Serious reaction during pregnancy, staying at home to protect the baby was rejected by her husband: people are still working after giving birth, look at you. ......

Serious reaction during pregnancy, staying at home to protect the baby was rejected by her husband: people are still working after giving birth, look at you. ......

The baby is two years old, and it has been a long time, but it still hurts for a long time every time I think about it.

In the third month of pregnancy, morning sickness began to appear. I stopped working because of severe morning sickness.

What does morning sickness feel like? It's hard to describe. It's a bit like vomiting after drinking too much, but unlike vomiting, this feeling appears at any time, many times a day. Specifically, it is probably stomach discomfort that causes convulsions, and then pantothenic acid begins to reach the throat, and the throat sends out the notes of "Yue" uncontrollably. Next, undigested things gushed out of the throat like volcanic magma eruption, even out of the nostrils accidentally.

This feeling is still vivid, because from the third month of pregnancy to the day of delivery, my morning sickness lasted for 28 weeks. But neither the discomfort of morning sickness nor the pain of childbirth is as sad as my husband said:

"You see that people are still at work the day before giving birth, and then watch you eat at home."

At that time, he said this as a joke, and everyone thought it was just a joke. But when I heard this sentence, I suddenly fell silent and woke up from the sweet wedding.

Anyway, I must have my own job and be financially independent. Otherwise, the marriage life in the future can only be a chicken feather.

So after giving birth, I chose milk powder to feed, gave it to his grandmother when the child was four months old, and went out to work by myself. Of course, I know that milk powder feeding is not as good as breast milk, and grandma's care is not as considerate as mom's. However, I must work and be financially independent, so that I can take the initiative in all aspects of my life.

Now, the baby is about to celebrate its second birthday. In these two or three years, he has experienced a lot. Morning sickness and the pain of giving birth are trivial things. My father-in-law was hospitalized for surgery. In the second month, my father broke his arm and leg, my child was ill and almost cut his lung, and my father was hospitalized for a stroke ... After I got married, I seemed to open Pandora's box and was severely touched by life.

But fortunately, I survived.

Thinking about how to spend it now is nothing more than facing it at the moment when things appear. Anyway, as Scarlett said at the end of Gone with the Wind, tomorrow is another day.