regard. If parents fail to fulfill their supervision obligations, they will be deprived of custody by the court, and their children will be taken care of by social workers or sent to welfare homes. A couple, Michael and Heathe, opened a channel on the oil pipeline and uploaded the content of "children's pranks". In the video, they often make up all kinds of lies to scare children, instruct older children to bully children, or provoke children, encourage children to smash things, and get pleasure from these "pranks".

These videos make many people feel uncomfortable. Philip DeFranco, a famous commentator, said that the couple's behavior had already involved child abuse, and they didn't consider the children's emotional problems. The couple thought something was wrong and deleted everything in the channel. However, the Child Protection Association intervened in the investigation, and their evaluation results showed that two of the couple's five children showed signs of "mental abuse", so they lost custody of the two children and were sentenced to jail.

Young children lack the ability to protect themselves and dare not resist their parents. They can only live in the dark and need more social support. China can also follow similar practices. If parents beat, abuse or insult their children, they can deprive them of custody, create a better living environment for them and let other parents know the seriousness of the problem.