How to improve the pattern of men?

Case refers to the degree of cognition of things within the cognitive scope, and bureau refers to what is done and the result of things within the cognitive scope.

As far as personal understanding is concerned, the so-called pattern is nothing more than a person's own attitude towards life and the way of handling things, which is determined by his cognitive scope and degree of things. As for how to improve the pattern, I personally think there are several steps:

1, Step 1: Clear your mind and see your nature.

. Su Dongpo and Fo Yin are good friends. One day, he asked Fo Yin, What do I look like sitting here?

Fo Yin said honestly: You sit there like a Buddha.

Su Dongpo smiled and said, you are a big fat man. You sit there like a pile of cow dung ~ ~ hahaha!

When Su Dongpo came home, he told his brilliant sister Su Xiaomei his joke about taking advantage. I don't know. My little sister sneered when she heard it. She said: Brother, you are still meditating with this understanding ... There is a saying in Buddhism that "seeing the heart and seeing the nature", what you see in your eyes is what you have in your heart. Fo Yin thinks you are a Buddha because he has a Buddha in his heart. You said he was a pile of cow dung, but in your heart ... gnome male-"!

I didn't mean to laugh at Mr. Su by giving this example. I just want to give you an example. The perfection of the pattern will go through such a process, that is, I suddenly understand myself and see my true colors.

Only by discovering your true heart and recognizing your true nature can you know how to improve the pattern.

Step 2: Insight

If someone calls me when he is drunk, even if he says a lot of unimportant things, even if he wakes up my good dream, I will still listen to him quietly, because I know that I am a very important existence to him.

With the formation of the pattern, many times, the perspective of seeing things will slowly change.

For example, the above example;

Another example is to enjoy the nagging of parents, because it is also like a beautiful movement;

For example, when you see cheating in the workplace, you laugh, because these behaviors are really childish!

Only by recognizing the essence of things and appreciating all beautiful things can we seize fleeting opportunities.

Step 3: Faith

Originally, I wanted to say something tough and confident, but after thinking about it, I was not as sure as my own beliefs.

A person's beliefs can include all aspects of self-confidence, tenacity and personality. .

So, give yourself a belief and make it strong through daily persistence.