Why do I have troubles or small grievances? If I complain to my buddy, I won't be understood. On the contrary, I even laughed at me. Are you in trouble now?

You don't have to talk to your boyfriend about your troubles. You can talk to some girlfriends of the opposite sex appropriately! Perhaps most people will think that a man is complaining when he finds someone to talk about his troubles, but everyone has different ways to vent. So you can talk to your close and introverted friends, which will be better, or you can talk to me, and I am willing to listen to you, hehe!