What are some behaviors that look smart but are actually stupid?

1. Always think that you are better than others. When you see a certain behavior of the other party, you will habitually think that he is stupid.

In fact, there is a reason for the other party to do this. Everyone is in a different environment and personal status, so the final choice will be different. Without understanding the actual situation of the other party, relying only on some one-sided information, superficial observation and thinking cannot simulate the optimal path of the other party.

2. Keen on taking advantage of small things. I spent a lot of time just to save a little money, feel complacent, and be willing to share my experience. Even a simple decision can take several days to "think over."

In fact, I can’t distinguish between priorities and don’t understand cost-effectiveness. Spending too much energy on small things, leaving no time for the really important things.

3. Input without discrimination and indulge in low-density, fragmented learning. I often feel that I have learned a lot, gained a lot, and defeated 99% of the people around me.

In fact, most of the content I watch is gossip, jokes, chicken soup, short videos of handsome guys and beauties, etc. There is not much nutritious content. Even if you see some fragmented useful information, you will basically forget it after a while. Because it is not systematic, you will not review and apply it.

4. Play the piano to a cow, and talk to the summer insects. He seems to be patient, always considers the other person, wants to rely on his own wisdom to convince the other person, and tries to change the other person.

In fact, if the other person’s understanding has not reached a certain level, or the two people’s views are completely different, it is useless to talk to the other person more. It's like speaking cat language to a dog, it's meaningless to reason with someone who can't reason.

5. Goofing off at work/class, cheating, and being complacent, thinking that bosses, leaders, colleagues, teachers, classmates... are all fools.

In fact, what you are wasting is your own time and future growth opportunities. No one is stupid. In the long run, everyone will eventually be disappointed and cast aside.

6. I think I am very enthusiastic, like to help others, give favors, and do things in a hurry. I often rush to help before I understand the situation.

In fact, if you are not discerning, you will always be unhelpful to others, and even if you don’t need help from others at all, you will end up destroying other people’s work.

7. Taking chances and blindly pursuing shortcuts. You think you have a plan, and if you master the routine, you will be invincible in the world. If you succeed once in a while, you look forward to good luck coming again.

In fact, their three views have collapsed, they have lost their moral bottom line, and even worse, they are walking on the edge of the law, seemingly faster than others. In fact, once something goes wrong, you will lose everything and fall into an endless abyss.

8. Continuously reveal everything you know, and still feel that you are very powerful, and hope that the other party will treat you sincerely.

In fact, he is careless and sometimes even exposes his weaknesses to people with ulterior motives.

9. Obsessed with networking. He always likes to advertise who he knows, blindly aiming to meet great people, increase the number of friends, and enter certain high-end circles. Obsessed with superficial connections.

In fact, it has no exchangeable value. It is a one-way link and no one else knows about it. Or it may be just a one-time relationship, which cannot deepen the relationship further, but wastes a lot of time.

10. Overdrawing your body, constantly consuming your health for a little money, a little honor, or other petty profits.

In fact, if you lose your health, you will have to pay a greater price to "maintain" and "repair" your body later.

11. Like to take advantage, think that they are extremely smart, scheme against others, never suffer losses, and take pleasure in this.

In fact, in the long run, if you lose your heart, you will basically have no friends at all in the end.

12. Obsessed with taking shortcuts and blindly pursuing quick results.

When it comes to learning, I always pursue quick results in a short period of time. I am passionate about:

"Reading World Classics in 30 Minutes",

"3 Tips to Make a Male God Desire You",

"5 Tips to Make the Goddess Remember You".

In fact, we focus on skills but ignore the process. Many things require accumulation. Learning is not only watching and listening, but also requires your own thinking, summary, internalization, practice, reflection, etc. series process. Including some excellent books, we need to understand them ourselves and continuously improve our personal thinking and summarizing abilities.

13. Thinking a lot can be described as "far-sighted". Before taking action, I often wonder, what if I fail?

In fact, worries are unfounded. When other people talk about marriage, they think of what they would do if they get divorced if they don't get along with their partner. In fact, I don’t have a girlfriend/boyfriend yet.

14. Habitually stare at other people’s mistakes, deny them, and improve themselves. They always like to find flaws in others, seek a sense of superiority from others, and feel that they are better than others.

In fact, time is wasted on some meaningless arguments. Arguing for the sake of argument is very annoying. Slowly there was no one around to play with him.

15. Don’t know how to relax and are stubborn. It seems that only making good use of every minute can be considered hard work. I made a lot of plans and filled all my time. I felt very fulfilled when I made the plans.

In fact, it is very painful to execute. This kind of sprint cannot last for a long time, and often gives up halfway, which makes myself more anxious. It’s even inefficient, and the output in three hours is not as good as one hour.

16. Those who seek stability in everything and are extremely risk-averse always want to have a sure-fire strategy, and they must prepare until everything is foolproof before starting. With the slightest accident, I feel like I have lost control.

In fact, I have been preparing for it, but I have been unable to start, and I have turned a blind eye to some good opportunities. I don’t understand that the world is always changing, and everything is not absolute, but has its own probability.

17. Blind preaching, without understanding the other party or the other party’s difficulties, blindly persuading the other party as a person who has experienced it. Let the other person give up pursuing their dreams, and then cite a lot of cases until the other person's eyes dim and they lose hope in life.

In fact, it is tireless to destroy people and does great harm to them.

18. Over-interpretation. After learning some knowledge about human nature and the skills of understanding people, I habitually blindly interpret other people’s behaviors and think that I have seen through them.

In fact, blindly applying without certain experience will only make a lot of jokes.

19. I refuse other people’s well-intentioned sharing and feel that I am inconvenient to others, but I still feel that I know how to take care of others.

In fact, if the other party took the time to come over and distribute things to everyone, but he would not accept them, it would embarrass them and lose face. In the end, he was also incompatible with everyone's relationship, giving people an impression of being out of touch.

20. Always like to show off oneself and show off one’s superiority. He is sharp and sharp. When others speak, he always refutes the other person and shows off his knowledge.

In fact, in the end, he was either targeted or hated by others, and he always showed off his strength, which turned out to be a typical case of being shot first.

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