How to effectively counter replies such as "As long as you are happy"?

I went to dinner with my sister last weekend and saw a couple walking in tandem. The girl walked in front and got angry, while the boy followed behind and kept coaxing.

It’s more of a public show of affection than a quarrel. I don’t know if she was coaxed, but the boy kissed her twice when he caught up with her, but the girl still walked forward, and the boy continued to follow behind, muttering: "Don't be angry, I will buy you a small cake."

The girl asked him without looking back: "Why did you hide when I kissed you in the store just now?"

The boy quickly explained: "There were too many people and there were children behind me, so I hid. She's not hiding from you."

The girl continued to walk forward with a hum, and the boy followed without being annoyed. The conditions became more and more open, from cakes to lobsters to buying lipstick and bags, and they hugged each other. Gone far.

Taking a closer look, the difficulty of a girlfriend depends on how much the boyfriend loves his girlfriend. When you love, you can go to heaven; when you don't love, you can go to hell.

I found that most girls have only one purpose for losing their temper, which is to make their boyfriend care more about her and pamper her like a little girl. If nothing happens, she can kiss, hug, and lift her up. It couldn't be better.

And many boys will regard girls who lose their temper when they disagree and roll around asking for hugs as "acting". I really don’t know what those boys are thinking. When they lose their temper, it proves that girls still care.

If one day, she starts to ignore your indifference and doesn’t care about anything, it means that the girl is too lazy to be angry with you, and she might as well care about a dog if she cares about you.

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If you ask me, girls are pretty cute when they lose their temper, and being a boyfriend who can coax girls is even cuter.

A male classmate asked everyone for advice in the group, saying that his girlfriend likes to be angry. He tried this method to make her happy, but she was still angry for a few days and asked her what she wanted. She bought it and got angry at him. She didn't tell him anything and always looked down on him.

A large number of people came out of the group and started preaching:

You just spoil her too much.

Women are meant to be pampered, not to be spoiled and spoiled.

No matter what she does, let her fend for herself. There are so many women in the world, why should you coax her.

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It makes me look embarrassed. According to this thinking, it is a miracle to have a girlfriend. For those boys who say their girlfriends are difficult to coax, whether they are actually coaxing her is a question.

There is time for everyone to come up with bad ideas, so it is better to be simple and rude. When your girlfriend is angry, just hug her and never let go no matter how hard she struggles. When she calms down, calmly ask her why she is angry?

Sometimes, the quarrel between two people is just one of the normal channels to vent emotions in the emotional world. Often because she loses her temper, she just looks at her being unreasonable and messy, but forgets to think about why a normally good person becomes like this?

I always think that it is difficult to coax. If you coax once, there will be a second time. Over time, the person who coaxes will be annoyed, and the person who is coaxed will also get tired of it.

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There is a saying that goes well: Girls don’t listen to big principles at all. All they want is a hug and a word of care.

So, there are no girls with bad tempers, only boyfriends who are unwilling to coax. Don't treat coaxing your girlfriend as a chore. When you say "get out" in anger, I don't want you to slam the door and leave, but I want you to take a step forward and hug her tightly.

What they want is never the bag or lipstick you learned from others, but a good sentence: "Be good, let's not be angry, okay?"

As long as you If you love me, you will be as coaxable as you want.