At the wedding reception, the man's parents were called "country bumpkins" by his in-laws, and the groom apologized tearfully: I was unfilial. what do you think?

Li Yang is a college student who came out of the countryside. His parents are honest farmers. People his age went out to work after finishing junior high school, but his parents insisted that he continue his studies. At first, he did not understand his parents. It was not until he went to college and came into contact with more and more things and people that he understood his parents' good intentions.

After graduating from college, Li Yang found a decent job in the city. The salary was not very high at first, but the company has great potential and good development prospects. In order to take root in this city, Li Yang works very hard and lives frugally. In a cooperation with Party A, he met Liu Qian. I should say it was love at first sight. After the cooperation, they left contact information with each other, and it didn't take long to determine the relationship.

After falling in love, Li Yang told himself the truth and made no secret of his poor family. However, after listening to his girlfriend Liu Qian's words, Li Yang felt a lot of pressure, because Liu Qian's family was well-off and his parents were both in business. Li Yang is worried that his girlfriend's parents despise himself, and he is even more worried that they despise their parents. However, my girlfriend has repeatedly promised that she will definitely make her parents like it.

Two people talked about love for more than half a year, and Li Yang went home with his girlfriend. Sure enough, after listening to Li Yang's introduction, Liu Qian's parents immediately lost their smiles and looked at Li Yang sullenly. At this time, Liu Qian called his parents to the bedroom and stayed there for more than ten minutes. I don't know what to say. Anyway, after Liu Qian's parents came out, their attitude towards Li Yang became better. Later, they formally accepted Li Yang as their son-in-law.

Not long after they met their parents, they were ready to get married. When preparing for the wedding, Li Yang had a conflict with his girlfriend. According to his girlfriend, when they get married, Li Yang's parents should not be invited. Although he didn't say it clearly, Li Yang also knew that his girlfriend didn't like his parents. But the filial Li Yang insisted on his parents' participation, so he had a big fight. Finally, Liu Qian chose to compromise and promised to let Li Yang's parents attend the wedding.

Soon the wedding day arrived, and Li Yang took his parents back from his hometown a few days in advance. He also bought them new clothes, slapped them hard, and patiently taught their parents some manners to save them from joking in public. Fortunately, their parents study hard.

On the wedding day, although Li Yang's parents were a little stiff and didn't make any jokes, they still couldn't escape Liu Qian's parents' dislike. Instead of calling "in-laws", they called Li Yang's parents "hillbillies". Hearing this name, Li Yang was a little angry at that time, but his parents stopped him.

After the wedding, Li Yang came to his parents and apologized to them with tears: "I am unfilial, and I didn't let my parents enjoy happiness and let them suffer indignities here. My son is really unfilial. " My parents also said with tears in their eyes, "Son, as long as you live well, it is worthwhile for us to be angry."

The story ends here. Some people may think, "If it were me, I would make the woman apologize on the spot, or I wouldn't get married." It sounds very manly, and it also leaves face for parents. However, in uncle Qiang's view, this is not the best choice, nor will it embarrass parents. On the contrary, it will make them feel guilty, and it will make them feel that their own reasons have brought the wedding to a deadlock. In real life, Uncle Qiang feels that many people will make the same choice as Li Yang.

Writing here, Uncle Qiang wants to talk about Li Yang's practice. Although not manly enough, it is very mature and responsible. A mature and responsible person never treats marriage as a child's play. If he is really desperate to ask her to apologize, the marriage may be lost, which will make his parents feel deeply guilty. This result is not good.

Finally, Uncle Qiang wants to say a few words to Liu Qian's parents. Really excellent people are usually humble and polite, and those who look down on others will be looked down upon by others, just like the saying, "To get respect from others, you must first learn to respect others." what do you think?