15. Will falling in love among college students affect their studies?

As for whether falling in love among college students will affect their studies? This is one of the new discussion topics in "Children in University". First of all, I think this question should vary from person to person and be analyzed on a case-by-case basis! However, my opinion on this issue is: No!

Although my daughter has not yet been involved in this sensitive topic, in order to participate in the discussion and express her own opinions, I will extend the story that happened around me to show my point of view:

1) In 2004, the son of a colleague of mine was studying at Zhejiang Marine Fisheries School (Part 2). He was not an outstanding student, but he happened to meet a beautiful girl in college. The girl was very gentle and delicate, and had excellent academic performance. They seemed to have this in his sophomore year (Part 2). There are signs and symptoms of love. My colleague not only did not prevent her son from falling in love, but also encouraged and promoted her son to pursue it. At that time, we laughed at this mother. She was really interesting. Generally speaking, she did Parents will try their best to stop it. However, later facts proved that her son's learning made a qualitative leap and progress only with the constant help of his "girlfriend". Moreover, the two of them also formulated learning goals and competition plans, and they had a great time chasing after each other. After graduating from college last year, I was miraculously admitted to the ranks of civil servants in Ningbo City. My colleagues grinned every day.

2) In 2005, the son of a classmate of mine studied in the Department of Physics (Meteorology Major) of Peking University. This kid is really talented and smart, and he is lively and active. The only drawback is that he is very thin (height 162cm), but when he got to college, he became a core figure, and his cohesion is quite strong. Haha, even though he is small, he is very clever. But my classmate only found out that her son had a girlfriend in her junior year (at first she was still worried that her son would not be able to find a girlfriend?!). What my classmate didn’t expect was that the girl was both good-looking and tall, and she was studying at Nankai University in Tianjin. Hehe, little did he know that they were quite good high school classmates. It never affected their studies and kept their grades every time. At the upper-intermediate level, he accompanied his senior brother to interview with the National Weather Service in 2007. However, his senior brother failed and he was chosen by the National Weather Service and became a non-staff member at school. Now the two children are still flying together, and their filial piety towards their parents has doubled, which is enviable!