What happened to those women who asked men to buy a house in full?

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From love to marriage, it should have been beautiful, but many men didn't get married because they couldn't afford a house. Especially when the man is an ordinary person and the woman asks the man to buy a house in full, the final result often ends in discord. Why is this happening? Is it a man's fault? Or is it a woman's fault? From the standpoint of men and women, it seems that no one is wrong. However, women have been criticized for asking men to buy a house in full before marriage. Let's see what happens to women who ask men to buy a house in full.

1, Jiang Lin: "She is still single."

I fell in love with her for four years from college to work, but I didn't expect to lose to the house in the end. I never found out that she would do this to me when I was in love. We are so close, but when she said she was going to get married, she insisted that I buy a house in full, but she couldn't convince me. I just worked for a few years, just an ordinary employee, and my parents don't have much money. You can't buy a full house if you sell it yourself. She said I was incompetent, that I didn't love her, that other men were better than me, that other men's husbands bought a house in full, and finally broke up with me.

I can't stay because the house problem can't be solved at all. Although I love her, I can only silently wish her happiness. I waited for her for two years and wanted to get back together, but she kept saying, "As long as you can buy a house in full, I will marry you immediately." I finally decided to give up her and choose my present wife, and we live happily together in mortgage to buy a house. And she, according to her classmates, is single so far, and has been in love in the middle, but the requirements are too high and no one wants it.

2. Du Heng: "She married a man who is not as good as me and didn't buy a house."

I met at work, fell in love for two years, and prepared to get married. When we first talked, she agreed to buy a house with me. But a few days later, she changed her mind. I don't know who encouraged her. She asked me to buy a house in full, saying it was a prerequisite for marrying me. I said that I can't buy a house in full at this stage. As a result, she said, "If we can't buy a house in full, let's break up!" Don't even give me the chance to buy a house in full through struggle. I'm angry. I broke up with such a woman anyway.

Later, she began to fall in love with others, but after several talks, no one was willing to buy her a house in full. Ironically, after she realized this, she came back to get back together with me and said she was willing to buy a house with me. What do you take me for? You find that no one wants to buy a house for you in full and then come to me. Is this a garbage collection station? I turned her down. I had to do it. Then she married a man who was not as good as me. She doesn't even have a loan to buy a house. After they got married, they rented a house.

Now I have bought two houses in full through my own efforts. Although I am not married for the time being, these are all my capital. I won't let my marriage break up because I can't afford a house. These houses used to belong to her, but she doesn't cherish me, so it's none of my business.

3. Li Mo: "She married someone else, and the house is paid in installments."

I met her on a blind date. I had a house in my hometown at that time. After the blind date was successful, my parents began to prepare for our marriage. However, she is going to get married soon, and suddenly she wants to buy a house, and she has to buy it in the city and pay it in full, otherwise she will not get married. Her sudden change of heart upset all the rhythms. I took my parents and matchmaker to her house to discuss this matter. Not only did she not let go, but her parents also said they supported her. I was devastated. What could be worse? How can you go back on your word on such an important matter as marriage?

Because our marriage has been decided and invitations have been sent out, my parents are afraid of being laughed at, so they choose to compromise and say that they can pay the down payment first and then borrow money to buy a house. This was a big concession, but she didn't agree and decided to break off the marriage on the spot. I really can't stand this kind of woman. I was so angry that I decided to break off my engagement.

I thought it was over, but after a while, her parents came to me again and said that it was ok to buy a house with a loan. Ha ha! It's too late to say yes now! Are we humiliated by humiliating me and my parents like that? Do I have to marry her if she wants to get married? What a joke!

She later went on a blind date with another person. I heard that she didn't agree, but her parents forced her to get married. The man didn't have a house in his hometown, but bought a one-bedroom apartment in the city, or bought it with a loan. I just want to say to her, what a suck! If you are not sure about a good marriage, you only deserve to live like this.

4. Xu Chen: "We are married, but we quarrel with me every day."

I read many cases similar to mine on the Internet, in which the woman asked the man to buy a house in full before marriage, and many men finally chose to give up. Unlike them, I finally married her. However, life is not easy at all.

Before we got married, she insisted that I buy a house in full. I couldn't buy a full house at all, so she asked my parents to pay, but my parents didn't have a maximum of 100 thousand, and all the money together was not enough to buy a house of 1 million. So we've been stalling. In this process, I have been doing the ideological work of her and her parents. After half a year, she finally compromised, saying that it was ok to buy a house with a loan, but I had to pay the down payment myself. I'll have to repay the loan myself in the future. She said she didn't want to get into debt after marrying me. I was anxious to get married, so I promised her. But after marriage, she quarreled with me almost every day, either because I didn't earn enough money, or because the house was not good, or because she was unhappy. Anyway, no matter what the quarrel is at first, I will eventually come up with the point that "I don't have the full amount to buy a house" to hit me.

What else can I do? I earned almost all the expenses at home. Haven't I done enough? I really regret marrying her now. In this case, I surpassed many people. I don't understand why she is not satisfied!

Women want to be happy after marriage, but happiness can't fall from the sky. Happiness without pain is not happiness. You asked a man to buy a house for you in full. What did you do for him? Because you are a woman? What do you take yourself for? Do men have to give you millions of houses when they get married? Do you think marriage is a transaction? If you want to marry a rich man, it goes without saying that you will also buy a house in full. But most men are ordinary people, and there is no way to pay off millions of houses at one time. If a woman doesn't know this, she is an idiot! If you think this man can't do it, there must be other men who can do it, then go find it! Don't you know what you are? Do you deserve a man who can buy a house in full? Men want to buy a house in full, but they can't afford it. If you have to buy it in full, you are forcing people to do so.

Seeing this, some women may have opinions that it is natural for women to ask men to buy a house. Nothing is taken for granted! If a man doesn't even want to buy a house with a loan, you can spit on him, but if he is trying his best to meet your requirements and you insist on buying a house in full, that's your problem. You don't even share the responsibility of the house with men, so why don't you get married and stay single for life?