The first time I went out with a girl, why did I ignore you the next day?

This is very simple. You didn't make a good impression on the girl on the first date. If girls think you are not suitable, they will naturally stop contacting you.

The impression you give at the first meeting is very important. Generally, girls will have a rigid standard for their future boyfriends or husbands, such as not smoking or drinking. Once you can't meet the standards in a girl's mind, she won't talk to you. It is also possible that during the dating process, you didn't perform well, and many details will leave a bad impression on girls.

First, it does not conform to the image of "Prince Charming" in girls' hearts.

Many girls have thought about what kind of boyfriend they want before they have nowhere to meet, and they will set some hard standards. Some basic conditions such as height, weight and appearance are very important. Once a boy can't meet the standards of a girl, he can only say goodbye.

However, the probability of this happening is very low. Now that the network communication is so developed, you must have talked before your first date. There are many things to ask during the chat, and you can also take photos and videos. Although the two have never really met, they should have met in their usual photos and videos.

However, there are also some places where communication is not developed enough. It is possible that they just chat before meeting, and there is no video. Moreover, the photo fraud rate is too high, which may lead to the two people not mastering the basic information.

I have certain requirements for height. If my boyfriend is less than 170, even if he is good-looking, I will not associate. I'm not tall myself. Finding another one will affect the next generation!

Second, when dating, I was not very sensible, and some details made the girl dissatisfied.

This is very likely to happen. Many people talk well when they don't meet, but they are not good at doing things. When you meet a girl for the first time, you need to consider many things, such as where to play, how to get there, where to eat and so on. The most important thing is to be masculine.

I remember that shortly after I graduated from college, I still lived with my former college roommate after I found a job. Our relationship is very good. At this time, her roommate introduced her to an object. Chatting with this boyfriend for a while, both sides felt very good and talked very speculatively. The boy invited my roommate out to play.

My roommate felt embarrassed to meet for the first time, so he took me with him to help me observe this person. They made an appointment at a rather high-end restaurant. After going in, the boy came and I separated from my roommate. I don't want to be a third wheel when someone else is dating.

Then I saw two people and asked the waiter to order, but the boy didn't know how to get his roommate to order a few dishes and it was over. Later, when he checked out, he wanted to make an AA system with his roommate. My roommate was very angry and handed over all the money, asking the boys not to contact him in the future.

Such a boy is just too incompetent and has no gentlemanly manners at all. I think few girls can stand this kind of first date, and they want AA boys. Especially for domestic girls, it may be acceptable abroad.

Many girls care about hard and unchangeable standards, but the details of dating are also important. Most girls attach great importance to the first date. They may not say anything on a date, but they will definitely secretly observe whether you are suitable to be their boyfriend.

So you should think about what details you didn't do well in the dating process, or tell your friends about the dating process and ask them to help you analyze it. If you talk well at ordinary times and ignore you after only one date, there must be a reason.