Life remote control-life is short, there are some reasons you must know in advance!

Remote Control Life is a comedy fantasy film directed by Frank Coraci and starring adam sandler, kate beckinsale and christopher walken.

The film mainly tells the story of the hero's accidental acquisition of a magical remote control, which brings him all kinds of joys and disasters. The film premiered in America on June 23rd, 2006. (This paragraph is taken from Baidu Encyclopedia)

This is a thought-provoking conscience drama. Although it is presented to everyone in a funny, absurd or even vulgar way, the ending is profound, vivid and complete. Let the people watching laugh, cry, feel, reflect and change.

Adam, king of comedy, USA? Michael Newman, played by Sandler, is a successful American middle class with a successful career, a beautiful wife, lovely children and a happy family. At the same time, he has a positive heart, and he doesn't drink, gamble or go whoring. He is a model of a good man in China!

Do you see your own shadow here?

Yes, let's take a look at Mike's gorgeous life as a "model of good people in China" through film photo editing!

The film begins on a working day morning. My daughter wants to watch TV. Let Mike turn it on. But Mike looked at several remote controls on the coffee table and couldn't say clearly. He turned on the fan, remotely controlled the car and even opened the garage door, but he didn't turn on the TV.

Here is a clip about the remote control, which not only shows the image that Mike, the male owner, is deaf to housework and busy making money, but also paves the way for the emergence of the universal remote control in the following life!

As a senior architect, he efficiently designed so many excellent buildings for various real estate tycoons and elites in the industry. Only his son and daughter wanted to put off the tree house and put it off again and again, standing in the garden like an unfinished building. I wonder if there is such a moment in elite parents' home.

Work is always important, the boss can't offend, and the work can't be shirked, especially people like Mike who are born for work! Fortunately, Mike arrived at the competition site before the end of his son's swimming competition

Panicked Mike ran the wrong track and put his son in the hospital. Faced with such a typical Asian boy's face, I really don't know how Mike could bear to tell a "you don't know" joke!

In the face of his son's complaints and accusations, our poor Mike can only lie that Xiao Wu is drowning and he can't let himself help! It seems that the scene where other children were scared to cry just now because they mistook their sons has never happened. Have you ever done such a witty and humorous thing?

Maybe the son is rebellious, maybe the son has never expressed his love for his father, maybe he has been silent and has not fully expressed his admiration for his father like his daughter, but his father will always be a superhero in his heart! In a subtle way, the son is learning his father's every move, advantages and disadvantages, and even a little action of picking his teeth. Have you observed all this? Dear dads

I think family dinner is an indispensable part of our life. Now, please think back to how many times when you were eating, like Mike in the play, you were in Cao Cao, your heart was in Han, you were at the dinner table, and your heart was working.

Maybe you are still young, maybe you are still angry, maybe you still have a lot you don't like, maybe you still have a lot to swallow. But I want you to know that when you rush out to be brave because you are not convinced, your relatives behind you are always worried about you.

I never knew how to describe and express this paragraph, because I have a pair of parents, who are opposite to my wife Donna. When this happens in our family, sensible parents will give in and let me concentrate on my study and work. After watching this movie, I will think: Who is the most important person in our life?

It is also the beginning of this place. Mike wants a universal remote control that can control all of them! And angrily walked out the door to look for it ...

Because of his kindness and correct outlook on life, Rebecca gave Mike a chance to control his life. Whether you and I want it in real life or not, we can. Psychologically, you created your life. You are a director, and the only difference is whether you are an awakened director or a chaotic actor. All the answers are in the Delphi Oracle of ancient Greece and Rome: Know yourself!

Mike still has no doubt about his pursuit. Like most people who are struggling, he thinks that the current choice is only temporary. What you pay is what you get, and in the future life, you will definitely get double returns!

At the same time, Mike is constantly exploring the potential of the remote control. He skipped the foreplay of having sex with his wife, leaving only the climax of sensory stimulation; He found that he could control the dog's growling at will; He saved all the boring social daily life! As we learned in textbooks when we were young, I only want the third floor! Have no patience, anxiety, hate waiting, forget to enjoy the process from 0 to 1, from scratch.

A lovely daughter, a sensible son and a beautiful wife should be the lifelong pursuit of all normal men. Perhaps, just like an old saying of China: Happiness never comes twice! Mike has everything perfect, but he can't see it. Instead, he pursues invisible fame and fortune!

With the universal remote control, Mike can skip with one button and jump directly to his favorite place, whether he doesn't want to face the trouble of dressing up before going to work or having dinner with his family after work! Work, only work is the answer to everything for Mike.

I think you may also say: I want this one-click universal remote control, so I don't have to endure the endless nagging of my parents and the unreasonable troubles of my wife and girlfriend.

Maybe you are a rational person, you don't believe such a nonsense story, and you think it is impossible to ignore your own life, let alone jump off a building!

What I'm going to tell you now may be beyond your cognition, but please take it seriously. Psychologically speaking, we have the ability of selective attention and a state of emptiness. In our life, we will get information according to the ideas in our brains, form our own life, and at the same time we will selectively ignore some information. In other words, you create the world you know, and you ignore some beautiful or sad things that you don't want to believe and see.

Will Rebecca's intentional dissuasion get Mike's approval?

Will Mike really live a step-by-step life?

The original joy no longer exists. Mike hates this fast-paced life. He needs to participate in the growth of his daughter and son, and he also wants to have a complete sex life. But all this was disrupted by his fast-forward mode, which Mike hated.

Maybe you will still say it's none of your business, no! The remote control in this article actually corresponds to your subconscious. When you get used to fast-forwarding life, your subconscious mind will form a kind of thinking inertia, which invisibly dominates your behavior and makes you out of control. You will be angry for no reason, angry for no reason. Just like many news reports, a very rational person finally stabbed a melon vendor with a knife because of a two-dollar watermelon. Maybe you will feel incredible afterwards, and I don't know why I did it. These are all your subconscious arrangements!

Mike chose fast forward again. Ten years later, Mike became the CEO of the company, but he also became a real fat man. The wife also married someone else's wife, but the tree house that can still be promised to his children is still not finished.

As Rebecca said, you can fool your wife or yourself, but you can't fool the remote control. As we said before, the remote control of movies actually implies our subconscious, and we can't fool our subconscious. Just like sometimes we get sick inexplicably, we think this is the normal law of birth, aging, illness and death.

Actually, it's not. When you resist something that you can't control and change, your subconscious mind is likely to take a pathological way to solve it. For example, when we were young, because of family difficulties, some foods were only eaten when we were sick. There was a strange phenomenon, that is, sometimes we were sick and didn't need to take medicine, but our parents bought you delicious food, and your illness recovered. Of course, this is not to say that you are pretending to be sick, but that your subconscious mind has arranged such a bridge to let you get what you want. It's like a reflex!

Mike wants to change the course of his life, but it's easier said than done. The universal remote control (subconscious) is so intelligent and powerful that it is difficult to change once it is set.

Mike succeeded, and his son was as successful as Mike, sitting in Mike's old office. It's just that my son is much healthier than Mike. Mike feels very strange and asks how Ben did it.

At the beginning of the film, we said that the father is a superhero in his son's heart forever, so he should have been as fat as Mike. In fact, class used to be so fat, but Mike skipped the life of 16, and class started a new fitness mode under the leadership of his new father.

In fact, the director here also wants to tell us not to be discouraged. Although the subconscious is powerful, it is not immutable. As long as we keep exercising and cultivate our new behavior habits and subconscious thinking with awareness and love, our life can be very different!

When Mike became famous, he thought of his parents and family, wanted to live a normal life and enjoy his family, but he found that his father had left him and would never see him again.

Mike, who has a magic remote control, can return to the previous scene to say goodbye to his father after a hundred years, and regret it. Is it okay? Won't we regret it?

In order to make my wife and children live a happy life, I sacrificed everything, but in the end I got everything, but I lost my family. A wife is someone else's wife and a child is someone else's child. Mike, did you really succeed?

At his son's wedding, Mike couldn't accept that he fainted on the spot and was admitted to the hospital.

I have repented, but my son is repeating his own tragedy! How can you be at peace with yourself?

The film has come to an end, and we have to reflect on our lives throughout the play. What is the most important thing in our life?

Parents?

When his father died, Mike wasn't there. He didn't even know.

Wife?

Even the foreplay before sex in bed can't stand it, and finally the wife who loves herself is forced to become another woman.

Daughter and son?

The tree house promised to children was never built until death, and sons and daughters were calling others to be fathers.

Life is short. There are some reasons that we must know in advance!

1, we are the directors of our own lives, and we need to be responsible for our own choices and results.

2, need to wait! Admittedly, everyone has needs, but we must be patient enough, everything will come, it just takes time. However, anxiety, anger and irritability can't be accelerated at all. Only a normal mind is the most correct choice!

There are always some people who will feel regret and disappointment when making choices, but we should know who is the most important person and who can be chosen. Don't be like Mike, all your efforts are in vain!

4, the tree wants to be quiet and the wind will not stop, and the child wants to raise and not stay. Spend more time with your parents and family. Don't wait until everything is gone to make up for it. You can only regret it for life.

5. Be aware of your life, and don't let it get out of control and run wildly in the wilderness of time. Here, I recommend Taiwan Province writer Zhang Defen's book "Meeting the Unknown Self", which contains good ways to practice self-awareness and is simple and interesting to read.

Enlightenment is only a moment, but practice takes a lifetime! May you and I both have a life without regret!