If you can’t do it yourself, don’t think others can’t do it.

You may have been a bad student in high school, and saw those students who were usually similar to you. Suddenly one day he said that he wanted to study hard and be ranked among the top in the class. He also wanted to be in the next exam. How many students will be tested in the grade? And after you heard his "jokes and big words", you laughed in your heart, who is he? Who is he? If I don't see him working hard or studying, how can he do it? What's more, you may ridicule him to his face or speak ill of him behind his back.

But he did it. You immediately become a clown, but you are not an arrogant clown. You are not a criminal master in Batman. You are just a clown for others to laugh at. Even others have forgotten your jokes. , you will feel that you are pretentious and ridiculous! You are worthless in the eyes of others.

Maybe you see those touching characters on TV who are pretentious. The speeches of the students at the ceremony were all copied from Baidu. Their life experiences are all fictional and not true. For example, how hard they study 24 hours a day, 5 hours for sleeping, 1 hour for eating and bathing, and the other 18 hours studying, etc. Although I also think many of them are exaggerated, some are real and sometimes the reality is so exaggerated. Having said that, why are they rated as touching figures and elected as student representatives, but you are not? Why can't you do it despite all the able-bodied people? Because you have always been following the trend like this, comforting yourself with the spiritual victory method, and always thinking that you are a loser, and everyone who is similar to you is also a loser. Do you think that's what you think?

The only constant in the world is change, to borrow Jack Ma’s words. No one is a loser forever, people will change, and why do you stay in the puddle?

When others make the right choice, you will do whatever it takes to mislead them. If they ignore you, you will become angry and immediately become a keyboard warrior. You can talk about wind and rain, but you can control the wind and rain. !

The world is changing. Tree buds will grow into towering trees sooner or later if they have the right conditions. Even if grass buds give you gold, you will only grow 2-3 meters. If your spiritual height remains unchanged, what will happen to you?