"Look, even the children think you are ugly": How many marriages are ruined by careless little things?

My best friend called me crying for a divorce. She said she wanted to help her son bathe last night, but the child said no because she was afraid of her mother's stomach.

I was there when she gave birth. The baby's head is too big, but she still wants to give birth naturally. As a result, she gave birth for a day and a night without success, and finally turned to caesarean section.

Later, I recovered, but I didn't raise it well. The scar was very conspicuous. I have not only that scar on my stomach, but also many traces of pregnancy.

She didn't care what the child said, but when the husband took a bath with the child in his arms, he casually said, "Did you hear that? Even children think you are ugly. "

She was very angry and asked, "What do you mean? What do you mean children think I'm ugly? "

The husband even said casually, "I'm not interested."

She quarreled with her husband in an instant, and felt very sad that the child had not kissed her husband and loved her for so many years.

My son cried in fear and said, "Mom is a crazy bitch", so did my father and aunt.

She was just angry. Hearing her son's words, she cried at once. She was wronged. She was also a beauty at first. How did she become a "crazy bitch" now?

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Seeing her grievance, I suddenly remembered that when a distant relative of mine was eating full moon wine, all our female guests were watching the children in the room.

After giving birth, that sister didn't have much milk, so she was helpless to hold her baby and feed it with milk powder. As a result, her husband suddenly said, it is better to cut it.

This must be a joke, but is it funny?

A lot of things are like this. Men don't care, but women sound like a blunt knife to cut meat, because this sentence reveals sarcasm, does not cherish, and does not like it. ...

Another netizen who has been a full-time mother for many years once told me that after giving birth to a child, she has been a husband to support her family and spend her husband's money.

Once her husband needed a minor operation and was hospitalized for several days. She is busy taking care of her. Relatives and friends who came to visit praised her kindness, but her husband smiled and said, "After raising her for so long, she finally has a place to use."

Everyone burst into laughter at once.

She didn't smile at all, and suddenly she felt a great sense of humiliation and wanted to leave here for an instant.

But she finally put up with it and silently cut the fruit he wanted to eat in her laughter.

After a long time, she mentioned it to her husband, who had long forgotten it. She reminded him for a long time, and he said impatiently, "You women are really troublesome. It takes so long to write about such a trivial matter."

She never mentioned it again, but she could not forget it.

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This may be the injustice of countless women in the world.

But can this wronged person understand? I can't.

The worst thing about feelings is that men don't understand women's feelings. Your grievance is defined by him as melodramatic, and your struggle is interpreted by him as unreasonable.

Men always don't understand how a good woman can become a crazy woman full of grievances.

Most women are much more delicate and sensitive than men. She will feel wronged because some men seem small, but this is not her affectation, she does.

Why do old couples always seem less intimate than newlyweds?

In addition to the reasons, the fading of love may be because women are cold-hearted.

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Here I suggest men:

Please get rid of the stereotype that "women are very productive and troublesome creatures" and the self-righteous idea that "why are you unhappy about such a trivial matter"

Take your lover seriously and see her grievances and desires.

A woman is naturally sensitive, some of which you find unreasonable, but it really hurts her, but you don't feel it.

At this time, you just need to listen to her carefully and tell the cause and effect, and everything will be fine.

What I fear most is not feeling, forgetting, being self-righteous and avoiding communication.

In fact, if a woman can really feel your love for her from the heart and you are kind to her, she can tolerate many of your bad habits, and even if you are poor, she will always accompany you.

I'm afraid you don't care about her feelings at all, and she will leave in despair.